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Author:  revolv3r [ Mon May 24, 2010 7:58 am ]
Post subject:  General Question and How do I handle this common prob, tl;dr
Hey guys, I'm new here and not use to the forum so please bare with me.

I have a general question about the type of girl I hooked up with and also need advice on what to do when cockblocked like this.

Basically I was chillen with these two girls in their car with my boy outside my house party as it was dieing down.

The girl was on my lap and I was feelin on her a bit, carressing and massaging. She didnt seem to into it, yet didnt stop any of my advances.

Her and I go back into my house so she can go to the bathroom and when she comes out I say "Hey, I wanna show you something"

I bring her into the bedroom and show her the tempur pedic. We're laying down, talking, get to tickling and as Im on top I start kissing her neck. Shes not kissing me back really but not stopping it.

She let me pull out her tits and suck on them, but would sorta fight me on it. Saying "No, Im making this too easy on you, no no"

I kept going and tried taking her pants off, to which she really fought me on. I pretty much forced them down and started fingering her. But she was into it even tho she kept saying "no, this is to easy, I usually play games." To which I responded "Alright lets play games then"

But after like a minute of fingering her, to which she was really resisting, Im like okay Im not goin to rape this girl. So I stopped and said "Do you really want me to stop?" She hesitated, and said "No" with giggles. So things got a lil easier.

She started feeling on my dick so I pulled it out and was rubbing it on her tits and like motioned it toward her mouth. She turned and giggled saying "Nope, my mouth didnt touch it"

(Question: I really feel like this is just how the girl was. Honestly, thinking back, I feel like she was testing me, like she wanted me to force her)

Then as Im about to take my shorts off, her friend slams on the door saying "What the fuck, am I suppose to drive home alone?"

Shes like "I gotta go, shes so mad at me"

And at this point I didnt want to stop her because I wouldve really felt like I was trying to take advantage or even rape her, and thats not what Im about.

So we got dressed and I walked her outside, kissed her goodbye.

Questions. How should I have handled the cockblock because I really think she wouldve stayed and had sex. But I dont know what was up with her playing hard to get.

In general are these kinda girls just like that? She wasnt fucked up enough, she could have gotten up at any time and left if she really felt threatened.

I plan on being an active member in this forum so I look forward to your responses. Thanks guys
Author:  Karas [ Mon May 24, 2010 8:52 pm ]
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First off let me say good going my man sound's like you did well but,this problem all came down to the logistics.A wingman would have been quit useful in this situation he could been occupying or fuckin the friend while you two were doing your own thing

You see with girls,if one isn't happy then she is going to try and pull her friend down with her.Whats the saying,misery loves company.And theres a good chance your target is going to listen to her friend,something like this happened to me this weekend.Hey you could of probably keep her in room but, that might of caused a great deal of drama between the two.

But that's all up to weather or not you give a damn about there friendship.It sounds like she likes you so just get her number and arrange a 1 on 1 no cockblock.lol

And with the situation with her resisting and complying,some girls like that kind of stuff you just have to pay attention to her body language and expressions.My secret garden by nancy friday,a good book about woman and there fantasy's has a chapter in it about that situation.

One more thing just a thought,you could of tried to pull the friend in for a 3some. :wink:
Author:  the-man-himself [ Tue May 25, 2010 1:16 am ]
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listen your obviosuly not a very confident bloke. take it from me, a man whos been there, done that - confidence is key. dont worry though one day youll be fine, just gotta find that little somethign that inspires you, dont be afraid to cry about the whole thing. YOULL BE OKAY.
Author:  revolv3r [ Tue May 25, 2010 7:10 am ]
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listen your obviosuly not a very confident bloke. take it from me, a man whos been there, done that - confidence is key. dont worry though one day youll be fine, just gotta find that little somethign that inspires you, dont be afraid to cry about the whole thing. YOULL BE OKAY.
I dont know what this post is suppose to do? Obv Im not the most confident person. Im here to learn and get better.

Cry about the whole thing? GTFO?

You sound pretty C&F. Are you trying to pick me up?

To the dude that actually responded. I had a semi wingman when we were in the car. We were both massagin the girls, but the cockblock was textin on her phone and getting upset, I think she mighta been textin her ex or something which wasnt helping. But for sure in general I know what you mean.

Should I have tried to keep her in the room? Her friend didnt stay at the door, she went back outside, maybe she expected us to take another 10 mins???
Author:  fr3sh [ Wed May 26, 2010 7:59 pm ]
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I agree a wingman is essential. I just posted a topic about having a good wingman in the field report section.

I think you could have push-pulled at her a bit. Women love roller-coasters and are all about anticipation and excitement. That gets them dripping in their panties.

The other night I had an epiphany. The girl I was making out with said she was a Pisces and asked me what I was, and I said a Leo (which I am) I was like you are like a fish and I am cat who's gonna eat you up Rawwrrrr haha. She dug that. Anyway, when I was kissing her I realized that girls love it when you are kissing them and you pull away and just peck at them leading them into you. They lean in wanting more but if you toy with that push-pull it is a great way to escalate it. If you open your eyes when you do it you will see how bad she really wants it.

Karas is right though, a good wingman shouldn't fail you. A friend isn't necessarily a good wingman and a good wingman isn't necessarily a good friend. If you can find one that is both and understands how you operate, the better off you guys will be.

Also you could have gone with them to drop her friend home and then have fun with her or gone out to get some food or whatever. But that requires some skill, possibly a good wingman. I mean I don't know what the circumstances are as far as that situation goes.
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