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I have enjoyed reading this thread and I, too, would like to join the ol' boys network here. I am 37 and my age has become a tender topic for me recently. When asked my age, I jokingly told a 23 year old girl I was on a date with recently that I was 52. The bitch actually believed me. Then, when I told her I was actually 37, she said she didn't believed me and demanded me to show her my ID for proof!
I approached two college girls the other days and after building up some rapport I asked for the cute one's phone number. Both girls bursted out laughing right in my face. Pretty much every girl under 26 that I pick up asks me my age. They obviously wouldn't ask if they thought I looked young. So obviously I am not aging well. I am trim and cut (work out religiously) with fairly good looks, but the aging just shows in my face I guess. I regret all the sun damage I allowed in my younger years. I also noticed that I'm getting grey flickers in my hair. I envy people with dark skin. They age much better skin wise. For you young white guys out there wear sunblock, hats, use lotions, aloe and all the shit that women use to take care of your skin. You don't want to be 35 looking like 55. Aging sucks hardcore. But it's nice to hear some encouraging stories here. I am having a really tough time adapting to this new element (women seeing me as "old") I have to deal with in my game.
While it sucks - you're also evolving your own ability to discern what age group you can target.
I've become so programmed that I truly dismiss ANY chick I see as under my target demographic. I don't even pay them attention - they're nothing but a distraction otherwise.
Why spend time trying to sarge a 28yo where your chances are cut in half as soon as you begin, when you can spend the same time with a quality older woman, and fuck her?
It's tough telling yourself these things... BUT - once you make the changes, you'll start slaying it.
Upside to older women - they don't have time for bullshit. Downside - if you fuck them properly... they'll expect a ring in 3 weeks...