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| Author: | adonis_boy [ Sun Oct 17, 2010 5:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Drunk Girl at a Party |
This girl M, I met at a party was very into me. She touched me a lot, laughed at my teases and jokes, responded well to my flirtings. She was sober until I was leaving: she gave me a hug and said "This city is small, I guess we will meet again." and I say "Why leave it to chance? Just write me your number." and she is laughing like "Are you serious?". She tries to remember her own number and then I realize that she is very drunk and can't even remember it. She writes a number and I give a call but her phone doesn't ring. Then this drunk guy pulls her over and tries to grind on her and says "Come on!". Then I left because I can't stand when people don't know the limits of drinking and act like that. That's just me. I didn't want to get laid either so it was not worth the effort to try to cockblock the other guy. She is really attractive and I enjoyed my time with her when she is not drunk but I'm not sure if I can cope with her if she usually gets drunk that easy and flirt with other guys. What would you do in my situation? Would you try to get her number the next time and see where it leads? I'm ready to move on with other options but I want some opinions from you before letting it go. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Nova Casanova [ Sun Oct 17, 2010 9:37 pm ] |
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Funny to hear that you have quite the same opinion on people who drink to much.  You also say that you're not into easy lays as well. So what would be the point of trying to get her number if you don't like people who don't know how much alcohol they can handle and don't like getting laid easy either? Or did I miss something vital here? |
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| Author: | adonis_boy [ Mon Oct 18, 2010 6:33 pm ] |
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Ok, I know it's me who will make the final decision but since this is the first time I am facing this, I want to hear what you have to say. If my question isn't clear: Yes, I don't like people that do not know the limits when drinking but is it enough just to evaluate one person only by their drinking habits and ignore a possible chance of a relationship? Would you just let her go if you have seen some good potential between you but you do not know how to handle girls who drink like that? |
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| Author: | Nova Casanova [ Tue Oct 19, 2010 9:11 pm ] |
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Hmm good point, made me think about my point of view on this for sure. My problem with alcohol is that eventually it will make you lose control of yourself and the situation around you; something I don't like at all. My problem with the combination alcohol + girls is that girls will loss control of themselves as well, which will cause other men to make use of that. Girls won't notice that and tend to believe that men get drunk for the same reason as the do. I used to point that out to them but they didn't believe me or cared about it. That frustrated me, so I stopped caring about it. So far my opinion on alcohol. Knowing that alcohol is quite a hot topic for people of my age and for that your opinion on it and how it differs from your potential girlfriend's opinion, I would consider it quite a breakpoint/letdown (can't find the exact word I'm looking for here) if a girl I like doesn't at all share my opinion on alcohol. Damn what a sentence. For me this also has to do with trustworthyness; If she goes out with her friends and I don't know if she's going to drink responsibly... Don't like the idea! Summarized, I don't say that when she drinks a lot and irresponsible, I am for sure not going to go after her, but it matters a lot to me. It would depend on how her friends look at this and how they'd take care after her. When she'd have so many similarities with me and we'd nearly only differ on this, I'd probably take it for granted. Hope this helped you! |
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