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| Author: | rustyburger [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 8:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Fri-15th-2010 |
I'm still new to the whole PUA thing I'm still a huge AFC, and tonight proved it all the more. I went for my first time ever... clubbing and sarging. I did absolutly horrible and failed very badly, I think my choice of club was bad but I also don't like blaming the club, because that is running from your failure I think... Any club is THE club, and there were enough women there, lots of 7's,8's and a few 9's. Entering the club: I smiled and kept it on the entired time, I was dressed in brown dressshirt with black pants, a hat, 3 sliver chains,a scarf, and sunglasses, I was peacocking as much as I could. I've only read the book "the game" and 90 pages in so thats all the reading I got on it, I really wanted to try some techs I had learned into action, I tried the whole dryer lint thing and I thought I did it perfectly but I was shot down in less then 3 seconds, after that, I won't lie, I lost a lot of heart, and that was almost the only trick I knew that I could put into use cuz it was to loud to talk plus I lost 99% of the courage I had built up. I've certianly got a long way to go, any sugestions/comments/flaming is welcome. |
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| Author: | *Klepto* [ Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | right then. . . |
well, for starters, go to a bar. clubs are more difficult due to the noise. second, peacocking needs to be bigger and brighter. Big pink cowboy hat is good, bright t-shirt etc. this will help solve your dieing convo problems Third, write a script. the best way not too get shot down is to write a simple couple of routines down with some scripted speech etc. it avoids the awquard AFC silences. God i hated those Fourth, Learn how to cold read and finish Styles book. also purchase "masic Bullets" By savoy, it has more up to date techniques Fifth, enjoy what they enjoy, "its not lieing its flirting" Finally, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY. Your gunna have to learn: THERE IS ALWAYS ANOTHER GIRL WHO IS UP TO FUCK YOU, THEY JUST DONT NO IT YET! Once you understand this for yourself, you wont care anymore and wont worry about every single girl giving you confidence. They will pick up on this and it will be easier Because you dont care. Not caring even can be a subtle neg. First is always the hardest, it will get easier. Good Luck |
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