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| Author: | Algorythm [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 1:20 am ] |
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okay so ive been with this site for sometime now and learned some new tricks to improve my game, one of my sticky is fear or apprach anxiety, because after taking some drugs its been fukin up my game for the past year. Thanks to this forum page its really helped me alot on my inner game and outter game. Im in auckland NZ SPAM as im travelling around, staying in a backpacker after i left my friends house and being out in the real world has made a big iompact on me, i met a guy named NATURAL he helped me alot in my inner game about confidence and how powerfull the opwer of the mind really is.... ok now field report, As we left the backpackers around 11 we headed to town and checked out alot of bars and clubs to see which had the most women, there wernt much women hanging around by this time. We went to a bar around the harbour and the SPAM was great. we walked in and a hb7 was staring towards my new friend so i encouraged him to go up and talk. they chatted and we left as all the women is leaving. after getting some smokes and mints my friend was off again to chat up a drunk girl from the dairy, as we got in my anxiety kicked in so we headed out and had a smoke and Natural giving me sopme tips and pointers about inner game, went back in and i just imagined the club we were in at the time is just a kitchen from the backpackers where yotu can jst chat normally, soon after our chat we walked in i saw 2 HB6 who had a camera and asked them if i could take a pic of them, they tought i was about to take a pic with their camera not knowing i had my own they disagreed so we chatted before they took off, while scanning the room i realised they were behind me so i approached again by sitting next to my targets friend and opened her first, i noticed her friend wasnt interested so i got up and sat next to them both and opened my target and left. Natural is by now in a 2set with HB6, HB7 they got real close before she mentioned she had a bf and out hello the bf is there, he then opened another 2set of HB5,HB7 who soon left the club. its around 3.30 in the morning walking towards the backpacker and without a doubt we were still gaming on the street overall this night has been one of the best nights out ive had in the past year considering ive been working on my inner game alot, ive now realised theres no point in reading forums, making routines, and reading on what and how to do things.. the best thing to do is really do and learn it from experience by annalysing every move u make, i wouldnt have learned this without the help of this forum and i would like to say THANKS to everyone on this site to help every AFC and turning them into real PUA!! i know this is a club report but i just 30 mins ago while i was at a food court a HB8 caught my eye and still feeling it from last night i appraoched her and gave her my number(i know were not suppose to but its for a test) i wasnt expecting her to txt simply because i wasnt trying to game her i just wanted to know what happens when i do give my number out lol, as i left i saw the napkin on the table and just looked at it and laughed for experience. im travelling to ChristChurch soon and would like to meet people for sarging and pick up, if anyone is interested leave a msg or a comment and i will get back to you. cheers Dilaks |
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| Author: | Deja [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 2:19 am ] |
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I'm new to this Forum, and 'The Game' - nor am I a PUA, but I would say far from a AFC, so don't take my just take the following comments as my own opinion rather then advice. Some real PUAs can maybe correct me on this but the mistakes i see here are: 1) Givin her your number - Im not sure what you were testing? a rejection? Dont get me wrong, I have done it as well a few times, luckly I knew I had shown them value, and knew they would call back. And they did. However givin ur number to them, is basically placing the ball in their court and let them decide what they want to do, which is dangerous. They don't call - lowers ur self esteem and boosts theirs. But what you wrote, it sounds like you gave her your number within a few minutes after approaching her..... i cannot see that you shown any value to her. I'm not sure if I understood right, but are you saying she left the napkin with ur number on the table?? 2) Taking Photos of the girls with your cam: The mistake i see there is that you are immediately boosting up their ego. You are basically telling them girls that you see value in them, hence are taking a photo of them.... again they'll feel cocky. I had rather taken their cam and taken a photo of myself, or some random spastic kid, just for a laugh, it would of been a better opener. 3) Quote "ive now realised theres no point in reading forums, making routines" Your wording here is very wrong; I actually know what you are trying to say, but this above line is wrong. We are all here on this forum to gain better undestanding of the game, to have a community, and to have fun. However what I believe you're trying to say is that 'reading wont get you far, you need to expereince it in the real world. Which i agree, however I think this forum provides a lots of insights and shares a lot. Lets learn from others mistakes and experiences and try to improve our own game. So i disagree with that, and YESS there IS A HUGE POINT IN READING AND STUDYING UR TARGET before you attack. Hope this helps. feel free to crisize any of my comments., and of course please don't take any comments offensive.. |
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| Author: | Algorythm [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 11:26 am ] |
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Quote: 1) Givin her your number - Im not sure what you were testing? a rejection? Dont get me wrong, I have done it as well a few times, luckly I knew I had shown them value, and knew they would call back. And they did. However givin ur number to them, is basically placing the ball in their court and let them decide what they want to do, which is dangerous. They don't call - lowers ur self esteem and boosts theirs. But what you wrote, it sounds like you gave her your number within a few minutes after approaching her..... i cannot see that you shown any value to her. I'm not sure if I understood right, but are you saying she left the napkin with ur number on the table??
well David D mentioned you have to be selfish to learn how to be kind, chief mentioned that to become a man, PUA or a mPUA one must learn from his emotions, what i was trying to do is test her and myself, testing myself by giving her my number and letting myself feel what it would be like to be rejected, testing her to see wether she was a fun daring girl. if she does txt then i would not only know she is interested in me but the fact that shes fun and adventures.when i see a girl i dont aim for just her looks i look at her flaws like style, im actually interested in the inner her not just the outter. post more later time running out lols and no hard feelings mate |
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| Author: | Deja [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 11:46 am ] |
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thats great dude. didnt see it from that perspective. but good stuff. yeh for sure, i like to study them too... and analyse all their actions and responses, so thats good. Personally I gave out my number as well a few time, especially because it set me apart from all the other dicks that asked her for her number.... but i just feel unless you sold yourself good, and demonstrated value, ur gambling a lot, as a turn-down for you may mean more then it does for her. anyways, keep ya head up - and good luck! |
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| Author: | Algorythm [ Sun Oct 10, 2010 11:10 pm ] |
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Quote: Taking Photos of the girls with your cam: The mistake i see there is that you are immediately boosting up their ego. You are basically telling them girls that you see value in them, hence are taking a photo of them.... again they'll feel cocky. I had rather taken their cam and taken a photo of myself, or some random spastic kid, just for a laugh, it would of been a better opener
taking a photo with her cam would probably be the right approach, although my reason for taking her photo with my cam is another test for her, it gives me an idea of what her personality is like,it can also give an oppurtunity to tease her and have fun with her after like " YES, NOW I KNOW WHAT U LOOK LIKE IM GOING TO STALK YOU ALL NIGHT Quote: Quote "ive now realised theres no point in reading forums, making routines"
your right again my wording here is wrong because i was still tired from my 3 hours sleep from the previous night. what i meant to say is, i've now realised it takes more then forums to actually learn from your own mistakes in gaming a woman, sure u might know what to say and how to say it but that sounds like we are just being a robot not someone who is actually being themselves and thats something i dont want to become, my reason for joining this forum is to pick up women and still be myself (no routines or tacticsjust the good old FUN)
Your wording here is very wrong; I actually know what you are trying to say, but this above line is wrong. We are all here on this forum to gain better undestanding of the game, to have a community, and to have fun. However what I believe you're trying to say is that 'reading wont get you far, you need to expereince it in the real world. Which i agree, however I think this forum provides a lots of insights and shares a lot. Lets learn from others mistakes and experiences and try to improve our own game. So i disagree with that, and YESS there IS A HUGE POINT IN READING AND STUDYING UR TARGET before you attack. |
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