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Author:  thumper858 [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Awkward close on my coworker *long story*

This may be a long story, but I wanted to include most of the details because there was a lot of good things that happened tonight that I think could be used another time. I'll leave it to you all to decide what those things are.

About a month ago, a coworker (HB7.5) of mine hits me up saying that she wants to go out to a club. "We can wing for each other". Of course, I'm all about it. When she gets back from her business trip, she asks me if I will be available this weekend and I am, so we made a plan and executed it.

It's the 4th of July weekend, so I am not about to get caught driving after having even one drink, so I get a cab and head to the place. When I get there, I go through my normal routine of coming in the club with a lot of energy and immediate dancing. As always, I get a lot of smiles from the ladies that are near the doorway and this sets my mood.

I take a walk outside and see a girl that I met, kissed and number closed the weekend before at a different club. She's talking to some guy, but says hello to me. My friend texts me that she is almost there and I see her walking across the street. So she doesn't need to find me, I go stand near the door. There is a girl (HB8) standing near the door also. I run a situational opener.

Me: Friends can never be on time can they?
Her: It looks like they can't...
Me: I thought I was gonna be the one running late, but it looks like I'm in the same situation as you

We do the whole fluff talk thing from here. Nothing serious and then my friend walks in. I introduce them to each other. So that she doesn't think anything is going on between us, I tell her how we're winging each other tonight. We all continue to talk, and then a song merengue song comes on. I ask her if she knows how to dance and she says she's alright. I don't even ask her to dance. I just take her hand and lead her to the dance floor. We get there and did some serious work on the dance floor.

Now that I have my set working, I figure it'd be cool if I helped my friend out with getting her something to keep her attention. Now, just knowing the type of person she is, I can already figure out the type of guy she goes for. Tall, tats, piercings, black spiked hair. Something was really off about this night though. Not for me, but for her. Usually after the first, this place is packed with military guys, but there was definitely a shortage of men that night. Plenty of women though and I was definitely a happy camper.

While taking a look around, another friend of mine opened two (HB8 & HB6) girls at the bar. I could see that he was not including one of the girls in the conversation, and I could see that this set was gonna go no where quick unless he brought her in. So, from across the bar, I asked her a question knowing that she would not be able to hear me. When she signaled that she couldn't, I grabbed her hand and pulled her to the other side of her friend and closer to me.

Me: I said, you look red... You been in the sun today?
Her: No, but we went wine tasting today so I'm probably red from that
Me: The wine or the sun?
Her: Probably a combination of both
Me: Nice! So did you find a new favorite wine?
Her: Ummm.. I like the sweeter wines, but I'm not sure of the names that we had today
Me: When I first started drinking wines, I liked the sweeter ones too but after going to a couple wine tastings I found that certain wines really compliment certain foods better than others

I then go into a routine that I found on here. I actually use this one a lot. I live in an area that is considered wine country and girls are always wine tasting here.

Me: For instance, I was wine tasting and the guy gave me a little chocolate and told me to chew it but not swallow. He then gave me a sip of a red wine and told me to mix the two in my mouth. (she was already nodding at this point) I was AMAZING! I couldn't believe how the two went so well with each other! I thought I had stumbled upon some new thing but when I told all my lady friends about it, they were all like "DUH!"
Her: Yeah... I'm sure every woman that drinks wine knows that you should always mix chocolate with a red.

She then went on into her story of her wine tasting. My female friend ended up joining in on the convo. I left them to the convo and went on to find some guys for her. I opened a couple guys in her eye sight and each time she shook her head no. When I went back to her, she said that she's not out to settle. Understandable, but still there is nothing wrong with talking.

I ended up coming across the girl that I opened at the beginning of the night and she was with her friends. I told her not to be rude and to introduce me. Her friends are HB9 and HB4. HB9 has so much sex appeal it's ridiculous, but she has this cool attitude about her that is amazing. The two combined had me sitting there wondering how she was not attached. I later found out that she was from Hawaii (the big island) which explained the attitude. The locals of Hawaii are probably some of the coolest people I have ever met. It's the tourist there that I can't stand, but I digress.

We all talk and joke with each other and once again, I excuse myself. I head back to my coworker and she's standing there like a deer in the head lights. She looks completely lost. I ask her how she's coming along and she just shakes her head. I feel bad for her. Then she lights up. When I turn to look, she has her eye on some guy so I tell her to go talk to him. She says that she's intimidated because he's in a big group in a lounge area of the club. So I open him and his group. I kept trying to figure out a way to get them away from the lounge area and more out into the open so she could actually talk with him, but unless she went and sat down with them, it wouldn't have happened. Turned out they were from Australia and was visiting because of a motorcross thing they were in. When I told her all this, she melted.

