So I will post an update on things for a bit...
So this weekend I was gonna meet up with this girl, HB trust issues. Now I always make concrete plans last minute, I usually say, "I'll call you on the weekend to set the plans." Now this kinda backfired on me, and it normally does, when will I learn? Sunday I call her, and she doesn't answer, so I leave a text. "I'm heading out, you wanna join me and meet up for some coffee and a chat?"
No reply.... until 5 hours later. "Sorry I was out on the bike all day and didn't read you text till it was too late, hope you have a good time and enjoy your day out, Bye!"
A flake...
I was quite surprised, because I think I have mentioned this girl seemed to be very interested in me but a bit coy. Oh well, I'll just punish her by ignoring her a bit, I may run into her during class and stuff, no big, I'll just treat it as if nothing happened, be cool, I may bring it up and tease her about flaking. Maybe in a week or so, I'll give her a second chance. But thats the last one she will get.
Next, HB french teacher. This is a funny one. After I gave her an English class she was very enthusiastic about exchanging emails and facebooks. Something I tried to get from her a while back but couldn't due to logistics (someone hacked both of them) and I believe her cuz it looks like she did make a new facebook (even changed her name on it). During class, it was the usual, flirt and tease while connecting, building rapport. At the end, I hit the jackpot, I found a subject that she is very passionate about and managed to build on that by connecting. After that it was all easy. If she was interested before, shes more so now. (I think I even did some very minor sex talk during class, very light stuff, it was related to religion and stuff and how sex is a great way to feel connected to someone, and how its kinda counterproductive to marry someone you haven't had a chance to feel connected to, bc sex creates a very unique and powerful connection b/w two people; she agreed). Also did a bit of kino, talked about nonverbal communication and used it as an opportunity to hold her hand and squeeze (now this is one thing I never quite understood, you guys always say if she squeezes back she is most likely really interested in you, by squeeze do you mean, "entangle your fingers and close hands with each other?" because every single girl I do this to has reciprocated, even some that I am very sure are not interested in me).
Well, i have noticed that now shes a lot more touchy-feely with me. Quite a lot actually, but people say French people tend to be very touchy-feely in general, so I'll take it with a pinch of salt. Still thats a behavioral change. I'll try to set up a day2 where its just the two of us when I have free time. Right now with Easter week everyone is scrambling so I don't plan to make plans with anyone in the coming week anyways.
Still, there was ONE thing that kinda put me off a bit. One time, when she was leaving, her goodbye was a... high five. It was very strange and overly casual. I thought to myself... "What the hell? Friends Zoned?" Prolly not a big deal, esp considering that she went back to her old antics again. It's ok though, this girl has a BF. Still I don't plan stealing her, she's only here for a bit, then she goes back to France, and I don't do LDRs. So I will try to pull a Summer love, and give her the pleasure her BF cant provide, under discretion of course
Next, HB Koala. The one from that long ass FR that few people talked on. Now I said I was gonna distance myself. And I have. Funny thing is 2 weeks. And suddenly shes chasing after me. I swear, women are like cats. Chase em, and they want out. Ignore the shit out of them, and they will do everything possible to get your attention. I teased her about being busy and not, and she replied with "lots of work," every time. However once I tried to get her to talk about what shes been up to she said the same thing and added, and personal problems have made my life chaos these last two weeks. I replied "Oh really?" she simply said "yep." Didn't pursue anymore answers, I felt like she WANTED me to ask. So I didn't. I can only assume thats its something to do with the BF, thats why she's so clingy all of the sudden. I said some things about morals and values and whatnot, and then ended the convo. Next day she got back online to talk again, had some fun, today same thing again, and shes not stopping. She's gotten very flirty as well. The way I see it. There's BF trouble again, and like I said she would come back when there was. I will just play it based on my dad's advice. You don't STEAL girlfriends, just play it casually and slow, keep her hooked and she will fall into your lap all by herself. He said "El interes tiene patas." (interest has legs), she will do most of the work herself as long as shes interested. So thats that with that one.
Thats the scoop with those three targets. Uhm, now as for my game goes. There has been an influx in HBs at work, so I will jump on that. I'm gonna try and focus on quicker closes so I don't have to rely on multiple classes to get a number. 2 is my limit. Will push for one.
You know I learned something about my game. I have decided to keep the deep connection/rapport till much later. Which is part of the escalation model, but its different once you experiment with it yourself, you see all the reasons why its the way it is. Don't play all your cards at once, keep em hooked with your mystery. I guess I was playing around with it bc it was so effective on HB Koala, but I have to remember that with her I didn't even try to connect till much later. But its kinda cool, putting all the pieces together yourself you know.
Also new things to work on. Less texts more calls, I have had a knack of texting over calling, simply bc calls are too damn expensive. Text keep it short an simple. But in retrospect, texts are very impersonal, I'm gonna star calling more. Girls tend to notice these details, and it makes a big difference. I already said the quicker closes and following the Escalation model. I dunno I had other things... but its late, and I forgot, I'll post em when I remember.
One last thing:
The way I see it. As a Pick Up Artist, it is my duty to be the best and most amazing lover any girl can possibly have. Seriously, when I compare myself to other men, I have one thing most don't have when it comes to game. And that is direction. I know what steps to take and how. What the proper moves are, and why. I know the exact frame to take under different parts of the seduction. And I understand what women want. This is all a combination of knowledge from the community, and experience. That is what separates me from the crowd, and that is why I am the prize. Because I KNOW, these girls wont meet anyone else quite like me again unless they are really damn lucky. And honestly trying out some of these routines is quite fun. Especially when its for the first time. Like the Evolution Phase Shift Routine, I am itching for an opp to try that one soon. And the fact that everything is just fun and games, just makes you THAT more bold and THAT more fun and interesting. Because you do shit other guys wouldn't think about and wouldn't have the balls to try, all while holding these girls' hands and showing then a world they have never seen before, fulfilling all their fantasies. Teaching them. Thats what makes us so special, and THATS why we have such high standards, because we know what we are worth, and these girls gotta work damn hard to get these fulfillments. At least thats what a PUA, a seducer, a "Masterful Lover," is to me.