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| Author: | souldier [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Great wedding sarge |
Ok so I’ve been super excited about this wedding for a long time. I friggin LOVE weddings. Everyone’s happy, everyone’s celebrating and there’s this good vibe throught. I was groomed to the teeth and looked really nice if I may say so myself. I had a nice black suit with a perfect fit, a vest and best of all a dark-pink tie and matching napkin. I really stood out, I loved it! The ceremony wasn’t that special except the groom is an airforce pilot and had his pilot friends there. They saluted with swords and played the top gun anthem when the married couple exited the church. Testosterone… At the reception/party/ wedding dinner (or whatever it’s called) was where it all happened. It started out nice, sociializing with my friends. I was quick to mingle with different people. I talked to all sorts of people there. By the end of the night I think I talked to 97% of all the 70 something people there. Everyone from teenagers, all the pretty girls, to the oldest people there. I was really at my best! I was and am so proud of myself! Under the dinner I quickly figured out wich were potential targets and I think It pretty much boiled down to two girls. The two most pretty girls. One of them turned out to be waaay to shy for my taste, so it had to be the other girl who had killer legs and a really nice smile. HB7.5 Maybe. I had talked to her passing by during dinner, and made a great first impression. So relaxed and social. Then we met in a kind of isolated room where the coats was hanging. I knew I had proven my value so I gave her a compliment on her dress which she recieved very well and was very excited about me noticing her good taste. I immediatly, before really taking in her response, noticed her tiara which she was wearing . She was impressed that I noticed it and it was all good. I immediatly moved in to ask her if she believed in anything spirituall or supernatural if you prefer, she told me she believed in fatih and also in god it turned out. I asked her if she believed in telepathy. She immediatly said yes, which suprised me in a good way. So i did the ESP routine on her, and i bloofy aced it! She was totally awstruck. She didn’t know what to say. I didn’ milk that situation enough, next time I’m just going to sit back and let her sing my praises She had to go to the bathroom and didn’t want to loose me yet so she invited me to accompany her. After that we sat on a table and I won a beer from her using the lying game, gor her on the fifth and teased her and hugged/held her halfteasingly. She bought me the beer and told her friends about it. She was really really excited at this point. We splitted up for some reason. Later the bride and groom was dancing alone according to tradition, then the immediate relatives, I was wuick to take her hand and lead her to the dance floor. Really nice dancing. Resting my hands on her waist, hers around my neck. Awesome. I must have gotten tons of social proof here. Later we danced more fast and i twirled her around and stuff (learned t from salsa course, dancing courses are awesome btw!) THEN The crucial point. We were back at the table which I might add was poorly placed right next to the door where people were entering and exiting. I did the evolution faceshift on her which was great. Butt hen when it came to kiss I flubbed it. I asked her how good she was at kissing. She said she didn’t know. I said come on you know. She said no. I said I thought I was an 8 or something like that. She still didn’nt give me a number and I panicked a bit. THen I was like ”come here” do you want to kiss me” At his point she got really uncomfortable and finally fled. I lost her after that. I tried to get her back but it was lost and it was downhill from there. Such a shame. Everything was going soooo great. I woke up in the middle of the night realising that I pushed it to hard. I escalated to friggin quickly. She wasn’t feeling enough comfort yet. I should have opened up to her more making her feel safe. It’s even more obvious when you consider that her maingoal was to feel safety and comfort in her life (styles ev). So close from being a perfect night! What do you guys say, fo you have another opinion on why i did wrong or maybe how I could have gotten her back after she fled? |
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| Author: | zekid [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 6:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | souldier |
i think you answered your own question you might have pushed her to hard at the end excellent work you were just unlucky |
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| Author: | MuffinMaster87 [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 11:38 pm ] |
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Yeah you pushed too hard too quick without developing enough comfort. |
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| Author: | BlueWolf [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 1:07 am ] |
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oh man! It seemed to be going so well. Gutted ey. It was like you were describing a movie or something. I agree with the above posts, you should have built more comfort with her. Talking about her spiritual beliefs was good, you should have carried on in that vein. Talked about deeper stuff like that, I think |
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| Author: | souldier [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 9:58 am ] |
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I think you're right. The deep stuff was definitely getting her excited so that wasn't weird at all I think I should have displayed my vulnerability. Told her about myself somehow. This was an excellent lesson in that. I think I can probably go into comfortmode, way sooner than I think. I have this bad belief that all girls are sceptic and need to be perfectly played and convinced to be attracted to me. Sometimes girls gets impressed simply cause a guy approaches somewhat confident, at least up to HB 7.5. It's not until you get to HB8-HB8,5 that they need more work in attractionmode. This is my belief, what do you guys think? |
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| Author: | TheFuckingItalian [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 12:20 pm ] |
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I have to disagree on the "you push too hard" thing. I think your game was perfect but you simply had a logistic flaw at the end at the point of closing. You can't k-close in that situation, in a room full of people, near the exit where all the people come and go... She doen't want to be seen by her parents or her friends or her relatives kissing a guy she just met... If you got back to the coat hanger, or some other "private" room, you would have DEFINETLY k-closed her! She was ready, man! Think about logistics! |
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| Author: | zekid [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 3:23 pm ] |
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im looking at all the posts i thick the italian has a point at the door all the people passing cousins, friends and maybe her mum or dad could be there looking at ye and it was uncomfortable on her |
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| Author: | souldier [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 7:49 pm ] |
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I agree, the Italian has a point. Even though I escalated a little to quickly, she would probably have complied at a more isolated location. I've also realised that I should sit back and let her engage me and talk. I just plowed on not stoping to breath. I'm a bit scared that I'll loose the attraction if I don't stimulate her constantly. This is a bad mindset. I'm going to let fluff fill in the gaps more and relax... |
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