Hi all, this is my 1st field report, and even though I didn't get any close, it was loads of fun! Feedback welcome...
So I went on a date with this really cute (and very interesting and smart) chick (a solid 7.5+) I met randomly around work, who accepted without obstacles a Friday night date in a bar.
I am impressed at what I did! So first I went straight into statement-like personal talking instead of boring question-&-answers stuff. Then I DHV-ed loads with funny stories of past experiences, especially travel. Plenty of kino, always stopping before she would tell me, then push-pull and staying quiet and apparently distracted for a minute or so till she came back to me. I sneaked into her comfort zone by asking where she feels most at home, and telling her we'll go there together.
Then, I run the cube!!! I can't believe how excited and engaged she became with that shit!!! She really loved it and was all 'Oh my God oh my God wow!' - and giggling and stuff!!! Then, it came the would-be-killer statement
HB: I've had a boyfriend for 2 years
And here it was the Mystery answer delivered:
Me: He Can Cook Us [fucking] Breakfast!!!
HB: (Lots of laughter and giggles) Oh I guess he would not like to do that!
Following which, I kept behaving completely ignoring this piece of information.
Then I suggested we go together to several fun places, and I could see she was very tempted, although she only said Yes for the least committing ones (ie places in town). Another gem of an exchange:
HB: But I can't come and do this with you, I've only been knowing you for 4 days!
Me: I know, but it feels like we've been knowing each other for the whole life.
HB: Yes, sometimes we meet someone special and we do feel like that.
Awesome.
Then, I walked her home, and finally I went for the Mystery kissing routine!
Me: Would you like to kiss me?
HB: (Lots of giggles) Oh but really I've been dating this guy for two years!
Me: [Proudly Mystery again]: I Didn't Say You [fucking] Could! It Only Looked Like You Had Something On Your Mind!!!
After which, I was so happy of my handling of the situation, that I went into a club (it was 12.30 only) and opened like 6 sets with the silly "Is kissing cheating?" opinion opener! And many of them responded really well!!!
Anyway, me and the HB7.5 agreed to see each other again soon. So I would welcome any feedback and ideas for bf-destroyer routines! She really didn't seem super happy about the bf anyway.
Cheers!
Freedom