| So, you’re at a bar of a Saturday night, you’re enjoying yourself, taking in the SPAM, chatting to your buddies, and getting yourself amped up to go “pick-up” some chicks after watching 500 YouTube videos.
You start becoming aware of the guys who are already attempting to hit on girls. These guys, for the most part stand out like a sore thumb. Many are loudly expressive and politely latching onto every different part of her elbow to get this minutes escalation in.
Meanwhile, even if the girl likes this guy who is clearly making an effort for her, she must think of some way to brush him off. He is not making it easy for her to be seduced, even if she wants to, he is not showing intelligence to her needs, and to the needs of the social environment. This is where sexual intelligence comes in.
Now, let’s say I’m in middle of this social environment, also interacting with a girl sexually…you see nothing. I don’t even exist on your radar.
I hear it all the time from my friends, that when I’m interacting with a girl, it seems like nothing is going on. There is no obvious signs to the outside world that we are going to be having sex in 56 seconds.
This, as you can imagine makes it quite effortless to go up and begin interacting with women who are surrounded by guys, or involved with guys.
Now, let’s be clear, when I say it’s not obvious to anyone else, if I was there and a guy came in behaving as I do, then yes, it’s obvious as I can understand where he is coming from and the principles he’s apply.
This all comes down to understanding, which is what I intend on sharing with you in every piece of content I release.
“Chris WTF, you literally did NOTHING, how are you leaving together already”
monk
I heard the above comment only this weekend, and tends to be repeated quite a lot.
Before I delve into the specifics of the above seduction, let’s look at some things to gain further clarity.
I generally implement intense, laid back, and discreet seductions in pretty much every case. There is many reasons for this.
Firstly, let’s look at what turns women on, fundamentally:
Emotional Impact.
This is something that I wish every ‘nice guy’ out there understood.
A woman is only as attracted to you, as the severity of the emotions you can instil in her.
Women crave excitement, spontaneity, and the fear of the unknown, this turns them on, and literally makes them wet.
When a nice guy is interacting with her and catering to her every need, without any fluctuation in vibe, boredom is created. Suspense is drained, and she must try to think of the kindest way to get away from the most boring man in the world.
I like to compare it to two different scenarios. You can either be the gentle boat ride on the lake, or you can be the world’s greatest roller coaster. Now, what is going to scatter her emotional frequency up, down, and around?
I’m presuming you said rollercoaster, so yes, right answer.
Now, with this in mind, I do not mean for you to burst in the room and run around frantically giving women dead arms, nuggies, telling her she sucks, then confessing your love for them…because this is not stemming from understanding, instead utilizing many of the ‘Pick-up Artists” techniques, but…still better than the nice guy act, in terms of results.
So, we have established, women respond to emotional stimulation, not logical. With this, let’s move to the next part.
The majority of human beings who walk this earth are heavily rooted within societies beliefs and ways of behaviour. The consensus is out, which states this is right, and this is wrong, so only do what we say is right, and avoid what is wrong, even if internally it feels right on every level.
This, is how we live.
We walk around in the prison of society, being told we have freedom, when really its bullshit, as it’s a freedom based on fear, the fear of what other members of this society thinks of us. This keeps most of us in check and in line with the rights and wrongs of mankind’s largest prison, never even questioning the escape route.
I am going to assume, as you are reading this, you have already broke out of this prison, or are in the process. This internal freedom, when you offer it to a woman, or anyone else for that matter, they desire it, as it’s an internal knowing.
This applies to sexual interaction and the power of discreet seduction HUGELY!
She’s such a Slut!
As we are all aware of, women have a raw deal when it comes to being sexual. They are encouraged to express it through body language and clothes, but frowned upon for acting on it. This is where slut shaming comes into the picture.
In order to be a great lover and seducer of women, you MUST understand the internal struggles they suffer. How else can you grant them freedom?
If you fuck her that night then fuck all her sisters and cousins, society will hold a parade for you, and don you as a cool-ass motherfucker; ‘The Man’, ‘the player’ or ‘the pimp’.
Now let’s switch roles, and it’s the woman who has sex with all your cousins friends and brothers…instantly she is a slut! She is called upon by the hierarchies of society and put to shame in a an absolute bashing of her identity. The word slut is used by men, but celebrated by women!
Women, as an entity, all want and the freedom to engage in sexual desire. They are no different to us men in that capacity. So when one of their kind goes off and rejoices in sexual exploration and promiscuity, the others get angry, and jealous; ‘If we cant have sex when we want, then she can’t. She must be punished and put back in the box’.
(I am not referring to all women in this example, but in my experience the majority, as it is the only ‘normal’ response to save face and remain socially intact)
Lets face it, sex is awesome, its natural, and it is very good for us, but women, as I said, must keep their social behaviour in check if they want to hold their image within their group or tribe.
Understanding THIS, allows you to understand the power of discreet seduction.
How discreet and sexual intelligence applies to emotional impact, and social pressure.
When you tie in the principles of emotional impact and societies pressures, lump them together, and play with them, profound effects occur on a primal and instinctual nature.
Wanting something your told is bad for you, breaking all the rules.
This in itself creates masses of tension and mischievous excitement.
A Seduction:
Discreetness in action
I was speaking with my friend at a bar this weekend. We had been there about an hour, when I saw an absolutely gorgeous girl strut in with her blue skin tight jeans showing her incredible feminine features. She bounced it which such playfulness, smiling ear to ear.
