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Author:  Jykae [ Sun Oct 24, 2010 2:02 am ]
Post subject:  DAMAGE CONTROL: Opened her, got ioi's, but screwed things up

I was out last night with a bunch of friends. I saw this HB9 and opened her set with my horoscope routine.

the routine in short is:
i ask them if they believe in horoscopes. then i ask them did they now that there actually should be 10 months 7 year, not 12. Then i go into a story about this.

So i tell my story and i'm right in the end of it. Throughout the story my target is looking at me and smiling, even if i'm talking to her friends. so the set hooked somewhat but i left quite soon after the hook point.

My intention was to re-initiate the chat again, but then i noticed that she was leaving the club. So i walk up to her and her friend and re-initiate the chat that: "i think horoscopes are not that accurate, they're just generalizations. Do you know each other well?" -> i go into the best friends and do a super quick version. Then i tell my target: "i know this too early, but i'd love to see you again, put in your number" And i hand her my cell. she says: "naah, i'm not buying into that" - Time running out i say: "It's ok, i understand. You all have a blast" And i leave smiling.

So i got ioi's from her, and she was interested in talking to me, but went for the number way too early. But here comes the fun part and this is where i REALLY need help from u guys! : My friend knew her from school and told me her name - so now i have her facebook. She doesn't know that I have it.

I'm really interested in this girl so i thought that i'd send her a message on facebook. I'm in total damage control, and not sure what to do. Here's my thoughts on proceeding with her.

I'll send her a msg on facebook saying: "Hey remember me from last night? we talked about horoscopes and such, you were leaving so we didn't have time to meet properly. you seem like a very interesting person, and i'd love to find out more. But let's not get carried away, i'm not marrying you ;)

you must be wondering how i got your name. (i tell her that a friend of mine recognized you, i also tell the friends name to see if she knows him. she probably does.)

Like i said we talked about horoscopes. I don't really believe in them, but there's this amazing personality test that's unbelievably accurate. (then i tell her a something about the cube, but not much. Just to get her interested)

If you're interested, i can do the test on you - let's see what comes out! so, write me back if you're interested. If not, I understand and i'll respect your decision.

have a great autumn and let's smile if we meet somewhere :)"

Please, share your thoughts!

Author:  pua_666 [ Sun Oct 24, 2010 1:56 pm ]
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Jykae,

Sorry to say that but I think your game is over. You should have taken the number when you had rapport. If you do facebook routine, like you intend to do, getting her name from friend etc, I think it will be total DLV - My 2 cents. Don't worry. There are plenty of fish out there!

Good luck!

Author:  Jykae [ Sun Oct 24, 2010 4:11 pm ]
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Yep, you're totally right. the facebook routine would be way too needy and there's no way to show enough value that way. I'll have to run into her again somewhere. But like you said there's plenty of fish in the sea!

Thanks for the answer! :)

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