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| Author: | Ay-Jay [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 11:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Playing girls against each other for social proof |
Ok so I was out last night with a couple of mates and we met up with some of his female friends. I sat down next to an empty seat across the table from this HB8 who I'd already gamed the previous night who I know is attracted to me (but just hard to get). I noticed this HB7 standing by herself nearby and figured I could cause a bit of jealously here which I could use so I told her she looks out of place and to sit next to me. So I start by gaming this HB7 but she keeps getting the occasional interrupt from one of her friends. Whilst she's talking to her friend I notice this very drunk 6 walking past so I'm thinking I can use this... I start building attraction and rapport up with the 6 which was obviously a piece of cake, so she's now hanging around me like a fly 'round shit. I tap the HB7 on the shoulder and I'm like 'you're gonna have to save me from this girl behind me', so the HB7 (who I'd already got lots of IOIs off) just put her arm around me until the girl behind left (about 30 secs or so). While she was doing this I glanced across the table at the HB8 and no lie, she was looking at the HB7 with jealousy in her eyes. Now this is where I messed up a bit - the HB7 asked me how old I was, I asked her to guess but she wouldn't so I told her she should tell me how old she is first so she told me she was 20. She was like 'so how old are you then?' (and this is where I fucked up) I said 'too old for you' (trying to neg) but she just got up and walked off I instantly knew that she thought I was trying to hide my age. I just turned around and started talking to my friend as if everything was normal and kept making eye contact with the HB8 across the table, I told her to come sit next to me so we can talk, she was 'I'm already sitting down thanks' I just shrugged and said fair enough as if it wasn't a big deal and continued talking to my mate. Then next thing you know a couple minutes later the HB8 comes over and sits where the HB7 was sitting, I start gaming her and then... The HB7 comes back looking like WTF??? I tell the HB7 (in her ear so the HB8 can't hear) sorry this girl took your seat, you can pull another one up next to me if you like? She looked a bit intimidated by the HB8 and decided against it and just went off to dance. Anyway within 10 mins I tried for a Kclose with the HB8, she said she had a boyfriend I said 'that's not what I asked' - she was like 'I can't cheat on him' so I settled for a #closed instead. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Dec 19, 2010 9:06 pm ] |
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Im shocked this post hasnt gotten any replies yet. Great friggin' game Ay-Jay with the jealousy-plot line. You didnt not mess up by telling the girl you're too old for her. You were using a classic "false "disqualifier which I always use. Shedidnt leave because she felt you were hiding age. She left as a congruency test to see if you would chase and beg,which would've then disqualified you. But you kept congruent and alpha,so she came back after she realize you werent chasing. With the seated HB8,I think you should've sat next to her,but it all worked out where she eventually sat in te HB7's spot. Good work with using the HB6 for social value. Guy need to understand that it doesnt matter how un-attractive or fat a girl is,other women see her as prettier,eventhough she may say,"she's fat and ugly". So that's why I game fat girls & UG's(ugly girls)'cause they have major value to other girls(HB10's). So great job Ay-Jay. The kiss close. I think you flubbed up on this one. Seems like you got set aback by her saying she has a bf(which could've just been a test). Perhaps if you were KINO'ing,flirting and escalating rapidly(since it's an SPAM where girls are at high- buying temperature),you could've gotten the make out. Anyway,great report,and I've learned some stuff from you. |
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| Author: | =DARE= [ Mon Dec 20, 2010 9:32 pm ] |
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Shedidnt leave because she felt you were hiding age.
Nice observation! I'd probably do the same and move on thinking I'd crashed and burned with her
She left as a congruency test to see if you would chase and beg,which would've then disqualified you. But you kept congruent and alpha,so she came back after she realize you werent chasing. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 21, 2010 2:02 am ] |
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@=Dare=-Thanks for the props. I think at times we all C&B(crash & burn)with congruency tests. |
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| Author: | gotcha [ Tue Dec 21, 2010 11:46 pm ] |
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Very well done. The way you used the drunk 6 as a pawn for the HB7 to DHVyou was genius. Staying alpha served you well |
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| Author: | Ay-Jay [ Tue Dec 21, 2010 11:54 pm ] |
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Thanks for the feedback guys, K-loc: As you suggested in another of my posts I think my problem with Kiss closing is that I'm not moving the targets away from their friends - I guess they probably feel as if they're in the spotlight a bit? Glad my experience can help people out though! 
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