I instantly fell in love.
She was a worker in another bar, and had just finished her shift, so was out for the night.
I observed her for a few seconds, and saw she was in a group, with one guy who was particular close. He could of been a boyfriend or just a friend who wanted to be her boyfriend.
At this moment in time I didn’t really care, as all I could feel was how fucking intoxicatingly beautiful she was.
After stopping mid-conversation with my friend in order to study this girl with amazement, he cut me off by laughing; “ha ha dude, go on, ill mind your drink”
I nodded to him in a daze, and walked directly over, having zero clue what I was about to say.
I moved around to the back of the group where she was positioned at the corner of the bar, placed my hand slowly on her lower back. She turned and we locked eyes…
“ehhhh….Hi?” I said in a slightly confused manner.
She smiled a little oddly and responded with “Hello?”
Me: (leaned in a whispered) “Jesus….look at you”
Her: hahaha I hope that’s a good thing
I positioned myself just outside of the group, leaned against the bar and nodded my head to signal her to turn and move a little towards me. She did.
At this point the tension was palpable.
I extended my hand without saying anything, she met my hand with her warm velvet like touch. At this point, I smiled and simply said “mmmmm” while shaking my head thinking “GOD FUCKING DAMN I AM GOING TO DEVOUR YOU”.
I pulled her in slightly towards me. Take note that on the surface this all looked incredibly innocent. Nothing visually obvious was happening, but between us, in this bubble of sexual energy, and solid eye contact, was a grenade of orgasms that was about to go boom.
She asked me my name…
“Chris…but I almost forgot” I said with a smirk.
I left silence…she gave me her name, and I nodded, still holding eye contact.
She then started to talk a bunch, about things socially normal, and irrelevant to document here.
All the while, I was guiding her closer and closer, eyes locked, voices slow, and my hand sensually placed on the small of her bare back, which I had worked my hand under and up to.
I was tracing my finger tips along her smooth skin, and every so often she would close her eyes and shiver with sexual glee…then return to telling me about her job, in between sentences whispering “your trouble”.
At one point she turned to introduce me to her friends. We were side by side. The bar was busy so it didn’t look odd that we were shoulder to shoulder. As she was giving me all the names, and introductions were happening, I lowered my hand onto her incredibly pert ass, and danced my fingers up the centre of her ass crease, right down to her pussy, and drew it back up.
I could feel her breathing change with a slight gasp, as she pressed firmly against my hips with hers, physically demonstrating “thank you, this is amazing, keep going””
The reason everything about our interaction was so fucking hot, was because it was happening in front of everyone, but carried out in such a stealthily way. This created INSANE amounts of sexual tension.
She knew why I was there. The fact I didn’t have to overtly state anything created intrigue, mystery, interest, and the most IMPORTANT element…EXCITEMENT, stemming from the fear of the unknown, and because I was comfortable within the interaction, she felt secure enough to follow me with confidence.
I turned to her after some fluff talk with her friends, and said in the most ‘I’m your bestsest friend’ type of tone, “hey, let’s go outside for a smoke”…
Of course, she followed.
Now, for the first time since meeting, we were completely alone.
This is one of those situation where guys who make it this far, can fuck it up, by trying to desperately seal the deal and unaware of how to now shift it.
I’ve had students who at their first encounter like this, once alone with the girl, have turned into the best friend mode as they were too confused when the tension of inside was removed.
Thankfully, I have fucked up so much before, that I have learned and this was not about to happen.
When we got outside I said nothing. I sat down, locked eyes with her hard, I offered my hand, she took it, I sat her down beside me and turned towards her on the couch.
“I….want….to eat you” I said in a slow and seductive tone.
She took a deep breath and smiled mischievously raising her shoulders saying “you really are trouble”
Me: “come closer”
She did.
I started to look at her lips, then I asked slowly and low “What’s this”, as I rolled my finger tips down the sensitive part on the inside of her neck.
She closed her eyes and shivered again.
Complete submission to the process.
I started to firmly but slowly grip her hair, gently drawing back her head exposing the inside of her neck.
“is it sensitive” I asked her
With her eyes still closed, and her lips tightly clasped, she responded with a definite “mmmhmmm”.
I pulled her in by her thigh, and begin to very lightly bite her neck, with just the right amount of tongue.
“Fuuuuuuuuck” she whispered with an exhaling breath.
I pulled away, clenched her tightly with locked eyes and said, “that’s all for now, your friends will get curious”, and I walked her back in by the hand, which I let go of just as we entered the door. The friends were back.
For the next hour we spent our time socialising with the group, whilst finding every way possible to stimulate each other discreetly.
I went back to hers after her friends left, and we released all that tension…by high 5ing each other with our swim suit areas…yup, I know, way to end it on a classy note Chris.
We fucked, intimately, for hours. I fell in love 100 times over with every curve of her soft, warm, and sweet smelling naked sweaty body. I adore how it felt pressed against mine.
This is how I like to carry out the majority of my interactions.
Its highly effective, honest, and comes from such a clear place, all without logically doing much at all. This is why I speak of understanding so much.
Understanding allows you to be heavily polarizing to the feminine.
I hope this has inspired you to go out and interact a little differently.
Give women what they desire and crave from you. Be honest with your desires.
Be intelligent
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CHAT