So yesterday, I went with my buddy Matthew Falcao out to party. My main goal was to have fun, and try some stuff I learnt here on the forum. We went to a cool bar and started to dance. We opened some sets, some went well, others didn't. But we had a deal that this night was going to be part of our learning-proces. We didn't need to number close a lot of girls, we just wanted to practice our skills.
At the beginning of the night, I noticed a girl (let's say HB7) dancing and looking over at us. I smiled and she smiled back. When I went for a drink at the bar, I passed her and threw her a 'sexy-face'
. Later, she suddenly was dancing next to us. She gave me a high-five for no reason, so I decided to go in. She was dancing really sexy and I got behind her and started dancing with her. We talked a little, and within a couple of minutes we were making out. Then they stayed with us for the rest of the night as we went to some other bars.She was with her best friend, so we decided to give them the best friends test, which went very well. The other girl had a boyfriend, so I was able to use some boyfriend-destroyers and look how she would respond to that.
So actually, it was a quite good night for me. I was able to practice some stuff, although I never got the chance to play a 'full game' (with an opener, proper mid-game and closing). But as a part of my learning-process, this was a good start, I think: I learnt how to recognize IOI's, did some ESP, a little kino, best friends-test,...
But there are some questions I still have now:
1. First of all, I think I could have f-closed her (nearby there was a very big park, which looked like a good setting to do that), but she was with her friend and she didn't want to leave her alone for a long time. What can I do to 'convince' her to come with me? What advice do you guys have? Because, it's not that she didn't want to go, we had a lot of physical contact and the IOI's were all over the place when we talked about going outside for a while.
2. When I did a boyfriend destroyer with the other girl, it went like this:
HB: (showing me a picture of her and her boyfriend on her phone) "This is him!"
Vincent: "Oh look at you! I bet he's that kind of boyfriend that spoiles you a lot, isn't he? Breakfast on bed, romantic surprises,..."
HB: "Actually, he isn't..." (at this point, I could tell from her face she was kind of sad he doesn't do that kind of things, which I think is good?)
Vincent: (acting very surprised -you can say oversurprised- he does not do those things) "It's too bad, I think you are a very sweet girl and you deserve that!"
this made her smile, and we continued talking.
Now, was this a good reaction? Was it smart to act surprised and tell her she deserves that kind of romantic stuff?
This morning, I had some more questions, but I forgot about them
when I remember, I will ask them.I'm sorry if this post is too long or too vague, but I really want some good advice that I can use to improve my skills. If there are questions about something, just ask and I try to respond as quick as possible. So any advice is good, positive of negative
So this was my first night out, I hope you guys can help me get better. Thanks a lot for your attention, guys!
Vincent