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| Author: | Oga [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 1:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | FR: Best Rejection I ever got. |
Okay, so last week I was at a late night/paint party at my university's student bar, I was practicing approach game all night and got great results, expanded my social circle and k-closed a 7 within about 5 minutes of meeting her using some stealth attraction shit I learned earlier on in the day. As I was coming out, I opened a two set, a HB7 and a HB8, had been chatting with them, routines and whatnot, gave the HB7 a hug to transfer the paint I had on me and said to my target that she doesn't get any. I made a reference to her heels, saying they must be a bit screwy since she was looking a bit shaky, maybe she was a bit drunk. Then she goes "no I don't drink", and I say "are you Muslim? Cos I've never seen a Muslim in the bar before" (completely contextual, no offence to Muslims), then she goes fucking crazy saying I was insulting Muslims. I was fucking dumbfounded, because this wasn't just where she didn't get my humour, but she completely lashed out, completely caught me off-guard. She then left with her friend who I managed to befriend but then gave me this really dirty look, and not in a good way!:( I was more than ready for a shit test, but not one that was overly aggressive like that! Anyways, here are some things I learned from that night - I no longer had that fear of rejection because these two women completely burned me, which in a way made me remember not to fall asleep at the wheel when it comes to chatting up women, or at least put on cruise control if I do. - If these women go out with negative frames and I go out with a positive one, I am not to blame for their negativity. I had a great night, met lots of great people, if they want to be negative then I'm not going to accommodate that, nor should I, nor will I. - If you are a still-learning PUA like I am, then negative sets are not things you should pursue or attempt to turn around, YET, wait until you have more solid game. I'd appreciate input, all for making my and other peoples' game better. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 3:32 am ] |
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Lol,this field report made me laugh. It's so friggin' funny how the HB-Shaky didnt get the humor of the muslim line. Anyway Im to tired to delve into your entire post but it was a good read. Like your style of PU. |
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| Author: | Joeschmo [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 6:30 am ] |
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Good read I'm probably to inexperienced to provide any real feed back. |
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| Author: | OzzPUA [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 7:59 am ] |
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What I like about your field report is that at the bottom you write where you improved. The thing with neging a girl by muslim, certain nationality etc. usually not a good Idea.... but you still may be able to get away with it with a smile on your face.... did you smile? i always try to smile when I neg i just posted before you how I got badly burned lol |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 4:33 pm ] |
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@OzzPUA-Great point about delivering negs with a smile. Usually when there's a negative resonse to a neg,it's mainly because the PUA didnt calibrate correctly,no smile(to neutralize the neg)or simply a bad neg(too harsh). |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 5:31 pm ] |
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The problem with situations like these is if you are in a closed venue like a party or something similar that a noisy rejection can effect your social proof with other HB's present. To minimise the damage, as the girl releases her diatribe onto you stand totally still with your thumb and index finger stroking your chin nodding to what the girl is saying, to a casual observer it looks like she is telling you an upsetting story and you are offering your services as a listener. Then when she is finished flip the frame entirely with the brilliant reply "nice try" (this is far far more sneaky than you would imagine) then bid them to have a good night,turn and leave. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 5:40 pm ] |
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Well,dude.. Religion is one controversial topic. It's not to be joked around with too much, you never know who's a fanatic. Politics, Religion, Daddy issues.. discuss them with utmost care with women and yeah, a smirk helps. I've often seen guys trying to discuss such topics without making women feel its all a joke.. grin a bit,laugh a little. She'll buy into your frame automatically. |
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