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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | FR: Accidentally attracted her. Shit. o_o |
Last night I went to the mall with my buddy, his girlfriend, and my other friend who is my buddy's girlfriend's sister. We're all friends. The one who became attracted to me is my other buddy's girl. She was telling me about how they were having trouble and she asked for my advice, and I gave her honest advice because she's my buddy. I told her that if it were me, I'd just go out and date other people because people by nature are polyamorous. I didn't expect this to be a boyfriend destroyer because I stick to the straw man technique, but I guess it was. o_o And then she was talking about how she gets freaked out by dating so she's way hesitant so I offered to help her with her inner game and the thing she told me that caused her to be so scared of rejection was a way valid reason. And so I didn't wanna reject her because she's way sensitive. And then I just acted like I always do, and I guess I gamed her without meaning to and she was getting a bit of kino in, and doing a bit of sexual framing and shit. My girlfriend and I are taking a break soon and she was asking when that might be and she was talking about how her friend (Who's name escaped her, so conveniently) told her that we'd go well together. The fact that we were on the same team for our game didn't help because I guess it was her trying to isolate me. (She doesn't know anything about pick up, but she does this stuff naturally) I was getting ioi's left and right and I reciprocated because I don't wanna hurt her or anything because this chick's made outta glass. But I think that I'm still gonna hang out with her as buddies, but if she hits on me again I'm just gonna do a slight freeze out and not reciprocate this time. Haha. |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 10:44 pm ] |
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Just slip it into the things you say. "So glad we're such great friends, there's something about being with girls that I'm just friends with that makes me feel comfortable." That was random and bad, but you should have the double mention. Three if possible without it being awkward. Saying "I'm glad we're great friends" just once will just make her more into it and not indicate your friend zone intention. |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:05 pm ] |
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Haha, did something very similar. Like when she mentioned her "Friend" thinking we'd be good together, I said "That'd be weird for everybody. Especially with how great of friends we are." Didn't stop her. Ah well. I think I'll stick to the plan of just ignoring her ioi's and almost freezing her out for them. |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 3:32 am ] |
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Quote: Haha, did something very similar. Like when she mentioned her "Friend" thinking we'd be good together, I said "That'd be weird for everybody. Especially with how great of friends we are." Didn't stop her. Ah well. I think I'll stick to the plan of just ignoring her ioi's and almost freezing her out for them.
No, keep it up. If you freeze her out she'll be confused and start talking to friends ("He's flirting one second and the next he's ignoring me and talking to some bitch!") and you don't want her friends turned against you or for her to get the wrong signals.It's hard to pick up on a hint the first time. Keep them coming as often as possible. Use words like pal or bud. They may not feel natural but they get the message across. |
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| Author: | ladies_man969 [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 8:57 pm ] |
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Alright dude, I'll give it a try. Haha. |
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