oooh damn dude, I've had this happen to me awhile ago, and had a lot of time to think about things since then. what I would've done in your place was:
1. should've thought twice about FC her, unless she was just too much to let go.
2. should've called her the very next day and made her feel like she's not just a one night stand, she feels extremely dirty right now and you need to qualify her. If you qualify her, the rape scare wont be there and you'll have the opportunity to be honest and tell her "i'm sorry, you're amazing but this wont work because we're just too different" or something along that line.
I made the mistake of taking a 23yr old's virginity and didn't call her afterwards, that was a nightmare and I ended up with a stalker for a few months.
as for the calls and the fake name...that I've never dealt with. I'm always honest about who I am, I never sneak around because what if you meet "the one"? you wont be able to keep her because of the lies.
and that's what it sounds like to me. she's calling you out on everything.
your best bet is to come clean. call her or message her and clear the air. If a guy answers, who gives a f**k? you've already had sex with her, what's he gonna do? and if it's her dad, then man up and be respectful to him. he's on her side in all of this, so you just gotta bear with him.
and keep a close ear out for lies and deceit in the convos with her and whoever else on that call...she could pull the 'i'm pregnant' scam because you took her virginity...you'll always be remembered for the guy that deflowered her in her life, she'll never forget you. And it's up to you to make sure you don't ruin her, or turn her into someone that will have a chip on her shoulder for every guy for the rest of her life.
then again after really reading your post, it does sound like either she was under 18, she's trying to locate your info for legal reasons, or maybe she's just trying to find out about you because she wants to know more...the only way to find out is if you actually talk to her. That's the only way to clear this up. It's better than destroying yourself over all this. _________________ If you eliminate the impossible, only the obvious remains
-Albert Einstein
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