The club was starting to thin out for some strange reason. So we decided to go do a different club. I ran into the 1st girl again.

Me: Where are your friends
Her: They left to go to another club
Me: And you stayed here?
Her: Yeah
Me: Why?
Her: *smiles* I dunno
Me: Alright then... Well we're actually going to the same club they're at. You should come with us.
Her: Ok

We all leave. My female friend, male friend, and new female friend.

Her: I'm parked down here, so I'm gonna need you to walk me back to my car
Me: Well, I took a cab here, so I'm gonna need you to drive me back to my house
Her: OK

We get to the second club and this place is packed. We head all head to the least crowded area and dance. I'm dancing with the new girl at one point, then dancing with my co worker the next. Just a lot of good fun. Then the dancing turned sexual with both of them and this is where things got awkward. My coworker is grinding on me to the point that I got a hard on. So I backed off and turned my attention to the other girl. We talked and the conversation turned sexual. I told her to give me her phone number and she put it in my phone and tried to call hers. When I looked, she didn't put in the area code. When she tried to do it again, I said, let's just get out of here instead. She said ok, but I still needed to close out my tab. I left to close out and when I got back both her and my male friend were gone. LMAO!

My coworker is sitting on the stairs drunk as hell. I call the cab to come get us. Since she took her car there, I figured we'd go back to my house, she can crash in my extra bedroom and I'll take her back to get her car the next morning. We got back to the house and wanted a smoke so we step outside. She is stumbling so I had to help her out. As we're smoking she tips backwards a little, so I stood behind her and she just completely leans into me. I grab her by the waste so she doesn't fall over and she starts stroking my hand. At one point I'm thinking, this is awkward. The next I'm thinking, I would love to put my mouth on those titties.

My second thought took over the first and I ended up taking her back to the bedroom and doing the deed. She ended up cumming 4 separate times. The next morning I woke up to her jacking me off. I threw a condom on and we went at it again. After laying there for about an hour, I told her to let me know when she wanted me to take her back to her car. She said she was just about to ask. So I took her back and we haven't spoken since.

So there ya have it... I have always had a rule never to sleep with coworkers. Especially those that I have to work closely with from time to time. The deed has been done now though, so we can only move forward from here. I like the fact that she was very helpful with the women I talked to though. Would be nice if we could do this all the time. Go out, meet some people and if things don't work out the way we want, go home with each other. The ultimate wing woman!

Author:  Don Draper [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 8:43 pm ]
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You're right.

Professional romances are very hard to deal with.

All the best to you.

Author:  TheRaven [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 8:48 pm ]
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Wow, that's actually an amazing story.
And why did you stop talking? It seemed that she was into you (jacking you off in the morning). Seems to me like she didn't regret what happened.
If I were you, I'd ask her to hang out again, then go back to your place, and do it again, then talk about it.

Nonetheless, you should talk to her about it. Because I'm prety sure she liked it :wink:

Author:  thumper858 [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 4:39 am ]
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Wow, that's actually an amazing story.
And why did you stop talking? It seemed that she was into you (jacking you off in the morning). Seems to me like she didn't regret what happened.
If I were you, I'd ask her to hang out again, then go back to your place, and do it again, then talk about it.

Nonetheless, you should talk to her about it. Because I'm prety sure she liked it :wink:
There is no doubt in my mind that she enjoyed herself. It's the fact that I work with her. Just as the other poster said, relationships in the workplace can turn out to be a very bad thing.

She's been texting me all day today. Started with her asking if I had hex keys that she could borrow to fix her deadbolt. Asked if she could come over and pick them up. I told her that I would bring them to work tomorrow. Hex keys are like 3 bucks right? A whole basic tool set would cost you about $20. We both have the same job so I know she makes good money. Can't possibly be really coming over for hex keys.

Overall, it kinda has me confused. Small part wants an understanding where we can get together when things don't work out for us at the club. Other part wants us to just be cool and wing each other every now and then. Last thing I need at the work place is drama, or awkward situations.

Author:  Don Draper [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 5:09 am ]
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Hex keys? That was just a code for I want to come over and have sex with you.

Author:  thumper858 [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 5:12 am ]
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Hex keys? That was just a code for I want to come over and have sex with you.
My thoughts exactly... Whole reason I told her I'd bring it to work tomorrow

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