Things I learned from daygame
1. Appearance makes a difference
WHAT I MEAN
That does not mean you have to be good looking! You have to be well groomed, and dressed well.
REASON
If you look good you will feel better about yourself.
Women will be more interested in you.
Sets will open easier.
It shows them who you are.
2. Being your self
I know sounds cliche, but listen to me before you skip this part.
WHAT I MEAN
Knowing who you are. Which is easier said than done.
Not changing your true personality because of suggestions of other people.
Dressing the way that makes you feel good.(Dress to impress yourself not others!!!)
3.Approaching/Body Language
How you come in to the set will really determine if they hook or not.
WHAT I MEAN
Don't go running towards them if they can see you.
Always open over the shoulder.
Don't stand in front of them blocking there way if they are moving.
Walking with them increases comfort.
Direct works, but you have to have something important to say afterwards that will keep them hooked.
Indirect is the easiest.
4.Hooking
How to actually keep them there.
WHAT I MEAN
The more dry the question the easier it is to hook them.
Stories work best to hook them. Open then story.
When going direct deal with obstacles immediately.
Which ever girl is furthest away from you get her into the conversation immediately otherwise she will get jealous, and she will make your target leave.
Make sure to calibrate based on there age.(This is huge if you are going to a mall or somewhere that less experienced people might be.)
Always be the conversation leader.
Keep it constantly changing go from funny to serious and all around.
5. ME: Can I get to know you? HB: Maybe
Or I have a boyfriendThis is after around a ten minute conversation.
WHAT I MEAN
If she says Maybe that means a yes, but you need to build more comfort or possibly dhv.
I have a boyfriend is easier than saying no.
That means you showed too much interest or she is testing you.
Use the stick man fallacy to get rid of that.
When she mentions boyfriend act nonreactive.
Keep gaming act if boyfriend objection was token resistance.
Don't mention it again.
Don't logic her to death as why she should give you her number.
6. Positioning/Body Language
You have to position your self in a way that makes you part of the group.
WHAT I MEAN
If walking walk with them.
If sitting pull up a seat.
If standing get comfortable against a wall.
Try to mirror there positioning
If they don't change there body posture then don't change yours.
Eye contact is a necessity.
Look at one person while completing one idea then move onto the next.
Body rocking.
Smile at the opening of the set.
Thats what I learned from my 70 sets.