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| Author: | salad_fingers [ Fri Feb 18, 2011 1:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Had possibly the worst day ever since discovering pickup |
I shall try and keep this as simple as possible and apologise if I do not make much sense. Yesterday I aimed to carry on as usual with my daygame and attempts to pluck up the courage to speak to that random HB that crosses my path (I commute on the train and try and start convos there) on the way to meetings but it was as though nothing could come out of my mouth. I reckon I am affected by something known as "Sarger's Block". I will not reveal the locations but these were my best attempts at opening and pick-up:- 1 - Very "rah" looking girl walking past upmarket stores. As we crossed a side road, I let her go in front of me and said "After you, especially as you are taller than I am". And then remembering a few daygaming related videos and articles (particularly inspired by "rocksolidgame" on YT) I would try and stop her by making a compliment and all I could say was "Can I just say, I love your coat". She gave a "er, thanks" and there was no way I could try and transition. Oh and to make things even more crappy I could see there were a couple of school kids also walking past that were mocking my PUA attempt and joking about it to each other. I heard their every word. Humiliating, no other word for this. 2 - Tube station, saw an attractive lady looked early 30s and wanted to open her by saying she looked like my cousin but with blonde hair. But I was too wimpish to do so. As coincidence had it she was on the same tube carriage as me so I would try and ask if this was the way to King's Cross, and as fate had it I would have to get off at the very next stop to get a connecting train. Complete failure. 3 - Tried to start convo with attractive Mediterranean looking girl looking at a stall in the heart of tourist areas. Tried the guessing where you are from opener but I could not work any charisma to impress her, nor pluck up the courage to tell her I liked her dress sense (tight, ripped jeans). I did go for the banter of joking about her quasi-English accent but her friend arrived and it looked awkward. Not to mention there were plenty of other attractive looking girls in my vicinity that made my think "I must try and stop her", "I must say something" but was absolutely clueless and gutless. I bigged myself up by aiming to approach as many HBs as possible but absolutely nothing happened. Seriously, WTF is wrong with me now? I thought I was mastering PUA and daytime basics but those attempts mentioned above were all I did and as best as I tried. I felt like absolute crap in the evening on the slow trip back home. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 1:09 am ] |
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So you have the knowledge but your inner game is keeping you down. You need to increase you confidence/enjoyment of sarginng and reinforce your motivation. I use dream boards for motivation and funny openers to keep me enjoying my game. Tons of inner game info out there and I think something in the ocean will help you move to the next step of your game. |
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| Author: | Hartigan [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 2:38 am ] |
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We all have a bad day! Don´t think too much about it. Try to remember and recreate in your mind other openers that might have worked in the past. |
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