Note: This report is a continuation of the Street SNL that failed because of logistical issues. In brief, it was a black girl that was walking in front of me and I picked up my pace and approached her while walking alongside her. We ended up at Skully’s where I escalated with her on the dance-floor and then took her off the dance-floor and made out with her. I’ll call her HB Black because she is the first black girl I ever made out with and got involved with sexually.
Before HB Black left Skullys, I made sure to set up specific plans with her, if you recall from the previous report. I went direct and told her that I like her and that I want to take her out and I asked her what days she is free next week and she said Monday through Thursday. I told her Tuesday is good… How about 8 PM? She said that’s good. I told her lets exchange numbers and put my name in her phone as “Sean Great Ass” etc. I texted her later that night and told her that for our date, we should play pool and that there’s this great pool hall near my place called Sloppy Donkey.
For text game, one of the crucial points was to keep the interaction alive with her daily until the Day 2, so that the momentum was still there when we finally did meet. For text game, I simply ran some routines like Strawberry Field Test and qualified her to make her seem like she’s earned me. I also did something with HB Black that I’ve noticed I’ve recently started doing a lot: Making her think she is really unique and special and that I’m interested in her because of something really cool about her that other girls don’t have. I texted her stuff like: “It’s funny, I’m strangely drawn to u for some reason. I usually go for white girls, but theres something about you that’s just really attractive”, “I like you cuz you seem real chill and know how to have fun. You’re different from most Columbus girls”, “I’ve never met a girl on the street who is as cool as you. Lol most of them just turn out to be weirdos but you’re different”. I also did some role-playing: “Have you ever seen the thriller video by Michael Jackson?” “Lol.. you can be the girl in that video and I’ll be Michael Jackson and we can go to the cemetery and I’ll strip dance for ya.” Also, I offered value by not asking too many questions but by making statements. For example, I texted her a picture of a baby panda and told her that this is my pet panda… and that I’ll let her pet him but that she has to be careful or she’ll get her fingers bit. This led into a convo about if she has any pets. I also talked about my place a bit so that she imagined it in her mind as a safe place where she might feel comfortable hanging out. For example, I told her that it sucks that I can’t have a pet because I live in this student housing dorm where they have strict rules about pets. Also, we earlier in the convo, I asked her what kind of movies she likes. I asked if she’s seen Borat. She said no. So I suggested that maybe we’ll watch it together when we hangout. She said her aunt won’t like if we watch it at her place, so I suggested that my place will be better for watching the movie but that if she wants to come to my place, she has to dress sexxi cuz only hawt people are allowed at my place (add in a short question like: btw… where do you work? After suggesting we hang out at my place over text so that her mind doesn’t rest on the “my-place/sex” connection for a long time). She replied, “only if you don’t ravish me… and I work at Abercrombie and Fitch” (which to me means that she was thinking about sex with me and got ASD but only for a short period). Important: Extra seeds were placed into the conversation about stuff we can do together, so that if one activity was unavailable for the first date, all we had to do was switch to plan B. Example: I introduced the idea of watching a movie at my place, petting the panda, and playing pool (main plan) all into the conversation.
I was watching “Always Sunny in Philadelphia” one day and the episode with the DENNIS system came on. At first, I thought it was funny as fuck, but then there was one crucial component that caught my eye. The way Dennis set up the logistics so that he could engage the girl physically ASAP. He took her to this restaurant and pretended like he didn’t know it would be closed on a Sunday, so that when he got there with his girl, the plans were “ruined”. Then he suggested that they both grab a pizza and watch a movie at his place. You know the rest…
So I decided to integrate this into my plan. That’s why I seeded the movie into the convo. The plan was to go to Sloppy Donkey at around 8 (it opens at 9) and pretend like I didn’t know. I would then suggest that we grab some popcorn and watch a movie back at my place.
I have posted up a Day 2 game plan that I created after consulting a few friends and reading up on Day 2s. My own calibration also enabled me to tweak the Day 2 plan as I went along. Feel free to check it out on the Columbus Lair.
