Hey sliqaxe.
It's really amazing to see that someone else has about the exact same problem areas as i have, so im looking forward to your field reports and of course i will share my thoughts with you and the rest of the forum.
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| Author: | sliqx [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 6:42 pm ] |
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Hie guys my name is Sliqaxe I am 24yo. I am single right now and I'm tired of it. I am not too bad at social game haha thats all I can do. I am terrified of cold approaching a HB. What I want mainly is to be able to get the type of girls I want and thats HB7+. I have read and applied stuff about being alpha so I do have a bit of value within my social circle. I end up dating HB5 when I dont want to because thats all I can get. I have very high AA haha maybe too high for a 24 year old. I dont want to spend the rest of my life like this. Thats why I joined this community so that I learn to get what I want and not just end up with girls I dont realy like. Main problem areas These are the areas that need to be worked on by me 1 Reduce AA 2 Not be afraid of HB7+ 3 Build my image ie DHV 4 Be able to sustain a convo with HB 5 Develop both day and night game but I'm most interested in day game. One funny thing with me is with anything below HB6 I can #close or even f close but when its HB7+ I put myself into the friend zone automaticaly as if I dont deserve them, what hurts is most of them show iois but I fail to act. Help me out guys because I need to change my dating life. Starting tommorow I will be posting field reports almost every day. Tell me what I need to do and where I'm going wrong. Thanks and keep on reading my story as it develops. |
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| Author: | Nova Casanova [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 7:13 pm ] |
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Hey sliqaxe. It's really amazing to see that someone else has about the exact same problem areas as i have, so im looking forward to your field reports and of course i will share my thoughts with you and the rest of the forum.
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| Author: | AFC Daniel [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 8:02 pm ] |
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Hey sliqaxe, I'm happy to see that you're starting such a journey. Keep this journal update and you'll see how much the community is great! Good luck! We can do it. |
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| Author: | sliqx [ Thu Jan 06, 2011 4:51 pm ] |
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Day 1 Hey guys today was supposed to be my first day in the field but because alot is going on at work right now I didnt even have time to approach any HB. Now I am home but thought I should post anyway. One problem I have is that of being a nice guy. This I know now thanks to this community is a big self cock blocking technique. There is this lady at work...in her 30s shes not a HB but being outspoken, having money and being bossy(shes my supervisor) she kinda acts like a HB9.5. She pushes people around alot and people are afraid of standing up to her. Today I decided that even though I didnt have time to sarge I would try to eliminate the problem of being a nice guy. She did her bossy thing telling me to do this and that piling work on me, I decided that I had enough load for 1 day and there and there told her that. She was taken aback because she didnt expect that. She started bitching about it but I stood my ground and told her that I already had a lot on my plate and if she kept adding more I would be able to finish it. All this was said in a kinda confident but firm voice. I could see the other guys were suprised to but in a good way. I wasnt disrespectful but I stood up for myself like a man. I felt good afterwards. What I learnt is I've got to be a man and start standing up for myself and get what I want. Mistakes happen but I will have to live with the results if I have to. What do I do guys so that I reduce my AA? Give me a task that I can report back to you tommorow. |
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| Author: | AFC Daniel [ Thu Jan 06, 2011 6:41 pm ] |
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Hey! As you know I've started this journey too... Since I'm not a PUA yet, I can only share with you how I felt at the same point. Hope you will relate and it will help you. No worries, you'll have time to approach! Actually that was my first step too... to be a man. Before, I used to avoid eye-contact and interactions... That's not because I was shy... but I was a pussy. I was not comfortable when speaking to someone and I did not want to do it. Other times I was affraid to handle things (like going out at night, arguing with my gf...). I had a girlfriend and got used to the comfort zone she was providing me. I was not a man and that leads to a dead end. We need to be men, men of respect of course. Now that I have started my journey from AFC to PUA, I'm much more confident, I maintain eye-contact, I'm not afraid of approaching someone and actually enjoy having all these small interactions during the day. It makes me dominant and dominance is a key element when it comes to attraction (read that in Vin Di Carlo's Attraction Code!). Quote: What I learnt is I've got to be a man and start standing up for myself and get what I want.
