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Author:  Skan [ Fri Jul 16, 2010 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  My very first approche(s) [LONG]
Hi there,

Some background story: i'm a pretty random guy. Have several girlfriends, several one night stands. I had 2 important girlfriends. One with which i stayed for 3 yrs, and another one right after her with which i stayed for a 1 year.

All in all, i have some kind of experience in women. Yet, it's been sometimes now that i havent had a good girl in my bed, or that i met new girls.

I could give you right now at least 20 excuses for that, but we all know they are rubbish, so I won't bullshit you. I'm scared. I never approched a girl in bright light just to say "hi" & start a conversation from there.

So i decided a few weeks ago that that had to change. Started reading a lot, glancing the forums here, and so on.

Yet, even if now i know more about the theory (god how many mistakes i made before. I was a fucking lucky bastard that even given all those mistakes i still managed to sleep with some girls !), i still struggle with AA.

So now, back to the FR:

Yesterday me and two friends went in a pub in Budapest (here on vacation). I told them a little about PUA'ing, so they always try to push me 'cuz "i talk but i dont do it" (which they are right to say).

So we order drinks, and a group a 3 girls pass by. I'd say HB4, HB7 and HB9, but that's all suggestive. They look at us, smile etc. The job was almost already made for us.

Yet i dont go to talk to them. We take a seat, wait a little. They come and seat right at the table in front of us. They wave at me, smile. THEY FUCKING WAVE. And i still don't go in. I felt afraid. There were other guys just right next to them. Maybe you know the feeling. I was over-analysing the situation, imagining how i should open & shit.

Finally, i go to the bathroom and when i come back my friend says "they're leaving". So i said well fuck it and went for it. The funny thing is i didnt even open with anything i thought about. I just went there and said "are you guyz leaving ?".

It was probably retarded, but that's all i could say at the moment, and since i remember my lesson ("better to say ANYTHING then to let awkward silence") well i went for it.

There i started working. I did a good job at talking to all 3 of the girls, eventho i was only intrested in one of them. I was friendly, smiling. I moved them to another place in the pub, more quiet. Then my friends joined me. As i told them a little bit about PUA, they new the basic (not to turn their back on me, not to be rude etc.). They did a good job too.

At some point, everyone of both our groups were chatting with each other. I excused myself to go to the bathroom and on the way there i notice a 2 set. I was so pumped up that i opened them too !

I just passed by and said "hey there" or something, and we started to talk in spanish (don't even know the fuck why, they were hungarian and i'm belgian). We then switched to english. Since i had to go to the bathroom (i opened them on my way there), i had a real excuse to say i had to go, and make them chase me.

When i got out of the bathroom, i joined my friends with the 3 girls (Danish, yyyppieeee) and continued there. At some point, we went to order drinks and i notice my 2-hungarian-set following me.

At this point, i kinda went back and forth from the two groups of girls. It was the best feeling ever. Everytime i left a group, the girls would look at me and see i was going to talk with other girls. Everytime i came back to them, they would be more intrested.

I've never done that in my life, and that was the first time i approched, and everything went real fine.

Then, the danish girls wanted to move to another venue, and asked me to go with them. I obviously obliged. I took the # of one of the hungarian first (#-close, yey), and we left with the danish girls.

At the other venue, we're still all talking, some Irish guys join us, everything is cool. The HB9 is talking a lot to me. I start to tease her about some stuff, it works real well. So there i pulled to good old moves to extract ourselfs from the group.

Here's how i did it: i talked to the girl, and slightly moved around her, so she would have her back to the group. Doing this, i would also take a few steps back, so she'd follow me. At some point, moving like this, we were a few meters from the group, and i was able to say to her "let's go and sit somewhere" without it to be awkward if her friends hear it. Perfect plan, worked like a charm.

So we went and sit, not too far, but not too near from the group. Started talking. I already did some escalating during the night (she didnt believe me for something i said to her, so i told her to grab my hand and look me in the eyes while i say it, stuffs like that).

So there, on our seats, i could escalate some more. I took her hand at some point, and released the touching one time. Then i did it again, but released it while bringing her hand close to my leg. She put her hand on it and didnt move it for like 2 minutes. It was pretty obvious that she wanted me to kiss her at this point, so i went for it.

I k-closed that HB9 and i feel i didnt make any huge mistakes until now.

Then it got complicated. If you're still reading this and if you have any advice, i'm all ears.

She was really hot. Kissing me and breathing loudly while i touched her. We moved to another room in the venue (darker) and she was even hotter. She lead me to her ass (under her skirt), "made me" finger her, right there and then. So, you can imagine, she was hotter than the sun.

Unfortunatly, her friends didnt see it that way. Around 5am, they were all "lets go home" blabla and she couldnt really say no at that point. I mean, i understand her. Saying in front of her 2 friends like "nope, i'm going back to that guy i barely know's place to fuck all night, see ya" is difficult.

So no f-close, unfortunatly. She left me her name (for facebook)/number.

All-in-all, it was a great night, eventho the disapointing ending. All that thanks to things i read here everyday. So thank you guyz !

Do you have any advices on that stupid friends that wanna go home thing ? I was lost there...

Sorry, that was really long, i really wanted to tell the whole story, i'm so proud of myself .. =D

Hope some of this can help some of you!

Have a good day!
Author:  CaptAwesome [ Sat Jul 17, 2010 11:13 pm ]
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Dude, that is freakin awesome@!!!!!

I posted my first FR today as well (two fails and a win) and all I managed was to crash and burn twice and then barely get a number close with an HB8. SO for you to pull off that is freakin awesome!

I liked your isolation technique too, I will have to try that sometime as I had huge problems trying to isolate this girl last night.
Author:  Skan [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 7:56 pm ]
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Dude, that is freakin awesome@!!!!!

I posted my first FR today as well (two fails and a win) and all I managed was to crash and burn twice and then barely get a number close with an HB8. SO for you to pull off that is freakin awesome!

I liked your isolation technique too, I will have to try that sometime as I had huge problems trying to isolate this girl last night.
Thanks man, yeah that was awesome!

Sure, it's a very good way to isolate i think, use it, it worked really good !
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