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Author:  ohaiidavid [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 5:55 am ]
Post subject:  day game at the mall. Review/analysis please!
So i went to the mall today with some friends who are also interested in pick-up as well, and here's how it went.
P.S. I haven't tried indirect game during the day time yet..

Set 1 (2 set) (Target = HB8):
walks up to set*
me: Excuse me
target: yes? hello.
me: i don't have a lot of time on me i have to get back to my friends quickly,
but i saw you walking from a distance and you're probably one of the most beautiful person i've seen, and it would have killed me if i
didn't come up and ask for your number
target: *short pause* can you add me on facebook?
target's friend: do you have a facebook?
me: yes, yes i do. My name is david by the way (handshake)
target: Mellisa
*exchange emails*
*walk away*

The thing about this set is that i got extreme approach anxiety, because it was the first set of the day, hopely this is normal.

Set 2 (2 set) (same approach + opener) (Target = HB8):
walk up to set*
me: Excuse me
target: hello?
me: i don't have a lot of time on me i have to get back to my friends quickly,
but i saw you walking from a distance and you're probably one of the most beautiful person i've seen, and it would have killed me if i
didn't come up and ask for your number
target: *Laughs* asking if i was serious
me: Oh i'm being serious. *Charming smile *
target: oh...then no...sorry.
me: it's fine, have a good day
*walk away*

Set 3 (1 set) (Same approach, different opener in a way) (Target = HB7):
walk up to set*
me: Hey, excuse me
target: hi can i help you?
me: I don't a lot of time on, i have to quickly get back to my friends, but i just wanted to let you know that you're one of the most gorgeous women i've ever seen,
and i would of literally beaten myself up if i didn't work up the courage to come and ask for your number.
target: awhh, that's probably one of the most sweetest things i've ever heard. Sure you can have my number!
me: oh, splendid. My name is David by the way. *Handshake
target: Joselin *Smile
me: i gotta get going, it was very nice to meet you. Good Bye, Joselin.
target: see you later.

So far i got pretty comfortable with direct game, it's very straight forward and it cuts to the chase. I don't know what's more successful with this kind of scenario though,

and can anyone tell me about my first set? Was this a good sign or more of a bad sign? I'm thinking bad, because she's saying i'm not worth having her number.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: day game at the mall. Review/analysis please!
Quote:
me: I don't a lot of time on, i have to quickly get back to my friends, but i just wanted to let you know that you're one of the most gorgeous women i've ever seen,
and i would of literally beaten myself up if i didn't work up the courage to come and ask for your number.
So, first off - WELL DONE for getting out there and having the confidence to be very direct in your daygame approaches. This stuff takes a lot of courage, and tons of guys struggle just to do the approach, let alone have the girl actually stop, listen, and be receptive to them!

That said, here are some things that could improve your chances

1. You don't need a false time constraint. This isn't indirect and this isn't nightgame. Just throw it out. Replace it instead with a preframe that grabs her attention, describes the situation and/or sets her up for the compliment. For example "hi, listen, I know this is a bit random, but..."

2. You don't need to go for the number that quickly. From HER perspective, she'll be thinking "why does this guy want my number when he doesn't even KNOW me?" When you DO call or text, she'll be like "oh, that guy, well, I don't really know him, I dunno if I want to risk 2 hours on a date and have him turn out to be lame...I'll just not reply." From YOUR perspective, why are you asking for her number when you don't know anything about her? Sure, she may be attractive, but what if she's actually really boring, or fucking retarded? Do you want to waste your time going on a date with her if she turns out to be lame?

=> After the compliment, have a conversation where you joke around a bit, flirt, and find out things about her whilst talking a bit about yourself, maybe telling one story about something random or funny that happened to you, and getting at least FIVE things about her so when you walk away, you can say "yeah, I'm looking forward to seeing Jenny from X town because she's studying psychology which I'm really into, she's got a really quirky sense of humour and loves Woody Allen films, wants to start her own business and I love independent, professional girls, AND just happens to be really fucking hot!"

Keep at it and let us know how you're doing!

Also, check out this FREE video series about how to do AWESOME daygame approaches http://www.sashapua.com/get-my-free-vid ... t-approach
Author:  Hennessy [ Sat Jun 04, 2011 11:16 pm ]
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Ryan nailed it on the head! :)

Listen to this man, and you will become better ;)

so for example:

YOU: Excuse me, can I just tell you something?
Her: Sure
You:I just saw you from over there and thought you were gorgeous.
I'm [insert your name here] , handshake
her: I'm Sarah...
You: so what do you in life except chatting up cute guys in malls? wink


and you're in ;)
Author:  pherojack [ Fri Jun 24, 2011 6:18 am ]
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I'm surprised that noone recommended Sinn's Day game Mastery program from A to Z. It really covers EVERYTHING about daygame.

What do you guys think?
Author:  Hennessy [ Mon Jun 27, 2011 8:08 pm ]
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It's ok I guess, but to me Sinn has lost all value in my eyes when I figured out that he was using routines after he got into chating up girls

He would open them genuine, then in midst it all drop a routine... which is very Mystery method to me, and I frown upon that nowadays :)
Author:  Tyler1187 [ Mon Jun 27, 2011 9:25 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Ryan nailed it on the head! :)

Listen to this man, and you will become better ;)

so for example:

YOU: Excuse me, can I just tell you something?
Her: Sure
You:I just saw you from over there and thought you were gorgeous.
I'm [insert your name here] , handshake
her: I'm Sarah...
You: so what do you in life except chatting up cute guys in malls? wink


and you're in ;)


I like this a little cocky and funny not too much and really is it necessary to call a girl beautiful or gorgeous? i know it is a way of building comfort but i rather just call her cute
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:56 am ]
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Quote:
I like this a little cocky and funny not too much and really is it necessary to call a girl beautiful or gorgeous? i know it is a way of building comfort but i rather just call her cute
Thissss. Cute is a million times better. Don't let her have that much power in the interaction (as demonstrated in OP's post when the girl asked if he was serious then rejected him). It's fine to go direct, but no need to give them a standard that they can't live up to. The kind of stud that you are, you deal with girls as pretty as her every day; you aren't too shy to call them cute, but you aren't invested enough to call them beautiful.
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Sat Jul 02, 2011 5:20 am ]
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Awesome job, man. Congrats! Two quick things I noticed:

1) In the second set, you should have teased her a little more when answering if it was a joke. Something like "Yeah, I'm just joking, you're not the cutest, but you are passable. ;) Seriously, though. this is one of those moments like in the movies, and I know we're not going to see each other again, if I don't get your number." But don't worry about what you did too much. It was fine. You can't get every girl's number. Learn, and keep moving! ;)

2) In the other two, i would have stayed just a little bit longer, at least for a few questions or something. remember, you have the numbers, but she is going to choose whether to pick up or not when you call. Better to build a little comfort, and create a persona of you in her mind that she will remember.
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