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Author:  Barry_Burton69 [ Sat Sep 04, 2010 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  FAIL. first time i would apporach

the title basicly says it all, FAIL.

last night was supposed to be the night i would use all the stuff i learned during the 3 month summer break, but i didn't. AA and being insecure about myself got the best of me. let me tell you what happened

Last night i went out to my high schools away football game, high school football games are like the clubs/bars for people my age cause most people go just to socialize. Anyways, when i got there i thought i decied to sit down on the bleachers to think about my opener before i approach. then one of my friends who i don't really talk to no more started talking about the game and blah. during halftime, we both decided to walk around to meet girls. then a group of girls hb 4,4,4,7.5 came up to him. the hb 7.5 game him a hug and long time no see etc. we all walked to the snack bar and my friend and group started talking while i was just there feeling really stupid. one of the girls introduced her friend to my friend and he intorudced me to them and they didn't really care from the look of their faces.
so the whole 10 min interacton i was just standing by friend not saying anything and regreting coming out that night. after that my confidence just went down and i just sat at the bleachers i watched the game...

too put it short i could of taked to the set i was in, but i felt insecure cause my eyes were red and i just didn't know what to say. i freezed up.
also most the hb's at the game were with guys and i didn't want to approach them cause i think im not ready to approach mix groups for my first approach.

ps. how should i go about this opener " hey guys quick opinion, what do you think about guys who buy girls flowers on a first date?"

they would probably answer the question but i don't know where to go from there.
any advice?

Author:  TonyFerrara [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 7:38 am ]
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If its your first approach ever go with something easy like whats the time? Directions something easy do it until you feel no AA and you can just easily speak to anyone random/stranger at anytime and that way you'll notice that it won't be so hard to get a opinion either just make sure your comfortable so when you actually do approach its not one of those times where you think for 30 mins before you approach and then when you do its a nasty Girls "blah blah opinion question" thats nervously pooorly delivered so just practice and move up and man up! good luck!

Author:  afc_gone [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:28 am ]
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Also...maybe you should start gaming alone. Cause if you have a friend that's good with girls he'll steal all the attention (and not on purpose, he's like that always) and that will just put you down. Like it did.

Author:  Barry_Burton69 [ Sun Sep 05, 2010 9:49 pm ]
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thanks guys i'll be sure to go game alone next time.

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