Had a 18th bday party round one of my close friends.
I knew most of the people there but also met some new girls!
Start of the party:
Saw a HB5 + HB8.5(Target) near the food area, talking to each other but also scoping round as they knew no1 there..
What I did was try to gain some social proof before I opened, so what I did was go to a group of friends near to where they were standing and had a great conversation with them, got them to highfive me and also hug me which I thought would help!
Turned round and said "Hey, im suprised I havent seen you before! so how do you now *birthdayboy*" to both of them. (I tried to use the Mystery method by giving more attention to HB5 while facing away from HB8.5)
HB8.5 responded quite quickly and said "Oh yeah, ive known him for a year now! we used to work in the same store!"
Me: You must be.. *HB8.5* right! ive heard so much about you!
HB8.5: Really? im suprised haha!
I cant remember what we said later but after that some other guys came over and "attempted" to game the HB8.5... I then thought that instead of just standing there listening, I could move away and start gaming some other girls(more social proof).
To my luck 2 others came by (Friends with already, 1 with a BF) and both randomly kissed me on the cheek and hugged me as they had just entered the party, I assumed they wer already tipsy/drunk so I played along and did alot of Kino. I got bored after talking to them about random shit and decided to turn round and go back to the two girls.. there was even more boys this time, but to try get the girls attention I grabbed a bottle of vodka and plastic shot cups, walked right into the middle and said "Who's up for shaaattss!!". Everyone wanted in, including the HB8.5. We took our shots and some of the guys decided to walk away.. I decided to talk to the girls about other shit again which ive 4gotten (damn alcohol!) later on I then felt that I should have seculded my target and added some more Kino but failed to do so as my "Tune" played and I HAD to dance to it near the subwoofers...(Not infront of the girls ofc!
).As I sat down, the HB8.5 Came over to me and we got into some great conversation about music and it being a part of our lives (+ grabbing her hand and playing with it, while listening), as we talked, I saw alot of IOI's and we got alot closer to each other, HOWEVER I pussied out of leaning in for the kiss... lolz
Long story short, I gamed some other girls with my basic techniques and had a great time, however, because I didnt go in for the kiss, some other guy gamed her and ended up kissing her ¬_¬.
Goods:
Good experience in conversation
Met new girls
Gamed known girls and now I think 1 girls BF hates me... lmfao
know how to use my friends as gaining social proof infront of the ladies
More confidence
Lots of girls shouting that I'm Fit!
Bad:
Got too drunk
Danced like a retard infront of some girls.. :L
A girl that I was avoiding (for good reasons) hates me even more..
Will get back to you on more bad.. :L
P.S: The HB8.5 was - out of bounds - as the birthday boy has a crush on her! even thou he has been LJBF by her.. :L