So… anyways… here’s what happened:
I texted her an hour before she was supposed to arrive to make sure she would know where exactly my place is located (it’s kinda hard to find if you’re not looking carefully).
She called me around 7:50 asking me where she can park (I expected this haha). So, I came out and found her… She seemed kinda slow and tired… she was high from smoking weed, apparently. Anyways, I got in the car and showed her a place to park down the street.
We both got out and I put her in my arm and we walked towards my place. I told her that I’m not ready yet and that we should stop by my place. So we walked down to my place and walk into my place. I forgot to tell her to remove her shoes at first but then commented that usually I ask people to take their shoes off cuz I’m a clean freak. I told her it’s okay though because we’re leaving in a bit anyways.
So I go in the bathroom for a bit and pretend to do stuff, come back out and tell her let’s head out. We walk down to Sloppy Donkey, only to discover that it won’t be open for another hour. I act like I’m surprised and let it sink into her head for a moment that the plans are “ruined”. Then after a little bit of acting like I’m pissed, I tell her that there’s another pool hall that’s a mile away called Suzi Cues but that its way too far. So I suggest we grab some popcorn and watch that “Borat” movie at my place. She asks me if I have rolling paper, so that we can smoke weed at my place. I tell her “no” and we both head down to UDF to get some. I grab a pack of popcorn and she gets rolls or whatever. She asks me if I’ll get it for her. I’m cool with it, and I buy the shit and we head back to my place. Meanwhile, I’m making small talk so that the vibe between us isn’t all silence.
I pussied out on telling her in the hallway as we were approaching my place, “Just so you know… we aren’t having sex tonight”. I don’t know why but my calibration told me that right before she comes into my place might not be the best place to say it. It may have been because of this that she gave me LMR later on.
She starts rolling the blunt and asks me to empty out the cigarette shell. I do it. I make the popcorn. It gets done. She’s on my bed smoking weed and hands me my own blunt. I smoke a few puffs but I don’t hit it too much because I wanna have my senses. I tell her that Borat is a really funny movie and that we should play a drinking game. Every time one of us laughs, he or she has to drink a shot of liquor. I showed her what I have in my fridge (Threeolives orange-flavored vodka, 151 Bacardi, and Sangria Wine). She said she isn’t a fan of orange flavor and said she’d be much more comfortable drinking 151. I told her that if she laughs a lot, she’ll be drinking a lot of 151 and that she might get too wasted. So she asked me if I have a chaser. But I don’t have juice in my fridge. So she agrees to drink the vodka for the moment.
I put the movie watching pillows into place. She jumps into place on the right side of my bed and I place the popcorn in between us. So we’re watching the movie and I drink a little bit because I laughed at the opening theme. She drinks half a shot just for the hell of it. I give her redbull to chase it down with. She says she doesn’t like it and asks me for Sangria. I pour her a cup of Sangria. She likes it better. She’s drinking Sangria throughout the rest of the movie. I get a little buzzed enough to the point that I start making some small moves that initiate the escalation ladder. She looks at me and I tell her that her dress looks cute. Ask her where she got it from… She talks. I use my hand to turn her head towards me and kiss her. She doesn’t seem ready to make-out yet so I pull away.
She was giving token resistance. But I could tell by her body language and eye contact that she really wanted to fuck. Without this next move, I probably would have struggled with initiating escalation because she wasn’t in a sexual state and wouldn’t mutually caress back yet. Around 20 minutes into the movie, I said, “So… you gonna give me a massage or what?” She seductively said, “You gonna give me a massage?” I return with, “only if you give me one first baby”. A few minutes later, I initiate escalation by telling her that she should massage me now. So I turn around and face downwards so she can do her thing. She’s rather good at it, and I ask her if she’s a professional. She stops after about 5 minutes and tells me “okay… my turn”. (In my mind, I’m thinkin.. thanks for giving me an excuse to seduce you with my touch bitch!!!). So she lies on her front and I get to take a good look at her body. This bitch has the body of a 8.5. She’s kinda petite but has a little fat in all the right places… perfect curves, really round ass with no cellulite, and tits that are firm and perky. If she had nice silky hair, I’d have rated her higher than a 7. But her dreads kinda lowered her hotness level for me. I basically sat on her while massaging her. I start out by massaging her shoulders, then back, then move down to the sides of her ass, then down to her legs. Stroked her inner thighs and then grabbed her ass for a short time pretending to massage it. Whenever her skirt would move up, she moved it down so that her ass wouldn’t show. It was kinda cute the kind of token resistance she gave. I played along and moved her skirt so that her ass would show, saying “omg… do you mind? I’m trying to massage you here” So she was cool with it. Anyways, we alternate massaging once again. And the second time, I really go for playin with her ass and even spank it.
