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Author:  Nostradamus [ Thu Jun 03, 2010 10:52 pm ]
Post subject:  FR+ First field report after long relationship

This is my first field report after having a long relationship. The last couple of days I invested hours and hours into self improvement. In a way I let go of my ex, but tonight I gave into misery. I decided to go to a local bar to have a drink so I could find some peace and quiet in my head. I put on a pink straw cowboy hat and a black boa; it’s the first time I used pea cocking.

I sat down at the bar. There weren’t a lot of people, but I didn’t care. Main reason to be there was to have a beer and go back home for a good night sleep. I felt someone touching the boa and replied to a girl that seemed to be with no-one that night. ‘Don’t touch the merchandise, it will cost you’. The girl giggled. I never used this routine, but the way she reacted let me smile. ‘What will it cost me?’ she asked. ‘Buy me a drink and maybe I’ll let you touch it even more cus you seem to really dig it’. I don’t know if I came across bitchie, but I just wasn’t in the mood right now. ‘Ok, what would you like?’ Wow, I was really surprised. ‘another beer would be nice’. She signed to the bartender and ordered a beer and a coke. ‘Thank you, now you may touch it’. Her eyes became big as Puzz-in-Boots eyes (the cat from Shrek). ‘Do you want to wear it?’ I asked. ‘Yeah! Sweet’. She grabbed the boa but I stopped her ‘no no, you can’t just take it’. ‘Why not?’ ‘My cheek is cold. It is really bothering me. You should take care of it’ She then gave me a kiss on the cheek. It was kind of hard, because it has been a long time ago I got my last kiss on the cheek besides the lips of my ex.

I grabbed in my pocket for a mint because I didn’t want to smell like alcohol. I never drank alcohol in my life, maybe 1 or 2 beers, so I guess this wasn’t the way to go. Anyhow, a balloon came with it. ‘What’s that?’ She asked. ‘A balloon silly, I had a birthday and there were balloons. I learned some kids how to make a dog.’ ‘How adorable, show me!’ ‘Why are you here all alone?’ ‘I was here with some friends earlier, but needed to come back, because I lost some earrings’ ‘Did you find them?’ ‘yeah’.
I showed her how to make a dog and she told me that I was awesome. ‘You’ve good insight, I admire that in a person’. **Maybe this is a good routine, wherever you go you take some balloons with you to teach to someone to build some comfort/attraction**

She asked me all kinds of stuff. I won’t bother to put it all down her. Just some chitchat.

‘You play guitar?! Great! I’m trying to learn It myself. I bet you make a great teacher.’ I didn’t reply to that. She stood up went behind the bar like she owned the place and got back with some playing cards; ‘let’s play!’ ‘I’d rather go outside. I need some fresh air, but you can join me’ ‘Ok, I’ll leave the cards behind’ ‘No, it’s ok, take them with you’. We sat down on the ground somewhere and we played cards.

‘You seem different then other guys, you know, I like you’. In a way I was just irritated when she said that. I gave up the alpha guy in my relationship and became needy and too sweet; the reason why she broke up with me. I didn’t care for the girl that was in front of me and she was into me. IOI after IOI. Thinking she just wanted the words I read and that Ive become.

I thought to myself; ‘you know what, f*ck it’. ‘I enjoyed my evening with you, but I’m going home now. It was good talking to you’. ‘Can I have your number?’ She asked. ‘It’s still early, you can come home with me, I’ll teach you something on guitar.’

At home, she sat on the couch with my guitar while I was poring her a drink. I gave her a lesson, played something for her. She really enjoyed herself. ‘My fingers begin to hurt’ and she put the guitar away. She thanked me and put her hand on my knee. There was this weird silence. She came closer. I was scared. She kissed me on the corners of my mouth, her hands playing through my hair, I felt her tongue. I stood up, ripped of her pants and gave her a little bit of heaven for 1 minute while she rocketed off my dick through the window when I came….. Well no, I told her I wasn’t ready for her to kiss me and that I rather watch a movie with her. In the end I brought her home. I found her number on the table when I came home.

I just couldn’t kiss her or have sex with her. It didn’t feel right.

Author:  BrianTampa [ Fri Jun 04, 2010 11:54 pm ]
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First, should not have been drinking.

Second,you clearly didn't feel good about the hat and boa and the lines you were using. This is why I think "natural game" is superior.

Third, you were out to get validated rather than to have a good time or get laid. You tend to get what you are out for. ( Often I am just out to get a good time but when I get home I realize I could have gotten laid. )

Fourth, you led that girl on when you went home with her. You should have cut it off with a number close, then if you still felt like it tried again sober with no feather boa.

Author:  AFC Royal [ Sat Jun 05, 2010 2:46 am ]
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I'm not going to bother hating on MM... just sounds like you need to get some positive energy back in your life. Maybe take up a new hobby or something to distract you, maybe even a martial art to help you focus... Whatever it is, just come back refreshed and ready to give it another go.

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