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Author:  ramlives [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 6:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Building Social Comfort/Social Proof FR (BEING A NORMAL GUY)
To start off Im not trying to pull here or anything like that so dont give me aload of shit for not negging or advice you think I need unless its on social comfort, I'm well aware of what I'm doing here and I'm doing it for a reason, I'm building my social proof up here and using the examples to show you how fucking easy this shit is with only a few things to learn

These are taken from a few sets I did on a night out recently, I talked to loads of people that night but these are just a few that I remember that relate to the social comfort routines and the how to not run out of things to say stuff that I posted, this is how easy it is to get people to respond to you positively and to start to have conversations


Set 1

My friend started talking to two girls so I went over and asked him "whos your friends" I got introduced to them and started talking too one of them, i asked her how she know my friend and she bla bla bla'd then she asked me the same question, I told her and then talked about how funny it was that he looked like a really bad version of a celeb, then I said right i need a drink, said "see you later, have a good night" this was a good interaction, she was very open

Set 2

Thought I seen a girl I used to work with when I was walking up the stairs, turns out it was her so I went back, she was really drunk so I joked about how everytime I seen her she was hammered, we talked for another few seconds then I said "right I'm away to get another drink" I told her to have a good night and done then whole high five knukles together fist thing, results were, she was happy to see me and had a nice smile on her face, I added her to facebook and off of that her friend and her sister, now I have 3 more girls I can use to create social proof in the future when I see them out, bbbbzzzzzzzzzttt program getting bigger.....

Set 3

Opened with Smilling and Girl Coding (there was a drunk guy talking shit), I asked the less attractive one what was he saying and talked about that for a minute or so, the guy tried to talk more and asked me some bullshit loser question, I looked at the girls like "wha?" hes now blew out completely < sickened!, Started introductions "whats your name?...I'm... and this is my friend...whos your friend" Got introduced to her hot friend and started finding out logistics "so where you guys from?", we talked a little and their taxi came then they had to go, got plenty of smiles and it would have been easy to take this further, social comfort was successful

see how I didn't use any bullshit openers, because you don't need them!

Results - Zero bad reactions all night - a very good night talked to shit loads of programs (not just the sets above)

try it and see how easy it is for yourself, but if you can not go around a club or bar and talk to people like this then what hope have you got pulling??

LEARN TO BE SOCIAL FIRST, THEN EVERYTHING WILL START TO FALL INTO PLACE AND THINGS WILL START TO KICK ASS
Author:  Boheme [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 6:21 am ]
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ramlives, sick post bro. But, I'm curious how well you would have done if the interaction continued.

It seems that you were chatting these women up, but the goal of openers, negs, routines, etc... is to create attraction/[seduction], which may have been difficult in those situations. I understand that was not your goal, but I'm trying to point out that although you DHV in social value, it may not have given you the social value that would incite the necessary attraction (once you were ready to escalate).

For me, I feel comfortable with the social aspect of the game, but just because I open a set and can chat with a female for the night doesn't mean that she is going to go any further with me, or that she is even going to give me her number. I have been in several situations where I am successfully chatting with a group of women and then try to conclude the conversation with a #-close or time distortion, but because I approached in the wrong manner I was left grasping at air.

In my opinion (PUAs please comment), there is a certain way of approaching that women will respond to, and once they do they will place you into 1 of 2 categories: friend zone or mating zone. I think that is the whole point of the phase shift.

The problem I see with just being an interesting and outspoken guy is that it may not flip a woman's attraction switches, which will make escalating to more intimate levels difficult.

As a disclaimer, I am new, but just wanted to share my view. If you don't agree that's fine, but please let me know why or at least let me know if I have any relevance here.
Author:  ramlives [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 1:06 pm ]
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I guess I should explain myself a little, I don't believe in DHV's, Negs or any of that bullshit, I don't believe in creating attraction I just assume it, I don't care about value or attraction switches, I don't lke straight indirect, I always let her know I like her as soon as I can which my body language indicates right away, its mostly an eye contact thing I guess.

thou it does depent on the situation and who I'm dealing with, the first two sets i had no sexual interest but the last I seen it as an opertunity, an in through the girls hot friend, in that situation I would have went kinda direct, I prob would have found out if they were single but i'd have put emphasis on the hotty then I would have hit on her

I wrote "kinda direct" even thou what I wrote above is going direct but for over all game I think of kinda direct because I don't really think in terms of indirect/direct I think more about microcalibration and flowing with what is infront of me, If there is a certain girl I like I'll go direct but if I can find some sort of in first like an introduction I'll go for it, I don't like straight indirect because it causes huge problems, the main problem for guys being "what if I run out of things to say" and the other is after 40 minutes of you entertaining her then she says "oh, sorry I didn't know you were into me, sorry I can't give you my number I have a boyfriend" if you read these forums you'll see tese prroblems time and time again

I will be putting up more of these FRs as I go along so if you fallow them you will see what i do i full, I'll be building these stage by stage so the reader can fallow them and practice and I guarantee if you do fallow them you will be able to put what 've written into practice very quick

These FRs are just social comfort building, but they can branch out into any style of game

I have other posts including an old FR if you want to read them, and a post that I use for gaining my attraction, i'll have them linked below

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any other questions fire away, thats why I'm here :) I'm not too good at explaining myself so I'll let future FRs do the work for me hopefully they will give you a picture of whats going on
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