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| Author: | Dizzler [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 5:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My first HB 10 # close |
Gentlemen, I'm pleased and proud to finally announce that I number closed a HB 10 who threw multiple IOI's my way. The last thing she said to me was "Well it was great to meet you and you have my number, so yeah" MONEY IN THE BANK!! So this is very exciting for me, but I'm not sure really how to deal with a HB 10, in fact I've never gamed anything above an HB 8. I was going to call her thursday (got her number on monday evening) and tell her I'm going to get some good food and go to party and she should join me either Friday or Saturday night. Unfortunately there is something working against me: I don't have a car, I live in a city with a great metro service, but I have a feeling the metro isn't going to cut in for an HB 10. Another thing is, I'm not sure there will be a party to take her too, so is it cool to have a plan B and take her to the movies if nothing is going on? Please advise me, Regards and thanks! |
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| Author: | Bormad [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 5:33 pm ] |
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Grats on the number however you seem to be in the wrong mindset for this... You dont know if the metro is good enough for her? DONT SEEK HER APPROVAL! She will just have to like it and if shes stuck up about it then she aint so great after all. Remember shes validating herself to you dont make such a big deal over this |
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| Author: | Tasty [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:07 pm ] |
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You're coming from a frame that is opposite of where you want to be at. I read your post and its apparent that it isn't normal for you to get numbers from gorgeous girls. That is perfectly fine, I don't get HB10s numbers. It also helps to detatch yourself from "omg shes a 10", I like to think "damn she's incredibly beautiful".... I don't like objectifying girls. However, you should at least start pretending its perfectly normal and something that happens everyday Such as if you did it in front of your friend and he's like "oh my god dude, she was smokin, how'd you do it?" You could say something like "man, aint no thang" with a slight grin/smirk It's all about your mindset, she isn't higher value than you, everyone is equal. Lastly, congrats on the number. just play it smooth and call her up and invite her to a party, the club, to dinner, whatever. |
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| Author: | Johnny 5 Star [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:07 pm ] |
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hey dizzler nice job man congrats on the HB10 IM curious on how this all happened what opener you used,did you stack and what did you do to kino. yeah that sucks that you dont have a ride but stay confident and show her that known of those things faze you -5star |
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| Author: | Dizzler [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:26 pm ] |
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You guys are all totally right about the mindset. I was in that mindset when I gamed her, and I need to stay in that mindset and act like this is a regular thing, and you know what, if I do it probably will become a regular thing. Here is how I'm starting out that mind set: I'm a college student and I know how to have a kick ass time, she is lucky to have met someone like me who can show her a good time around town wether it be in a Cadillac or on the metro. In regards to how this went down in what was kind of an odd situation: she was visiting her brother an came to his lab (also my lab) last night. She was staring a hole through me the entire lab, and when I noticed this I reacted in the best way I believe possible: I looked at her cracked a big white smile, and went back to work. I finished my lab early, and went out into the hallway to watch for the bus where she was standing and I said "it's waay to cold out to wait for the bus" and went on to tell her that this particular bus was notoriously late. I asked her where she was from and found out she was visiting from out of town after a little rapport about skiing and favorite types of weather, drugs and music, and police I said 'well you should give me your number and I'll show you a good time" and that was that. She wanted to know my area code (didn't have her phone on her) so she knew it was me when (if) I called. That was one of two final IOI's that struck me as damn this HB 10 wants it! The second being the thing about "you have my number, so yeaah" any observations and following advice about the described situation would be much appreciated. Regards, Diz |
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| Author: | Johnny 5 Star [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 6:34 pm ] |
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damn she is visiting i have a feeling if you play your cards right your gonna close. i like to see your getting that confidence back, just play it cool like you are doing so far man. give us an update,when you take her out -5star |
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| Author: | Dizzler [ Thu Jan 14, 2010 11:48 pm ] |
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Just called her, she didn't answer. So yeah just gonna see if she calls me back. |
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| Author: | Haash [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 4:18 am ] |
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Great man. Why dont youcall her after 2-3 days again. She is a HB10 and probably meets a lot of guys so she might not call you back again. |
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| Author: | MySmileIsARifle :-) [ Fri Jan 15, 2010 5:07 am ] |
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Post pics if you can next time you get togther with her dizz
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| Author: | Dizzler [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 8:56 pm ] |
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she flaked |
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| Author: | SpeXXX [ Mon Jan 18, 2010 9:41 pm ] |
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First, this is not even close being a field report, the thread should be moved to "Closing and Day 2's" Second, as for the topic itself, imo, you shouldn't have waited 2-3 days, because if she's a truly a 10 like you say, be sure that she meets lots of guys that approach her. Many guys have a 2-3 day calling rule, because they say that it seems too needy to call her before then, but thats just a load bs. Attraction fades away, and if you let her wait too long without adding more attraction it will eventually flake like what happened to you in this case. If your game is tight enough and you strike her world leaving her with an open jaw wanting to see you again to get more of this, you could do and call whatever and whenever you want. |
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