Then I end it, saying “Let’s get back to the movie” and by now I’m completely comfortable with touching her and she’s comfortable with allowing my touch. So, I get into making out with her. And we start tonguing. She does the same thing she did at the club last week, where she moves her mouth up to avoid making out for more than 2 minutes at a time. But this just helps me out… cuz the next thing on my checklist is her neck. I start sucking on her neck and biting it gently. She starts panting and shit. I start licking and sucking on other parts of her body, like her arm and inside her elbow, kissing every part that is exposed. She starts getting real turned on. I noticed that I was grabbing her ass a lot and spanking her and stroking her legs up and down gently with my hands while we’re making out heavily. After she’s turned on enough, she pull down her dress, and has me lick her tits. I start sucking on the nipple with some gentle biting. After a little bit of this, she grabs my hand and puts it on her crotch. I start rubbing her pussy. She tells me she wants me to see how wet she gets and pulls her panties aside and leads my hand to start fingering her. I start stroking her G-Spot and get her hornier. At some point while I’m fingering her I notice that she’s Extremely tight, as if she was a virgin, so out of curiosity, I whisper in her ear, “How many guys you been with?” I forgot what she said to that. Anywho, I get bored of sucking just one tit, so I tell her to take off her shirt. She complies and asks in return for me to take mine off. I take my shirt off too. I start sucking one of her tits and massaging the other with my hand. I grab her hand and put it on my dick underneath my pants. She starts jacking me off. Soon, she gets on top of me in the cowgirl position. I’m thinking she’s gonna ride me. I’m so turned on that I’m considering fucking her raw. But, I keep level headed and reason that she is black and even though she real tight, she can still have some std. So I ask her, “Shouldn’t we use a condom?”. She tells me she isn’t putting it in yet. She just rubs her pussy on my dick while I’m lying down. After a little bit of this, my game plan pops into my head and I realize that I haven’t yet gotten a blowjob from her. Wtf…. So I attempt to prepare myself for that by removing my pants completely. This is where she starts telling me to “Leave it on…” I make out some more and start fingering her again,… but she tells me “she isn’t ready” multiple times.
So, I switch to LMR tactics. I tell her “I know… this is so bad… we really shouldn’t be doing this” and attempt to continue escalating. I do this method of LMR evasion several times, but to no effect. I think the rapid removal of my pants triggered ASD with her. She says, “she doesn’t have sex (stops mid-sentence)” I just say, “We’re having fun, it’s cool.” But once she starts putting her clothes back on, I know it’s over and that I’ll have to play it better next time. She goes to the bathroom. I just stay calm and chill with her. Cuddle with her a bit. Then I have to piss and when I come back, she has her sweater on and says that her roommate needs her. Cool. Whatever. But I should point out that I didn’t sweat it even for a second, because if a woman sees any neediness after giving you resistance, it means that you won’t ever fuck her. She tells me that she doesn’t work on Sunday or Monday so we should hang out on one of those days. I say Sunday works well for me and ask what time she wants. She says we’ll discuss it through text. I was going to the club on this night with Jonnny so I’m thinking I can probably pull another chick home if logistics are right. I texted her after she left, saying “Drive safe babe”. She got home okay and texted me back. I told her she left her lighter here. She said she just realized that. I tell her she can get it on Sunday when she comes back. She didn’t respond to that.
The next day she texts me at around 3… and the game continues. I will probably be able to close this chick on Sunday. I just need to make sure to stick to the gameplan this time.