After pulling 100s of sets and getting loads of numbers and dates, just when I thought I was good I was denied a number - A reality check .
The Coat Checker
I would normally would not even bother getting the number or a coat checker or a bar tender. Its just one of those things that you do for fun but wouldn't care dating them. Sorry I am class conscious, My bad I know but its just who I am
So I am at my fav. club and go in to check coat where I meet this cutie 22yr old. We start flirting and through out the night between gaming other girls I'd just stop by her flirt and then make an exit making her wanting more. When ever someone else could come to check their coat I would just leave from there preserving my value and then come back later. This went on for the rest of the night but I didn't want to close her the same night.
A week later, I'm back at the club and the flirting continues from where we left. She and I start talking about sexual attraction and she admits that she find me very attactive. I'm thinking to my self - yeah Man you are in Big time She is giving me a lot of IOIs and then I ask her for her number and she Denies What !! I have picked up hotter chicks, pulled difficult sets, made girls even beg me to call them and this girl just is saying no even after giving me all these IOIs
I told her That I wouldn't chase or even pursue her so its all her lost
She askes if I am a catch and I tell her thats its for her to find out. I tell her that I dont want this to be a negotiation and that she has to make up her mind real soon because she would never meet another guy like me. she laughs in agreement but still no number !I start dancing with other girls and at some point the coat checker steps out and stands next to me. She and I start dancing and I can tell she is enjoying and then gets back to her spot. I walk up one last time and tell her that she and I should be friends and we should meet outside of this place. She smiles but still doesn't hand me her number - I'm surprised but I know this is going no where. I tried David D's like 'Give me your number, we could be friends I'm not interested in dating yet' - which by the way has stopped working for me in the last 6 months. She says why would I ever take her number if I'm not sexually attracted to her !!! _ I have been hearing this a lot in the last 6 months where girls would just want me to date them and would get offended if I just want to be friends ( PUAs any advises).
Anyways I make an exit from there thinking WFT. Just when I thought I knew a lot I screwed up !! BTW just before leaving I got a pen and a aper from the bar. Wrote : Sexual Attraction Guru.. No. 001. 100.0011. Folded the paper and went up to her and handed it pretending to be a regular guy giving her my number> she was checking someone elses coat out so I asked her to read it later, I don't know how she would react but I sure had fun messing around