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Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:39 am ]
Post subject:  Analyze my game for me PLEASE!
So this was my first REAL pickup attempt (i was the guy who just thought you had to be the loud fun one at parties and bars to get laid... turns out you are just a clown for their amusement)

I met this girl at a buddy of mines party (only 10 or so people but it was a good time) I meet this girl, an HB8, used an opinion opener... asked her what she thought about tattoos on girls. She said she thought they were okay blah blah blah blah blah. asked me if i had any... i said yeah i do. rolled up my sleeve... she went to touch my arm and as she did said "woahhhh lookings free! touching costs ya 5 bucks!" (obviously with a smirk on my face) she giggled and fell into me and i held her close to me... for about 5 seconds, threw her off and said "K, shows over!" again... shes laughing. plays with my hat a little and i told her "Hands off the merchandise" she giggles again... i take my hat off, put it on her head, say ill be right back and go smoke a cigarette...

Shes obviously attracted... I go back inside.. she then starts asking me what i do for a living... i messed with her a little at first saying "im the guy that scrapes the gum off the chairs at the movie theatre" then sayng "no really im an astronaut" to telling her what i really do (sell cars) but i told her in some way that compared it to being successful with women (dont ask how it worked cause it didnt really matter what i was saying.. the look on her face when i was done looked like she was back stage at a snoop dogg concert *joint toke* ahhhhh) ...try and escalate kino a little but she gets too uncomfortable cause we are around a ton of people and i couldnt isolate because she didnt want to leave her friend alone... This is where i got stuck. She was pretty much all over me the whole night... and i knew i wasnt leaving so it was hard to give a false time constraint from the get to so i could atleast get her number. (not trying to drink and drive!) anyways... I wound up adding her on facebook but WHAT DO I DO FROM HERE!? and... did i do every thing okay or did i f**k up?
Author:  WiseEYEZ [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 12:43 am ]
Post subject:  Your doing good
Isolating a 2 set can be difficult but you got her number and added her on Facebook. Just make a date. Here is where a false time constraint will help. Say something along the lines of hey come to the park with me for an hour or two, and tell her to dress casual to create a low pressure situation. She already seems attracted to you so just build comfort then seduce. You got this one bro lol
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jun 29, 2011 1:28 am ]
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thanks man! theres a river walk near her house actually... ill take her there ;) perfect place to build comfort (cause i didnt get the chance to do much of that..) and its right by her house... and im sure she has something cool that i might want to take a look at at home ;)

my question from here is... since i didnt build much comfort (besides the one deep conversation we had and the little bit of kino escalation) where do i start with this girl? I'm new to this shit lol do i start where we left off or do i need to build attraction again? Basically... will her feelings from that night still be the same today?
Author:  Brian Bond [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 6:14 am ]
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It seems like you ran great game, but you have to learn how to get over the cock block. You were at a friends party, i assume you knew people. As soon as you pass the attraction phase, get more ppl to interact before you try to isolate your target. If you got one of your friends, or event the whole group to interact with the cock block, your target would not feel as unconfortable bouncing with you. Another way is to get the cock block confort with the whole group, and than, instead of isolating your target, isolate both by taking them to the bar, dance floor, whatever... BUT JUST THE 2 OF THEM! 90% of the time, the cock block will leave you alone because she will realize she is being a cock block (she will realize it by herself of your target will let her know... girls "secret" language lol). Since she know people from the group, she will feel confortable leaving you alone with your target, and it will seem like an unintentional isolation. Your target will not be concerned with her friend and there is a line that became my routine due to success: "i have the feeling that my friend XYZ found your friend interesting... dont worry, he is not a creep, he is actually very shy!", and start seduction routine from here. Now, i only use this if i know that my target's friend is NOT in a relationship so my target doesnt get concerned with her! If i know she is in a relationship, i will say "your friend is cool, she gets along with every1 very well!... and you then can use the good girl/bad girl routine and engage into seduction. If you kiss close, dont get all excited... make sure you tell her "lets go see how everyone is doing". You let the girls see that they are both enjoying the stay, and then you isolate again.
Another thing i learned from experience is this: if attraction is built and there is a high chance i can get a number close, i dont insist on isolating or bouncing. I have friends who feel unaccomplished if they dont close the deal the same night... dont let that affect you! As we know, girls dont want to look "easy going" in front of their friends, so just respect, take that in consideration, and close the deal a different day... no desperation alowed!
Author:  Brian Bond [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 6:40 am ]
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my question from here is... since i didnt build much comfort (besides the one deep conversation we had and the little bit of kino escalation) where do i start with this girl? I'm new to this shit lol do i start where we left off or do i need to build attraction again? Basically... will her feelings from that night still be the same today?
There is something i do to start convo, which i call "tagging". Basically, i grab 1 little thing she said on the night we met, and i start by calling her for that, usually hyperbolically. Example:
- she said she likes rock music: "Hey Miss I wanna be a Rock Star when i grow up... just listened to this song in the radio and you poped in my head."
- she said she didnt like sushi/rock/dancing/alcohol/ ... whatever: "Hey Miss 'i sushi hater 2011, im craving for sushi and you came to my mind"

You can use something she said, something she did, she does, she likes, etc... the point is to recall that moment in her head and automatically trigger the emotinons from that night. Also, you show her you paid attention to a certain detail, and she will most likely laugh. Dont rush into a invitation for a "date"... joke a little and then SUGGEST a meet up for something SPECIFIC just like the example given by WiseEYEZ.

Let us know how it goes... keep it up!
Author:  mence300 [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 9:39 am ]
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bro in my opinion your game is so textbook you really followed the pick up lines as i remembered i read it from the game but overall it was good the only flaw you did was when you went in and talked to her directly you know about the "cat string theory"? you noticed back then that she was in to you so you better waited and make her go after you :))
cheers bro!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 1:18 am ]
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well guys... F Closed last night... Thanks for the help ;) figured id let you guys know!
Author:  Brian Bond [ Tue Jul 05, 2011 8:06 pm ]
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bro in my opinion your game is so textbook you really followed the pick up lines as i remembered i read it from the game but overall it was good the only flaw you did was when you went in and talked to her directly you know about the "cat string theory"? you noticed back then that she was in to you so you better waited and make her go after you :))
cheers bro!
I have to agree. I mean, there is nothing wrong with using all the techonoly and canned material learned if you have no clue at what to do and you are out there sarging... but on the long run, you should learn how to callibrate and improvise.
Mystery method is like a complex mathematical formula that if you enter the correct information, you mostlikely will get the right result... the problem is: there are too many variables to take in account! Its good to memorize the formulas, but its better to understand the concepts! thats whats gonna give you an advantage on the field.
But keep it up... the more you play, the better you will become at it!

BY THE WAY... it would be cool if you shared kind of a "field report", just telling us what you used to startd that second day convo and stuff.
Author:  mence300 [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 1:53 am ]
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well guys... F Closed last night... Thanks for the help ;) figured id let you guys know!
well grats bro!
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