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Author:  nov [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 10:34 am ]
Post subject:  what's going on??

It happened to me 2 times so far!! god damn it.
once
I picked up a girl in the club, game went fine I spend about 2 hours with her till the end of the party, drove her and her friend home, got kiss on the chick phone number and day 2.
On day 2 went with her for a coffee I used all the elements such as push/pull and chase cycling. Girl was happy. Then after a few day and few phone calls, when we were about to meet second time she said she don't wanna to meet anymore.

second

I've met girl like 2 years ago in the club as well, she picked up me on the dancefloor, I took her number kiss with her also. Then we didn't meet straight up, I haven't seen her that 2 years because I went abroad. When I came back I called her, she was very happy and stuff so we met. Went to her home, she made me supper, we kissed heavily everything seemed fine. On my next call she told me she don't want to meet me anymore.

What could be the cause? what could turn her off? I can't think of anything

PS - sorry for my English

Author:  SpeXXX [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:16 pm ]
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In the first event, I can't really understand what happened because its not detailed enough and there are blanks you need to cover for us to understand.
For instance, what had happened at the end of that day 2? how much time did you wait to call her after the day 2 and how many times?

This case looks like a classic cat string theory but you should elaborate more on this in order to tell what really went wrong.

In the second event, its a definitely Buyer's Remorse case. I'm not sure if you are familiar with this term because you're new so I'll quote from The Mystery Method:
Quote:
Buyer's remorse occurs when a person purchases something on a whim, only to regret the purchase later. Similarly, a woman who is attracted to you may be pushed, or on her own, go too far too soon. While in the moment she may indulge in her attraction and sexual arousal only to regret her feelings or actions later.
She probably don't want to meet with you again because she knows that everytime she'll see you it means getting into business.

Author:  RockyD [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 2:26 pm ]
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Mabye work on your mid-game. sounds like you open fine and get a number close but then mabye you need fresh material to stop her going stale

Author:  nov [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 10:21 pm ]
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thanks for answers.


what had happened at the end of that day 2?

The Girl wanted to spend more time with me but I said I've got a meeting with my friends and I gotta go. So she went home, we kissed on chicks at the end

how much time did you wait to call her after the day 2

I text her almost straight away that was nice to spend time with her.

and how many times?

I called her about 3 times before day3, I think here we've got my problem do we? :/

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