Hey guys this is my first field report and i really wanted to post it because the last two nights were the first nights that ive really put what ive learned so far into action!
Dec 30th:
Just another night at the club, where we were sitting was right next to the two hottest girls in the club, and, im an open guy so all my friends know ive been looking this stuff. While the guys occasionally talked about them and we kept on having a good time, i was working the eye contact stuff on one of them (they were both like HB:9 but one looked like more of a genuine girl while the other was all made up and YES im over ambitious
:D sue me). A few guys approached and got shut down, and the girls moved away. They came back like 15 minutes later and sat down within arms length of me, i took this as an ioi btw, is it though? It was then that my friends dared me to talk to them. SO I DID. I figured the more confident looking girl was used to guys hitting on her all the time so i opened by asking advise for another girl saying, "i think you are in a similar position because you are extremely attractive." They opened up nicely (they were actually nicer than i thought) and it turned out that the other girl came to the city i go to uni in often. I told her that i would like to hang out when we go back to uni asked what the best way to get into contact with her was, she said phone and i #closed.
I talked to a few random sets after that but nothing special.
Problems: I was having a hard time with kino escalation and raising sexual tension because i was scared of them thinking i was a dirt bag.
Dec 31st: New Years
My friends made me play the 3 second game, which they thought would be funny seeing me get shot down and also thought i was full of shit and wouldn't do it. Nice to say they ate their words. The problem with this game is that i had no time to make up anything to say. Check this, all i did was walk up and introduce myself and went from there, which is what ive been doing all these years and got rejected but i switched it up! I read the 24 alpha male nonverbal cues, used those and closely watched my speech and maintained eye contact and it was amazing. I didnt even have to escalate kinos, they were doing it for me LOL. no closes this night though, i didnt want any numbers and i need help with k closes.
Problems: i cant k close! I need help in this area. Do i just have to suck it up and go for the kill? what do i say? whats a good test to see if its relatively safe to move in (if there any)?
I also suck at reading ioi's, if anyone has any links for it i would really appreciate that.
Yes im really new at this!