If she just texted you, its not a fail, she just put in the effort
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| Author: | blacksun [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 12:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | first time opening last night. |
hey guys. last night i was at a huge gathering. through the night i was just chating to this lass and she took my number. bad move that she took mine i know but she dashed off before i could get her number but it doesn't matter cos i saw her at the club again later that night. i still didnt number close :S when i saw her again in the bar i said something to her and she had some major bitch shielding going on so i just walked away. after half an hour i started chatting to her mate. i got a few negs onto the other lass which was ok. i noticed that she actually wanted to be with me she was wanting me to dance. i didn't dance tho. last night was just a time to test the feild and notice attitude changes towards things i did. im pretty drunk at this stage. i just got chatting to the lass and she showed me a couple of IOI's she was asking me all sorts of stuff. but with me i didn't do enuf. i was quite drunk so forgot quite alot of what i wanted to do in a routine so kino was out the window and all the major aspects were aswell. the thing that i found mostly hard to do was the escalation part. and because i didnt do it she instantly lost interest after about half an hour. was weird. at the same time it's good that i can now see these things. my question is how do i escalate after the opener and once the comfort zone is there? i couldn't even number close cos she gave me the whole "im taking a break from seeing men" speech. we all know if i played it right she wouldn't be saying that at all. |
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| Author: | blacksun [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 1:42 pm ] |
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actually, maybe it wasnt much of a fail. she just text me seeing how i am. fair enuf. first attempt sucess. |
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| Author: | whysoskinny [ Mon Sep 13, 2010 11:30 pm ] |
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If she just texted you, its not a fail, she just put in the effort ) YEHHH BUDDY
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| Author: | blacksun [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 3:36 pm ] |
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yer think i went on too strong. errrm, yer, she hasnt text back cos i asked if she wanted tog o out sometime. she may reply sometime in the future. but yer this was just to see how the boat floats. i now need to get a routine together and work on it. |
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| Author: | Jon Paul [ Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: first time opening last night. |
Quote: im pretty drunk at this stage. i just got chatting to the lass and she showed me a couple of IOI's she was asking me all sorts of stuff. but with me i didn't do enuf. i / |
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| Author: | king_87 [ Wed Sep 15, 2010 2:50 am ] |
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Quote: yer think i went on too strong. errrm, yer, she hasnt text back cos i asked if she wanted tog o out sometime. she may reply sometime in the future. but yer this was just to see how the boat floats. i now need to get a routine together and work on it.
dam bro kino escalation is usually just a must do like crack a joke lightly hit her shoulder ya know just like you would mess around with a homie or something it goes along way when you show you see them as an equal and not on a pedestal
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| Author: | blacksun [ Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:02 pm ] |
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oright guys cheers for the advice. |
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