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| Author: | lloydchristmas [ Sat May 21, 2011 9:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | DTF and i screw up. how can i fix this for the future... |
i'll give as concise a background to this as i can: met a girl at a bar while i was drunk and messed around with her with no intents to really ever see her again, ie. i have no idea what happened but i know we did NOT exchange numbers or get intimate in any way. somehow we met again while i was sober and she gave me her number. she continues to text me while she's in the area to meet up and get a drink but i never really respond affirmative - i always put it off because i'm not really for it. eventually, and i mean like around two months later i invite her to my place with a friend to entertain myself and another friend. we were basically snowed in and somehow these two girls made it to my house in some porshe cayenne (which was pretty hot). we played drinking games until none of us could really remember anything and myself and the "mark" ended up "hooking up," however i wouldn't seal the deal - i have a thing with...um, "sealing the deal" with girls...i'm just a little more careful and care a little less about sex than other dudes and i made sure not to escalate to that level on this particular night. about three months later (meanwhile she has called me plenty to hang out and all of which i have, in some way, denied.), we met up at her new apartment and hit it off quick. i arrived there where she was already wasted and i, in a way, had to catch up. when in her place i took a good amount of shots and grabbed a beer in anticipation of "catching up" and she went as far as to pull me into the bathroom to makeout with me which i was actually kind of reluctant to do; i don't really like commiting to a woman when there's others about, it's weird - i always feel like i'm there to entertain everyone but it was just strange until everyone mysteriously left and we began to go at it in the bedroom on the bed...which in about 15 minutes turned out to actually be her roommate's bed when she came home and my spider sense went nuts, sporadically sending me rolling off of her bed into the depths. push comes to shove, she talks to her roommate as i slip into her, unfurnished, new as shit, only a papasan cushion room and i debate saying, "i think it's time for me to go," and leaving, but i stay. she comes in heavy, making out with me, rolling around and being very hands on. i oblige and engage in foreplay. next thing you know she's getting stark naked, also taking off my clothes and in the back of my head i'm weary; why? well, we'll see... it gets to the point where she blatantly insists for me to "fuck her" and i deny. it might just be me, but i don't like to do that without some type of protection; especially if i don't know a girl's background so i declined...over and over...over and over. man this girl was ridiculous but i'm sure it was somewhat my fault. although i denied, i continued to pleasure her....um, topically? fingering? stimulating the clitoris and pardon my french if i'm being out of line. she continues to be dirty with me but i'm stern to my word and do not penetrate without a condom - which really didn't bother me at all, although put her through some stimulating type of hell. i insist that i have to leave some time later for a meeting in the morning and do leave. for the next month to two months we exchange text messages and calls to the extent that she's always available and willing to "hang out" and i'm always busy somehow. just the last night we both had a night free and i decided to go to her place and bring some juice due to it being her roommate's b-day (the same one in which i, somewhat, desecrated her bed). i arrive and it's me, my buddy, who is crazily drunk, her roommate and friend (female) and three other guys. one guy is pretty straight forward and immediately suggests a body shot when i bring in the liquor...on my um... uh, what do i call it? target of sorts? i really don't give a shit and just let whatever happens happen and afterwards she comes flocking to me, flirting with me and grinding on me, stationary. for example i'll be standing pouring some shots and she'll actually stand on my feet and bend over pushing herself into me, which is pretty nice, to tell the truth. some time passes between now and the point of question and i'm sorry that i took so long to get here, but here it is. the last time i was here, the time of reckoning (when i didn't seal the deal because of the lack of a condom), we had a discussion of smoking cigs and i looked down upon it and actually took her cigs and tore them all in half, insiting i would not make out with a woman who smokes cigs. this time, i tried to stop her but another friend was there who made me out to be the bad guy (her BFF) so i let her go do her thing and said that i was heading out to get something to eat and i'd be back, but in a rather negative, "i'm leaving," fashion. me and my [drunk] friend head to the car to get some chow, come back and everyone's gone except for her roommate who has no idea where she went, but i do. she went with the body shot dude who was totally over the edge. this is where i ask where did i go wrong? i'm somewhat sure of where i went wrong (leaving her with the dude in question while she's horny and being negative) but is that really it? is she just a, forgive me, ho? i have a couple other fish that i'm interested in, however, this left me curious. so interested yet disappears. damn this is long..........i'm sorry and i'm still a little crunk so forgive my grammar - this took a while to type on an iphone... gracias! |
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| Author: | Mantis- [ Sat May 21, 2011 9:32 am ] |
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I'm confused... U couldve nailed it (her) a 1000 of times, and u rejected it all the times. Then u ditch her pretty hard (twice) by saying u will never make out with a girl who smokes and that ur leaving. Then when she goes with another dude ur pissed cause she left u cold? U could try it a last time, just hanging out and ofc she will be drunk and horny again. take a condom with u this time!! |
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