Exactly! And you know what... it feels good. It's not only about PUA... it's self development. Since I started, I'm a new man... I can handle things and be more relaxed... I have still a long way to go but the journey quickly starts to pay when it comes to inner game. Another small advice... Stop masturbation. That used to make me a pussy... We need that sexual tension to move on, don't waste it.For your AA: approach people at the bus, at the store, ... It can be a old granny, a cool dude or a HB, whatever... approach, ask something (directions...), smile, and if you can, keep the conversation going. That's what I've done. It works and you actually get energy from these interactions... It will feel good. Keep up, I'm following you. |
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| Author: | sliqx [ Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:39 pm ] |
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Day 2 Hey guys, today is day 2 and still due to the pressure at work I didnt manage to do alot. I'm tired so I wont be going out to club I'm mostly interested in day game anyway. I know night game is good for practice but maybe tommorow. Todays plan was to talk to people ie for me to reduce my AA. First was an HB7 I saw at lunch time in a fastfood outlet. I was buying lunch and when I got there she had already placed her order. At that time I placed mine and I looked at her and she avoided eye contact. I stepped back a bit from the counter to wait. I was debating in my mind whether to approach her or not. I could feel the AA building up lol I decided not to talk to her. I could see her looking at me now and again until her order came through. The second was a HB6 that works at my company. We are in different departments so we rarely talk. I met her in an elevetor, she got in as I was already in there. We were only three people in there. I looked at her and smiled she looked at me and smiled back. Thats when I decided to just say something and I was like ''and I though you were gonna give me a hug''. I could see her face light up and surprised at the same time, she started to laugh and said 'aaah you want us to get caught hugging' me: by who HB: stil laughing me: it dont matter if its your bf tell him where my office is, if he doesnt like it he should come see me (laugh) we get out of the elevator her first but she dropped her pace to walk by my side and she said 'by your gf'. She smiled and said bye I said bye and we parted by the door. My other interactions were with random guys in my friends office and in the streets. I cant say I'm proud myself but the second HB thing gave me a bit of a boost. Tommorow I will most def go out to find people to just approach and talk to so that I reduce my AA. I learnt that if you are confident enough you can work magic By the way the boss day from day one was treating me nicely today but hey she was still bitchy to the other guys.lol lucky me. |
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| Author: | sliqx [ Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:14 pm ] |
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Hey guys this weekend nothing went down. I didnt even attempt to approach because I didnt know what I wanted from all this. I was running like a headless chicken. Now I think I know (after 2 days of thinking) so I'm gonna give it my best. I want 1 a beautiful gf 2 to have sex with hot HBs 3 to have an attractive lifestyle that I enjoy 4 to have real friends 5 to be just happy I know pu will help me be a man so that I get all these things. Keep following because my fun starts tommorow. |
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| Author: | AFC Daniel [ Sun Jan 09, 2011 10:16 pm ] |
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Quote: Hey guys this weekend nothing went down. I didnt even attempt to approach because I didnt know what I wanted from all this. I was running like a headless chicken. Now I think I know (after 2 days of thinking) so I'm gonna give it my best.
I think it's important to know what you want from this journey. I did the same thing too... but you should have approached people (grannies, cool guy at the mall, girls at the bus station) and tried at least to ask for direction... Little by little you'll get comfortable with that, and then focus on eye contact, smile... That's what happened to me! I want 1 a beautiful gf 2 to have sex with hot HBs 3 to have an attractive lifestyle that I enjoy 4 to have real friends 5 to be just happy I know pu will help me be a man so that I get all these things. Keep following because my fun starts tommorow. The first step is hard but then... it's a pleasure. Now I can have social interactions with cashier, employees and so on without effort. I'm smiling, funny... It took me 15 days of game. I'm sure you can achieve this even faster! Good luck. |
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| Author: | sliqx [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 5:25 pm ] |
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Day 4 Hey guys I will keep this short. Recently I started working on my AA. The plan is to be as social as possible, smile, be alpha and maintain eye contact. Yesterday I saw this HB at the bus stop I opened a few guys that were there but I just couldnt come around to talking to her. I wasnt going to game her but just say hie etc but I failed. We sat next together in the bus but didnt talk we even got off at the same place but nothing still. After this I was fired up, I opened the security man at work, opened people in the elevetor and those in my unit. I was like this the whole day and it felt good. Day 5 Today was the same, I was just making small talk with everyone and I actualy opened an HB7. It was raining and I dont have a car. I was standing with my boys when she passed and she looked at me. I ran after her and joined her in her umbrella. Me hie (smilling) HB I thought I recognised you (smilling) me can I join you it seems we are going in the same direction and its raining HB its ok I start asking about were shes coming from, we talk about her work etc until we reach her busstop. We said bye and she went. I didnt want to game her but I now see I should have #closed her atleast. I'm now a bit comfortable approaching people. Tommorow I will take it a step up and #close atleast a HB. Will approach 5 HBs just to see what happens. Wish me luck. Any tips and missions are welcome. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:46 pm ] |
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Hi mate. I see you've got some AA and closing issues. Maybe these two are the most difficult ones to work with. I'm also not a good closer at the moment. But it's okay keep it up I'm following you. Happy sarging!
