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A newbie's field report....with inserted self diagnosis?!
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Author:  Clae [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 10:29 pm ]
Post subject:  A newbie's field report....with inserted self diagnosis?!

Hey guys wassup.

I may ramble so bear with me but I hope there's something that you guys can take from my stories as I will from your feedback (which is welcomed btw).

So I've been going out about once a week (still haven't managed fiscal discipline when sarging-any tips for an unemployed graduate to save pennies would be welcomed!) and over recent trips a trend has definitely emerged-lots of n-close only one k-close a night.

Last night, as with many before, I endeavored to leave sets before they became dry but always coming away with a number (I like to provide an excuse for the girl to give it to me e.g.: "Hey give me your number so we can have a dance off, if I win you gotta buy me a drink".

So about two and a half hours into my trip I had already gotten 3 numbers, but no real escalation was going on, perhaps because I left too early.

Example of a stereotypical conversation with a set
Clae: Hey you guys I need a female opinion really quickly......(blah blah)
Set: blah blah girls/guys lie way more than men
Clae; so how do you guys know each other
set: From school/college or work
Clae: You guys BFFs then? (I like to make inverted commas signal with my hands)
set: Yeeeeah
Clae: Shampoo test
set: oh cool
Clae: (to one of the girls-providing they are isolated) So what do you do for fun?
Girl: Blah Blah
Clae: Hey is that from Topshop? I've seen quite a few girls wearing that (this always seems to work in UK because girls always have something from Topshop!)
Girl: Yeah oh my god who was wearing it?!
Clae: Ah just some girl, you've gotta have some dance moves right?
Girl: Yeah I'm a demon!
Clae: Well give me your number so we can have a dance off, if I win you gotta buy me a drink.

I always try to leave before the set turns bad and I'm lingering like mold but am I ejecting too soon? One of my mates who I was winging with last night didn't really seem to entertain his targets and then tried to engage mine-A bad workman blames his tools but could this be another potential downfall that's stopping me from sealing more K-closes?

However, sometimes it has paid off where I see one of the girls from a set that I have opened and because we have met before it makes it potentially swifter for me to k-close (although my mates love going to the same club which is very large: Oceana and meeting the same girl again isn't always feasible).

As you noticed from the opening lines I did manage one k-close last night and this happened by me following the same routine but managing to get the girls to follow me and my wing to the dance-floor, however, my wing bailed because he didn't want to entertain the 'grenades' (as he called it). So I had to pluck my target from the set when we were on the edge of the dancefloor...and then danced with her and yeah you guessed it got the kiss. Unfortunately I left quite swiftly and exchanged numbers, although today I realized that this may have been a bad move as I'm trying to arrange a Day 2 (text thread below btw).

Me: Hey Hannah you have a good time last night? Shame I had to leave so soon-had to see my mates. Would be cool to catch you again sometime when you're near London xxx
Her: Hey. Yeah I had a good time last night. shame I had to work today though. I don't think I'll be back around London until xmas. But if I am, I'll let you know. X x

(my morning after text game stinks-Hard! So I haven't replied yet in order not to make any more chump-esque comments).

All of your advise is definitely welcomed.

I tried to make this different than a merely descriptive field report (hence the attempted self-diagnosis!), hope you liked it. I'm doing this as opposed to working on my website (not PUA related) because trawling through political journals is NOT fun at 11:28pm!

Peace guys,
Clae

Author:  Grip [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 11:25 pm ]
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Sounds like its going well, youre coming out with numbers. I think your exits are good, you don't want to linger around for too long (for me energy gets lost if I stay too long, so I try to exit at high point, this is suggested by several PUA's)

As far as saving money goes...try to not buy anything when you are out/sarging...daygame can be the cheapest option, you can always walk around and just browse.

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