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Author:  drSmith [ Fri May 13, 2011 4:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Journey to PUA (DrSmith)
Day 0: Why i started
Being AFC sucks!!

Meet DrSmith
Hi i'm an 18 yr old AFC, only had 2 girlfriends in my life and they all cheated on me :( , my last girlfriend was seeing 3 other dudes when she was with me... , girls rarely find me attractive since i'm an asian that likes white girls and white girls rarely date asians. I use to have heaps of confidence and loved talking to strangers, but somehow i lost that confidence during my senior years in high school, i guess i was a nerd and focused too much on my studies or maybe because girls never find me attractive.

I started looking into PUA stuff after i read a few books a mate suggested me to read i.e "the game", "book of pook" and "mystery method", i wish to learn from the community and on the field, i also hope to one day to rebuild my confidence and be able to meet new interesting people. Hopefully you guys can help me in becoming the person I aspire to be.

Dreams
- master the art of pick up
- be able to approach strangers and strike conversations
- be able to meet new and interesting people
- Get a high quality girlfriend
- GET LAID!!!

Things to work on
- work on opening with strangers without stuttering
- confidence
- body language, eye contact etc
- indirect openers, stories for DHV, routines

Questions
- What is the best place to practice my game and experiment?
- How do i get rid of AA?
- How do i know if my materials are good or not?
Author:  drSmith [ Sat May 14, 2011 3:25 pm ]
Post subject: 
Day 1: openings
Objective: open as many sets as possible

In field
Cliff
- Went to a club called "the club" in the city
- me n my mate didnt make it in
- decided to open as many sets as possible on the street

First set: A two set
I prepared a routine at home but decided it wasn't good enough so i opened by asking directions:
Me: hey excuse me which way is the cross
Chick 1: just keep walking this way, its quite a trek so u better take a train
Me: oh thanks, when did sydney get this cold?
Chick 1 and 2: about couple nights ago
Me: wow, the last time i was here it was 40 degrees
Chick 2: oh really, that was a while ago
Me: yeah i went away on exchange for abit
Chick 2: oh cool, where abouts did you go?
Me: I went to UK n stayed in lancaster for a semester
Chick 2: wow, thats cool
(i pretty much didn't know what to say after that, i wish i was more prepared so i could have continued the convo. After a few seconds of awkward silence 2 of the girls left..... foreveralone :( )

second set
(i noticed a HB7 wearing super high heels so i figured, i open with a comment about her shoes n her height)
Me: hey you're really tall, but i guess your shoes give you like 5 to 6 inches in height so that doesn't really count
Chick: (laughs)
Me: Anywayz, i really like your shoes but you should really consider wearing flats next time, u look like u had abit of trouble walking back there.
(the chick laughs again but had no reply, I was really nervous at that time n thought i offended her so i quickly walked away)

(I approached 3 more other sets with simular openers but i wasn't able to reach a hook point, most of them wanted to leave, one of my mate was also sick and wanted to go home so my night was cut short)

What i've learned
- It's much more different in field than how i imagined it to be when i was writing my material
- After a few approaches i feel much more relaxed and had less AA
- It is very difficult to approach an on coming set
- I can't always rely on canned material

Questions
- How to open an on coming set?
- When i use indirect openers, i tend to show FTC through my body language but how do i get to a hook point so that the conversation will continue and i wouldn't have to walk away?
- What do i do if a girl shows IODs, do i walk away or keep talking?
- Can i open with a neg?
- How do i neg without offending the girl?
- How do i overcome the fear of approaching HB9s and 10s?
- How to open moving sets?

Next goal
- Come up with openers, stories and routines for as many situations as possible
- test out the material in the field
- Be able to move past opening and build attraction

Things to work on
- Have more faith in my material
- Stop making excuses
- Start approaching more HB9s and HB10s (i never talked to any HB9s or HB10s be4)
Author:  drSmith [ Sun May 15, 2011 6:52 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
1) The girls were already interested, it was you who ejected early. If you were calmer, you would've realized the conversations could've gone much further. Calming the nerves will come from practice and meditation. Ever thought of sarging after you do your lifts? The feel-good stuff may help.
I never thought of sarging after i lift, i should try it sometime this week n report the results THANKS HOBBIT! oh btw, what aspects do i need to slow down do u mean in terms of the way i approach or just in general?
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