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| Author: | Andres_Moreno [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 4:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Buyer's remorse |
Hey guys, I just wanted to share with you one of my latest experiences. Hopefully you'll have fun reading it and possibly learn from my (blatant) mistakes... A couple of weeks ago I went to this sports camp where approximately 100 young people (both males and females, age 20-30) spent 5 days together to train various sports, drink and have fun. As I am an avid guitar player, I brought a guitar. The first afternoon, as walked in search of my buddies, a guy sitting at a table with three girls got my attention and told me: "Hey, the girls here want to know if you'll play the guitar tonight." I replied something non-committal and we started talking. After like 30 seconds he asked me to join them at the table. All of them seemed really nice and I was glad to make some new friends. We talked for an hour, exchanged stories, got to know each other and had a lot of fun. Then there were some organized activities, so we had to leave. That very night there was a huge welcome party in a local bar. And sure enough, these guys came as well. Me and my buddy (who I came with) had some whiskey in our room so we invited them as well as a few other people to drink it. Then we returned to the party. I spoke to a lot of other people and then maybe an hour later I ran into one of the girls that I sat with at the table in the afternoon. It was the one that I liked the most. I would estimate her a solid 8. Natural-looking with long dark hair, slender and very nice. We talked for a while, then headed for the bar to have a shot. I bought the first round, she bought the next. The game was on. I can assure you, she could play the game way better that I could. One moment she was touching me affectionately the next moment she went to dance with another guy. Of course I tried to appear cool, but I was into her like hell and it showed. Anyway, we drank more shots, talked more (it was a light-hearted banter, really, no deep conversation), exchanged more IOIs. It gradually became apparent that she was into me just as much as I was into her. At 2am we kissed. And there came my biggest mistake... We kissed and kissed and became increasingly passionate. But we were also very drunk by then. We went outside to have sex. I can remember her asking: "you won't tell anyone, okay?". It was raining heavily and we found an old tool shed nearby. I have no idea what in God's name I was thinking, but it was incredibly stupid from me. I had no problems getting it up, but drunk as I was, it would take me ages to c@me. None of us was enjoing it and we gave up shortly. She went to her room and I went to mine. The next day was extremely weird. We said hello, but did not talk. In the afternoon I wanted to break the ice and came to her and asked her if she wanted to play table tennis. She said she would come join me in five minutes, but she never came. I tried once again, told her to play bowling with me and a couple friends. She played with us, but virtually ignored me. I finally gave up. It wasn't until today that I read the book "The Mystery Method". Mystery writes about the buyer's remorse. You probably are familiar with the problem, so there is no need for me to write about it here. Anyway, it was insane from me to have sex with her that night. I should have told her that we were too drunk and would regret it and that we could hang out the next day. But well... I fucked up. I liked the girl a lot, so being able to write another name on my "have-fucked list" is really not important. The moral of this story is - do not rush things. Do not seduce before you've built comfort. You might get laid from time to time, but you risk ruining your chances to have a relationship with the girl. Best of luck in field! Andres |
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| Author: | Herne [ Sun Jul 17, 2011 9:12 pm ] |
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yeah your rite but then dont be too hard on yourself either--if you hadnt done anything last nite you might not have got anywhere with her ever,sure she has buyers remorse, but today she could also have everyminute full time resistance or im not that type of girl factor instead, some women think your gay if u dont make a move on them,some think your a creep if you do,best not to analyse them to much most of them are fairly weird |
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