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Author:  enzo214 [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 6:26 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP!!!! BEING GAMED AT WORK BY HB10 OR SEXUAL HARASMENT?

So I work with this HB (8 face, but 10 body). She is hot and she knows it. We are both dating other people but she flirts with me sometimes. One time she invites me out to drinks with her and some friends. Were having a good time hanging out and while we take a picture she is like hey now don't get fresh when I put my arm around her to take a pic and I'm like whatever just playing around. I spend much of the night talking to another HB10 friend of hers and towards the end of the night the girl I work with comes over and is like "I know you want me, I can tell by the way you look at me"...and I'm like whatever playing it cool...........

Fastforward a week later she sends me a work email that says something like "Hey just wanted to clear the air about our awkward situation, you grabbed my ass twice last week and it made me feel uncomfortable. I just didn't want things to be awkward between us so just wanted to clear the air." So I am petrified!! my first response is that is she setting me up for a sexual harassment lawsuit because I never "grabbed" her ass not once! Thinking she is setting me up to get fired and sued I write back and deny it and say, "I did not grab you, but if you feel uncomfortable I apologize."

I work right next to her at work so I have to see her every day. So basically I stop flirting with her altogether and eventually we both pretend like nothing happend and keep it professional. Fastforward 6 months later she leaves my work for another job and starts texting me like hey how are you doing..this and that. I play in a pool league and she is all I want to come watch you play..........so I am confused is she playing me or does she like me or what? I know playing with this girl is like fire but she is bangin hot I can't help it. What the hell was that email about was she setting me up for a lawsuit or playing games or what? I mean if she really didn't want the situation to be akward then don't send me a work email claiming that I groped you because I never did! I'm confused guys sorry I know long, but what say you?

Author:  pua_666 [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 2:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP!!!! BEING GAMED AT WORK BY HB10 OR SEXUAL HARASMENT

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So I work with this HB (8 face, but 10 body). She is hot and she knows it. We are both dating other people but she flirts with me sometimes. One time she invites me out to drinks with her and some friends. Were having a good time hanging out and while we take a picture she is like hey now don't get fresh when I put my arm around her to take a pic and I'm like whatever just playing around. I spend much of the night talking to another HB10 friend of hers and towards the end of the night the girl I work with comes over and is like "I know you want me, I can tell by the way you look at me"...and I'm like whatever playing it cool...........

Fastforward a week later she sends me a work email that says something like "Hey just wanted to clear the air about our awkward situation, you grabbed my ass twice last week and it made me feel uncomfortable. I just didn't want things to be awkward between us so just wanted to clear the air." So I am petrified!! my first response is that is she setting me up for a sexual harassment lawsuit because I never "grabbed" her ass not once! Thinking she is setting me up to get fired and sued I write back and deny it and say, "I did not grab you, but if you feel uncomfortable I apologize."

I work right next to her at work so I have to see her every day. So basically I stop flirting with her altogether and eventually we both pretend like nothing happend and keep it professional. Fastforward 6 months later she leaves my work for another job and starts texting me like hey how are you doing..this and that. I play in a pool league and she is all I want to come watch you play..........so I am confused is she playing me or does she like me or what? I know playing with this girl is like fire but she is bangin hot I can't help it. What the hell was that email about was she setting me up for a lawsuit or playing games or what? I mean if she really didn't want the situation to be akward then don't send me a work email claiming that I groped you because I never did! I'm confused guys sorry I know long, but what say you?
My 2 cents: She wants your cock. If she is still in your office, DO NOT go for it. If she is working somewhere else, fuck the shit out of her!

Author:  MrBlond [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 8:14 am ]
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she wants to get dicked down, and wanted to get dicked down that night she said "i know you want me" but when you didn't play ball she felt awkward so she made up the ass grabbing thing to feel like shes still controlling the situation.

grab your dick to remind yourself its still there, tell her she should hang out one night but know that its ultimately gonna lead to a bed/sofa/carseat ect. how you get her there is what makes you you

Author:  enzo214 [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 3:35 pm ]
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Thanks for the feedback guys. I just wasn't sure if she was one of those girls that wanted a guy to go for her just to validate herself and it was just the game of it, but then would leave my hanging. She is one of those girls that assumes every guy that talks to her is trying to fuck her and she is probably right. Technically I was her boss at the time so the potential sexual harassment stuff freaked me out, could have really messed things up for me at work. But we don't work together anymore.

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 5:30 pm ]
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she wants to get dicked down, and wanted to get dicked down that night she said "i know you want me" but when you didn't play ball she felt awkward so she made up the ass grabbing thing to feel like shes still controlling the situation.
Exactly.

Now she's not working there, set up a day 2, kino escalate, push-pull, qualify, comfort, seduction, fuck.

Author:  pyuya [ Sat Nov 27, 2010 2:16 pm ]
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By engaging in a non professional relationship (flirting, socializing), you are jeopardizing your job. If she sent you the email saying she felt uncomfortable, distance yourself from her, but do not talk with her over email, do not leave a paper trail that she can use against you in a law suit or to show your boss. Just leave her alone, I know you are tempted, but women like to tempt guys at work because they know they are not supposed to. She is not someone you can trust, and her personality sounds unstable.

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