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| Author: | sliqx [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:47 pm ] |
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Day 6 & 7 Basicaly still trying to get rid of AA and I seem to be winning. I opened alot of random people and HBs. I went to a mall with a friend and I froze after seeing all the beautiful woman around me. I failed to open even one, just when I thought I was making progress. I need to open HBs now that I can open random people. A HB6 I was flirting with actualy said I'm a player lol this means I'm doing something right. Namely a f@@k it mentality + style + alpha male body language + confidence. I've been working on these and now I walk and stand up with a straight back and held high head. I spread my body when seating plus all this makes me feel a lot confident. I now catch ladies looking at me before I even see them. I managed to open a hb9 who was teasing this kid she was with. This convo lasted abt 3mins but I felt great coz shes the first 9 I have opened. I need to open HB7+ now that I can open random people. I'm loving my training! |
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| Author: | sliqx [ Sun Jan 16, 2011 5:39 am ] |
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Hey last night I went out to the clubs. Problem is I was shot down early in the night when I saw my ex with some dude. She didnt seem to like him and he was totally AFC but maybe she just wanted to make me jealous. I smiled at people and tried to build social value which seem to work. I got iois from many HBs but my ex thing had pulled me down. Three different HBs even came and sat near me, looking at me smilling etc but I didnt open then. Later on I went on the dancefloor to dance alone to a song I like and this cute HB7 came and started grinding me. We danced and kinod a while without speaking just smilling...and she started smoking lol after that I left her real fast I dont smoke so I dont realy like HBs that smoke. I went to another club and danced like mad so that I could get back in the mood. One HB started to dance with me but quickly left. I followed her but she started to act funny not wanting to talk to me. I said something to her but she smiled and started dancing sexy while sitted. I looked her in the eye and smile. She did so too. I tried to take her hand but she pushed me away. That broke me lol so not wanting to look needy I left and went home. I learnt that inner game is important. One site of my ex with another dude ruined my night. I also learnt that smilling + alpha body language + having fun + confidence will bring the HBs to you. I was happy that I even attracted a HB9 though she looked a bit drunk.lol I need to work on getting over my ex so that this wont happen again. I need to work on building more confidence and be more alpha with the ladies as I hesitate sometimes. Cool guys I'm still learning and I love it. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Sun Jan 16, 2011 10:52 am ] |
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Okay seriously... Why is it a habit amongst exes, to try making each other jealous? That's on my top 10 "childish things to do" list. Anyways one good advice I can give you. Don't fuckin' try getting over your ex. That'll make things just worse. Just stop thinking about her. Make yourself useful, whenever a thought of her infiltrates your mind, and in short you won't even remember her name. A couple of kcloses or even some nice fucks also seem to help in these kind of situations  Happy sarging friend!
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| Author: | AFC Daniel [ Mon Jan 17, 2011 6:24 pm ] |
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Quote: Okay seriously... Why is it a habit amongst exes, to try making each other jealous? That's on my top 10 "childish things to do" list. Anyways one good advice I can give you. Don't fuckin' try getting over your ex. That'll make things just worse. Just stop thinking about her. Make yourself useful, whenever a thought of her infiltrates your mind, and in short you won't even remember her name. A couple of kcloses or even some nice fucks also seem to help in these kind of situations
I think being able to not want to make your ex-gf jealous is a great evidence of a strong inner game. I wish we'll all be able to avoid that kind of negative feelings in the future. Likewise, I wish we all could handle these situations when we stumble upon our exes with their new boyfriends. In the end it's all about inner game. Happy sarging friend! The Game must go on folks. |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Mon Jan 17, 2011 8:09 pm ] |
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Quote: I think being able to not want to make your ex-gf jealous is a great evidence of a strong inner game. I wish we'll all be able to avoid that kind of negative feelings in the future. Likewise, I wish we all could handle these situations when we stumble upon our exes with their new boyfriends. In the end it's all about inner game. The Game must go on folks. I still have to improve body language a lot and voice tone. I catch myself talking in a too high voice tone many times. Small but more important things to work on. Happy sarging !
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