First of all I'm 16, I just browse this site casually to get a couple random tips and ideas into my head here and there.
Do not want to become a player, rather just be a AFC and make it work, but that doesn't happen.
So first a good friend of mine invited me to a house party, where it was the usual people I hung out with. I had no intention of hooking up, but I wanted to countdown with my friends so I accepted.
Couple hours later a girl I've been seeing invited me to another party, I declined telling her I had already made a commitment with my friends.
Fast forward a day and a couple hours later at 7pm I end up at my friend's house.
5 girls, like 20 guys, I knew it was going to be crappy. 3 of the girls were off limits, because they were close friends. 1 of them was too short, and a HB6. The other girl is possibly the only HB10 I've ever met.
So obviously I talk with some friends and have a good time, but later they break out the "stuff" I didn't want to be involved with. So I took myself, a bottle of alcohol and 2 girls and decided to go to the second party.
I really wished to spend it with the girl I've been seeing, but she was playing bouncer for her friend the entire night and didn't give me any time. So we just hugged at the door and I went in.
When I got there everyone was getting smashed.
As soon as I walked downstairs 3 girls just jumped on me, introducing themselves and grabbing my arm and touching my necklace (peacocking material).
I got lots of hugs and bro shakes from a bunch of people and established a nice social proof (from people I wasn't even that close to).
Immediately I spotted like 3 grenades and a couple off limits girls (dated/home wrecked close friends) . I just distanced myself from the whole group, because I didn't want to pick out the good ones out of a mob.
I go upstairs see some girls from my school, have a casual conversation but they were way too flirty and drunk, so I took some 151 and caught up.
I sit back down and there's a swarm of girls around me, which is a HUGE surprise for me. I assume the other guys had something wrong with them, because they were just downstairs sitting and talking by themselves.
So I introduce to myself, and neg a couple girls skip the basic talk and talk about the party and NYE. I wanted to connect with one of them as opposed to sprouting shallow conversation but they were all together.
So as the group broke up a bit, I started talking with this girl and she was like "addd me on faceboook", I went smooth and said.
"I think facebook's stupid, you add someone and never talk to them again, but I want to talk to you. How about you give me your number and you can meet me again when your sober".
She laughed and I thought I screwed up, but she grabbed my phone and typed in the digits.
Then she asked me to call her so she had my number too, which I did. She was a solid HB9.5. You should have seen the look on her friend's face when I just number closed 3 people sitting together, and I just skipped her (bad mistake?).
I go back downstairs and the girls are still smashed, took a couple pictures with me despite my failed photogenics.
Talked with some of them, and K/makeout closed with 2 right after the other.
By then I was satisfied and wanted to make it back for the countdown.
As I leave I catch the look on the first girl I've been seeing's eyes. No expression, just walked past me.
So I got a ride back to the first party, and everyones all down. All the girls are goneeee, but I was satisfied for the night.
Everything else that happend was boring.
But the HB9.5 sent me a text message, greeting me and apologizing for not catching my on my way out.
I responded back, and she just ended the conversation with "okay, it was nice meeting you see you around".
Which confused me, is that a IOI/hard to get? Or what?
I then log on Facebook later and see the first girl call me a player on my status. Can't figure if she's joking or not or what she saw.
I really wanted to get with either the 9.5 or the first girl, but at this point both seem pretty bleak at the moment.
Rate my day and analyze my situation with the two girls?
I do realize I pretty much had to do NO work, and hey it's highschool. Girls will be girls.
*Would these two texts be good to the girls?
HB9.5 Yes, you will definitely be seeing me again
(good response I'lll call her out with me).First Girl Hey didn't catch you last night, you played bouncer. .