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Author:  Seal_Of_Solomon [ Tue May 25, 2010 2:23 pm ]
Post subject:  I made a fool out of myself...
This happened an hour ago. I was at the buss and saw a young woman. My hearth was pounding violently, I lost all my energy and it took time to gather the courage.
To begin with I must inform the reader that she asked "what?" after everytime I said something and I had to repeat the same sentence/question.

I approached her and asked her what time it was she said she didn't knew, I said, "no worry, I have a watch right here."
Then I asked if she took this buss often. And then I asked if that question made it all too obvious. I asked her if she was afraid of me, she answered something, I didn't hear her. Later I introduced myself, and reached out my hand she didn't take it until after a long time had passed..
I was quiet for a long time and said that I was going of at the nex station and asked if she wanted my number for a cup of coffee.
"No it's good," she said.
At least I tried i answered and said good bye when I left the buss.

I guess I'll never get a girlfriend. :cry:
Author:  Yovet [ Tue May 25, 2010 3:11 pm ]
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Sorry man to tell u this, but that got nothing to do with the PUA style.

U showed urself needy, allouded her to take power over u and missed all the C&F.

My recomendation, dedicate 3 weeks of ur life to practice the PUA, improve first inner game and blast away the AA. The get to learn C&F and outher game. U should see the results, cause i think now u r a bit innexperienced on the PU arts.
Author:  Truncheon [ Tue May 25, 2010 3:23 pm ]
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Hello Solomon,

It appears that you actually had the courage to encounter a female on the bus. Congrats, now to go for the next steps in line, you need to become comfy doing it without over thinking whats going to happen.

It appears to me you have inner game (internal issues), which will always relate to a "bad game". So first start building a better self and the outer game (external self) would improve as you go.

You gone in way to hard if you ask me, why would you want todo such a thing, its much nicer for yourself to actually build an natural dialog like:

Hi, my name is , who are you?
She will mostlikely reply with her name, build some normal conversation about your life and that your cool instead of an interview like, Whats your pony's name, etc. etc.

Good luck!
Author:  ashernshuga [ Tue May 25, 2010 5:14 pm ]
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Hey Solomon, I'm new to this so I can't really offer you too much but two things are immediately obvious to me.

1. You had to balls to approach. The amount of guys that freeze up when doing this (has happened to me as well) is huge. The difference is real pua's learn to overcome this. You took a big step by approaching and should keep it up.

2. If you now want to translate this into success you need to learn some game. First, like Wesley has said you need to convince yourself that you are the prize. The girl is lucky that you've even entered her world. I know this is easier said than done, but one exercise you can do is every morning when you wake up, look yourself in the mirror, stand up straight, maintain eye contact with yourself and say 10 times, I am the prize, the girl is lucky to have me in her world. Until you internalise this belief you'll have to learn to fake it till you make it. This is where body language come in, and canned material. Read some books, research the stuff on this forum and internalise it. Then take that admirable courage you've already displayed and put it to good use by practising in the field.

Best of luck, the mPUAs all started at the bottom, getting blown out like every other AFC. Only difference is they persevered and learnt. Best of luck, keep it up.
Author:  Phazzle [ Tue May 25, 2010 7:45 pm ]
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Hey buddy! Dont be so hard on yourself. Get used to being shot down and humiliated. It happens to all of us and all it means is that you had a bad set. Here are two of mine:

1) Walked up to a woman in a bar drinking and wearing a shirt with the bar's logo on it. I assumed she was an employee off work so I go up and say "Hey! They let you drink on the job!? Man that's a sweet gig."

She gives me a shitty look and says "Im off I can drink whenever I want."

I reply, kind of pissy "That was actually a joke...sorry if I didn't make that clear. Bye."

2) In Subway, spot a HB9 eating a sandwich. It was a rainy day and she was in sandals. So I say "Hey, why are you in sandals today!? Dont your feet get wet."

She laughs and says "Yeah it's kind of uncomfortable." I start to think of another thread and as I do I spill my 16oz drink all over the fucking floor! Epic Fail! I dont even think I said anything after that. I just bailed.

So. Long story short. Get used to it!

Also, I have found that it is quite theraputic to make a woman feel like a bitch if she is acting like one. If you are talking to a woman and she starts acting like a bitch just look at her and say "Believe it or not princess not every guy who talks to you is trying to hit on you. Some of us are just trying to be nice and have fun. Anyway, I hope your mood improves before the night is over. See ya."
Author:  haudas [ Wed May 26, 2010 1:17 am ]
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Congratulations,you HAD the fucking balls.
I think im in the same level that you are,struggling with AA,and etc.
Author:  Seal_Of_Solomon [ Wed May 26, 2010 2:07 am ]
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I tried and I failed. I'm going to die alone.
Author:  Truncheon [ Wed May 26, 2010 12:35 pm ]
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Quote:
I tried and I failed. I'm going to die alone.
Everybody fails somehow. Don't show this pussy kind of behaviour it isn't helping you or anybody reading your thread whom first was like wow, this guy had the balls to conqueror his fears.

Your now only making a fool out of yourself.

-- WS
Author:  Phazzle [ Wed May 26, 2010 1:25 pm ]
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This guy is a troll. Ignore him.
Author:  Phazzle [ Wed May 26, 2010 1:34 pm ]
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This guy is a troll. Ignore him.
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