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Good job mate. Can you post your conversation from tinder and what you said exactly? I have no problem hooking up with girls I meet in person, its a pain in the butt to get them to meet tho. They wanna talk for days or are just plain cold. And im not a bad looking guy so its not physical attraction that stops them either.
Thanks in advance.
Sure. Im not gonna transcribe the whole thing but I will do my best (also it wasnt written in english, so I'm gonna have to adjust some of it. I'm gonna try to stay closer to the context then the actual wording but some stuff might sound a little off)
(it started around 11pm)
Her: Hey, how are you?
Me: Hey, I'm great! You? Not in bed yet?
Her: Thats sounds awesome
I'm good too, a little tired. Should go to bed soon.
Me: Yeah, I'm tired as well... God, we sound like an old married couple
(I quickly went to some roleplaying, great to build rapport)
Her: Haha, At 11pm its fine to be tired. Even at our age. But I shouldn't get up too late tmrw.
Me: Hard worker? What do you have planned?
Her: Uni at 12. But I need to study before that. Or better: I feel obligated to.
(at that point I had to change the subject quickly, work/uni is a shit tinder topic, keep it light and fluffy!)
Me: Awww... You're so cute. You shouldnt talk to me. haha
(Im gonna tell her not to meet me alot)
Her: Probably not, but If i go to sleep now, I'm gonna have to work all day.
Me: So were gonna loose each other soon, huh? sounds like a dramatic lovestory to me.
(again roleplaying, ive framed her as my old wife and dramatic lover in about 20 minutes, thats really important)
We did some back and forth the next day, which I'm gonna skip. But I'm gonna show you the #close and how I set up the date.
(she told me that she is studying to become a lawyer)
Her: I don't really like law studentes, they are rather unsympathatic.
Me: Haha and youre the exception?
Her: No, Im probably unsympathatic as well.
Me: So far, youre alright.
Her: Yeah, It only shows if you know me better.
(she baits me but Im not biting)
Me: So we definitly shouldnt ever meet!
Her: Alright, if you say so!
Me: We shouldnt destroy our deep tinder relationship!
Her: Youre right. Real contact destorys those great Tinder relationships.
Me: We could start with smoke signs and work our way through to morse code and then maybe exchange phone numbers in 1-2 years.
Her: Great idea, but Im gonna have to study smoke signs first. May take while.
Me: Alright, see ya in 2015
Her: Maybe even longer. I hope I will find you.
Me: I'll wait. Even if it takes 10 yrs.
Her: Thanks for your patience.
Me: (i sent her my number) Oh sorry, now I destroyed the romance.
Her: A little, but Im gonna forgive you.
(now we went on on SPAM, did some back and forth)
Her: Im really a good girl.
Me: Yeah, I just dont want you to be all over me on our first date.
Her: Who says were gonna have a date at all?
(now that was the key moment!)
Me: Alrighty, always wanted to have a penpal.
(I could have tried to reason with her, smth like "but its tinder we are supposed to meet" or some shit, but that wasnt neccessary as youre gonna see)
Her: Alright... I thought about it, we could maybe meet up sometime... If youre nice.
Me: Hey, I wanted to marry you, and you didnt... Who isnt nice here?
(again roleplaying, instead of taking the bait)
Her: Yeah, I feel bad about that. You seem really nice, as far as I can tell. Dont really know you though.
Me: Yeah, Im as nice as somebody you met over tinder can possibly be.
Her: Thats the thing. Most guys on Tinder are really weird... Not sure why Im even using it... What do you do in terms of studying/working btw?
Me: Shouldnt we keep some conversation material in case we ever decide to meet up?
Her: Very misterious.
But just so you know, Im not into one night stands, just to make that clear.
Me:
I didn't think that, dont worry.
Her: Alright... Then we could meet!