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| Author: | beast mode [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 3:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | got her back to my place - but failed to close (critique me) |
So met this one chick the other weekend at a bar. She texts me the next day and we go back and forth for the next few days (phone/text). She's in town for visiting but leaving in a week. Anyways one day I tell her to come over to my place/area and we'll chill. She comes by and I first bring her into my place for a few, before we leave and grab some food elsewhere. While we walk around, she sticks pretty close to me the whole time and I guide her back with my arm every now and then. Even though it was easy to get her to come out to hang out she has a pretty damn serious personality and it's hard to get her to laugh (I consider myself pretty successful in making ppl laugh and easing the tension, but she only laughed like 3-4 times, from me playfully teasing or joking). Anyhow, afterwards we go back to my place - she can't drink because she's recovering from being sick. So we sit on my couch and decide to watch a movie. I put my arm around her and she says along the lines of "that's uncomfortable can u take that off" very seriously and so I take it off. She stays for the movie but afterwards says she has to leave and as before, is really serious. Pretty disappointed I couldn't get the close! Few questions: 1) what do you do about these ultra-serious types, esp. kino wise? Seems pretty hard to neg/kino with these - wish alcohol coulda helped to loosen up lol. For reference, she does have some stuckup-ness / gold digger feel to her as well. I feel that if I was more aggressive it wouldn't help 2) What's the basic rules to doing "movie" kino? I know it's not ideal, but there was nothing else to do. Sad, but the arm rejection basically kept me away from her for the entire movie. 3) What's a basic all-purpose kino-rejection reply, without sounding butthurt or an asshole? Anything I should have done? |
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| Author: | Keksman [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 3:56 am ] |
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Sounds like she wasn't receptive at all and not interested in flirting. Consider the possibility that she just wanted to hang out? Kind of hard to judge based on what you wrote, but I'd suspect you didn't build attraction and/or comfort. Regarding kino, I'll say what I always say. Start right away and take baby steps. Maybe the arm around her was too big a leap, especially if you had not kinoed before. A pretty fail safe way to feel her out is to lightly grab her hand and stroke her palm or the back of her hand (only use one hand of course). Do this once or twice and see if she responds in kind or grabs your hand. If she does, you're good for a KC. If not, keep taking baby steps. |
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