hey guys. so here's my field report.
last Thursday was my brothers goodbye party at one of the hottest clubs in Bogota, its called Andrés DC. if u ever come to Colombia, thats the place to pick up, its huge, several floors so if u messed up u can just go to another floor n dont feel down for your failure.
anyway, we went with all of my brothers friends to this place, but they all kinda old. so right when we entered, this amazing colombian girl, natural blondie (kinda rare here) was in the bar, asking for a drink. n my brother passed by, n she gave him THE nastiest look, turn around, and got back to her friends. i thought to myself, here's another girl with her bitch shield on.
so as the night went by, i started noticing that she's staring at me now n then. so i kept my eye contact with her for a while, till she isolated herself from her friend. Here's my week point on picking up, the open. people in colombia are raised to talk only to friends of friends, and thats how people meet here, so breaking thar barrier for me has been kinda harsh.
anyway, when i saw that she went to the bar again by herself, i decided to open her. with the biggest smile on my face, what i said was:
me: hey, so, ur just gonna stare at me the whole night, n not talk to me, or ask me to dance or anything??? (with disappointment look on my face)
her: well i was just looking at u because u wouldnt stop, im not that easy to intimidate.
me: jajajaja
n u have a big ego on yourself too... too bad ur just too shy... (smile, and walk away torwards the toilet)anyway, i went back to my friends that were really close to her friends. and inmediately went back to talk to her. she asked why i left, n afterwars she asked for my BB pin. i met her friends, perfect AMOG them being friendly, they ended up liking me.
she's asking me out non-stop since then, n yesterday i went to a karaokee night, at her place with a friend. here's the catch and didnt know what to do. there where just one girlfriend, and 2 other guys. so i wanted to close the deal with a kiss, but isolating her was really hard, cause i didnt had much time, i was there for bout 2 hours. so im affraid i might get into the friend zone.
how should i act for now on...