| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| First time gaming, need some advice https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=89795 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | charliecheif [ Sat Apr 16, 2011 10:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | First time gaming, need some advice |
Hey im charlie, last night me and my friend went out in cambridge last night gaming, it went well but....... Last night we went out, we met in the regal (a weatherspoons) and got some drinks, we had a little competition with each other as to who can open the most sets, it was relatively busy, so i got straight into it. First was a 2set, HB 6/7, i opened with me:"hey, can i get your opinion on something?" HB: "yeah sure" ME:"if your in a relationship, and you kiss someone, is that cheating?" HB:"yeah definateley, how is it not?" ME:"What if the girl kisses another girl?" HB":blah blah blah so that was the first set, i carried on with this routine, or one asking for someones opinion on weather i should get my ears pierced or whatever. I felt it was going well, i had so much AA before hand, i didnt think i could even talk to a girl in there let alone open and hold a small amount of conversation. So i that respect i felt i had done well. My problem comes after the opener, i i just dont know what to follow it up with, on my last set i let them answer the opener, then went in with a Neg, the girl I neg'd reacted well, but nothing more came of it and they got their drinks and walked off. We later went into a club, where i immediately opened a 3set HB 8/9's. they really got into the opener, then one payed me a comment that i smelled really nice, i neg'd her and then did the mystery hand routine, they love it, but them my friend came in and crashed the set and they didnt seem so interested anymore. So, the question is.... what and how do i follow up a prefect opener? i dont know what time to do it or what to say! please help charlie |
|
| Author: | charliecheif [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 4:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
wow 35 views no 1 has anything to say? |
|
| Author: | J Don Juan [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 4:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First time gaming, need some advice |
Quote: Hey im charlie, last night me and my friend went out in cambridge last night gaming, it went well but....... i had the same problem but i got over it by stacking routines. sometimes i even use opinion openers in the middle of the conversation.Last night we went out, we met in the regal (a weatherspoons) and got some drinks, we had a little competition with each other as to who can open the most sets, it was relatively busy, so i got straight into it. First was a 2set, HB 6/7, i opened with me:"hey, can i get your opinion on something?" HB: "yeah sure" ME:"if your in a relationship, and you kiss someone, is that cheating?" HB:"yeah definateley, how is it not?" ME:"What if the girl kisses another girl?" HB":blah blah blah so that was the first set, i carried on with this routine, or one asking for someones opinion on weather i should get my ears pierced or whatever. I felt it was going well, i had so much AA before hand, i didnt think i could even talk to a girl in there let alone open and hold a small amount of conversation. So i that respect i felt i had done well. My problem comes after the opener, i i just dont know what to follow it up with, on my last set i let them answer the opener, then went in with a Neg, the girl I neg'd reacted well, but nothing more came of it and they got their drinks and walked off. We later went into a club, where i immediately opened a 3set HB 8/9's. they really got into the opener, then one payed me a comment that i smelled really nice, i neg'd her and then did the mystery hand routine, they love it, but them my friend came in and crashed the set and they didnt seem so interested anymore. So, the question is.... what and how do i follow up a prefect opener? i dont know what time to do it or what to say! please help charlie i know what your feeling ive been there and been through it |
|
| Author: | griff_199 [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 5:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Right now i don't want to seem counter productive or bitchy here.....But questions like this just clog up this forum! They are everywhere! "I open then don't know what to say..." "My conversation gets boring...." "I run out of things to say..." Are you new to the Game? If you are i would suggest reading more into the Mystery Method and learning the basic principles behind that.. After the open is A2, This is when you get the Female -> Male Interest, Basically here you DHV yourself so you use Stories, Gambits, Negs etc. When i was new to the game i got some canned material and used that when i ran out of things to say. I suggest doing the same. Or making up some DHV stories so that you know evan when you run out of things to say you can start to tell one of these stories. http://www.venusianarts.com/how-to-gene ... -examples/ That is a great link that breaks down DHV stories and basically helps you to create your own. Also search around forums and the internet for A2 material, There is sooo much you can use for when a conversation dies. Also Multi Threading is good so that you never run out of things to say. Hope this helps |
|
| Author: | Luda [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 5:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Well i gota suggestion. Im sure you aware that mystery method is kind of old and people tend to not use it because its too complicated and too much to remember. I believe in using sexual tension which is very easy to learn and apply. Remember opening aint shit, so just say hi its simple and it works. Check out 60years of challenge he teaches you how to use sexual tension to get a girl. I use to have these roadblocks too but after using this new method im no longer worried about what to say because silence is golden and can be very powerfull. Because of this my conversations tend to flow because im in the moment and not in my head. To save your time please check 60years of challenge out and tell me what you think about it |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|