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| Author: | Vibe23 [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 10:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to get natural game? Regular field reports from AFC... |
Having read a couple of other journals, on PUA forums I decided to write my own journal as a field guide. At first I was going to write down my exploits just to gather my thoughts but as I found it useful to read other field reports, I thought as I am going from complete beginner to a PUA, so you might pick up things from what I am doing right but more likely where I am going wrong. I only discovered the PUA forums in the last couple of days, in fact I was sitting at the library trying to do some research but spending most of my time reading about PUA techniques I had never heard of but was excited at the possibilities. I had forgotten my headphones and as I was reading away, I didn’t notice a cute girl come up behind me and she asked, ‘Excuse me, can I use the socket under your desk for my laptop?’ I helped her plug it in and noticed her very cute smile of thanks. I figured she was about twenty although she was quite short and I hoped she wasn’t any younger as there were lots of school kids in the library that afternoon! On reflection she lingered with her smile a second longer than normal so as I resumed my reading, I wondered if there was something more. As I had the PUA forums already up I actually looked up library openers for some inspiration. I found two: “Here’s my library card, can I check you out?” This required a lot of balls and would probably have worked better if she was working at the library though so I thought the other opener of asking ‘What she was studying?’ seemed a better option. As I played out this opener and some other ones I thought of, I tried to figure out how the conversation would go. After about an hour of doing some research but more often figuring out how to get her number with some new PUA technique she started packing her things to leave. (I know I took that long…) However this did give me a good opportunity to open with her as she would need me to get her laptop plug. As I am preparing what is going to happen, what I am going to say etc an elderly Chinese lady about 50 years old comes over, taps me on the shoulder and asks me how to spell ‘assessor’ and ‘take out.’ I explained it and helped her out while the cute girl HB Library looked on. This wasn’t conscious just natural and although the timing was bizarre I think it actually worked in my favour as it showed that I was a genuine and caring guy rather than some jerk just out to get her number. As I unplugged her laptop I joked that I should be be a library assistant, at least then I would be getting paid. (On reflection the paid remark sounds a bit snipey but she laughed) I followed up by asking her what she was studying for and she explained she was writing her thesis on a desalination plant. I explained that I wrote my dissertation last year and we joked about the pains of researching. Then rather out of the blue she said that she had a 2 year old, (on reflection I think this was to assess my reaction but still not sure). I replied ‘nice’ and she went on to talk about her daughter how she was at a friends house at the moment etc. While she is talking I am thinking the game is up she is married and has a kid so I am figuring out how to exit and decide on the mutual have a good day and leave it there. When she asks what time the library is open on Saturdays? I say 12-4pm, 9-4pm and then 10-4pm. And said take your pick. (I later found out it is 9.30-4pm as they just changed the times) She was already lining up her next question but tittered and said that I need to work on that if I want to be a library assistant. ‘I will see you around’ and then she waited. I said I would see her around and as she waited it suddenly occurred that she was waiting for me to ask for her number. (I did say I was an AFC) ‘I should get your number’ so I wrote her number down as she spoke and she leaned in and softened to just a whisper. (Realising it might look slutty in the library or getting in some Kino, probably the former) She finished by saying that she will be as the same place on Saturday and I said I might see you here and resisted the temptation to check out her ass as she walked away. Despite the slightly bungled hello to number close phase, the actual conversation was natural and felt good. After reading a bit about natural game: ‘What you feel she feels’ so I thought this was probably a good reflection on this random pick up. Later that evening I read several bits of advice saying text her as soon as you get her number, something like ‘Now you have my number but you are only allowed to call me once per day’. As she didn’t have my number I thought to text her that evening but I thought a call would be a bit more personal and allow me to find out what she was after a bit better. I called at 8.30pm and it went to voicemail, like weak sauce I hanged up. I was prepared to speak with her but not prepared for a voicemail message. As she would know I called, I sent her a text: ‘Hey HB Library, it’s Vibe here from the library earlier today. I hope the thesis is getting there? If you need a break from writing then this is my number. Vibe.’ I know you should take control but with a baby I didn’t want to make any plans. She text me back the next morning: ‘Hi Vibe. Thanks. I am planning on having a first version done on Monday. So it will be a long weekend. I’ll sure be in the library on Sat, if you have to work as well then I’ll see you there. Enjoy your day. HB Library. This turned out to be a longer post than I imagined but any tips, advice or feedback would be gratefully absorbed. Things to work on and experiment with: Second day kiss close - any advice? Overcoming apprehension – 3 second rule do you use it? |
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| Author: | Vibe23 [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 2:34 am ] |
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HB Library flaked on me so here is the update: I went to the library on Saturday as planned and when she didn’t show up I thought that she had flaked. So I text her later saying that I missed have missed her at the library. She replied: ‘Oh hi vibe. Sorry I didn’t text. I am working in a different library. I live at the beach so it was closer. My fam needed the car and dropped me off. Are you working on Saturdays?’ I replied: ‘I am always working, just as a volunteer library assistant lol. Its my birthday on Sunday but we should arrange something on Monday to celebrate handing in your first edition?’ She hasn’t replied yet and it is Tuesday now, so I think I can work on my text game as I know she likes me. Now my question is where should I go from here? I am hoping she is just busy but should I just wait for her to call or call her? If i do call should i try and arrange a definite time, something like i know there is a good bar with live music on Friday, you should come? As a side note if she has a two year old, not sure how easy it would be taking her out for drinks so maybe meet up during the day at the beach or something? Thanks in advance… |
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