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Author:  dantonious [ Sun Jul 03, 2011 7:54 pm ]
Post subject:  constraining oneself

so last night i managed to pick up an older woman (about 10-15 yrs my senior)
and i was gaming her perfectly
push pulled, along w/ kino, role reversals which escalated the sexual tension
dramatically which led to playful kissing and even biting
i ran routines along w/ a few custom ones i thought of on the spot, all before i even knew her name both inside and out of the bar
however once inside the club we started making out hard ( which is contrary as to how i would have liked to do) and at the end i couldnt get her to come home with me
even thought i felt i gamed her perfectly

i have a feeling i shouldnt of gone in for the make out so early during our interactions inside the bar (giving her too much of myself too soon takes away from the mystery and sometimes sexual tension) but i found it almost irresistible to pull away probably b/c i let her slide her hands down my pants (another mistake i should have watched for)

in the end i couldnt even grab her number and i wasnt too impressed with myself after i felt my opening game was played almost perfect

my question was, how do you guys motivate yourself to pull away from your target while on the field ?
or any advice you think i could use to improve my situation as a whole ?

Much love, thanks

Author:  TheRaven [ Mon Jul 04, 2011 3:23 am ]
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I have alot of difficulty with this as well....

The only thing I've tried to counter it. Was this mentality: THINK OF THE GREATER PICTURE!

If you pull back now, she'll give you sooo much more later :wink:

You could even tease her, with the making out: Ok, that's enough for now.

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