Thanks man, for the love and for the idea that you just gave me.
Initiative, that is one of the characteristics of an alpha male. The guy who takes charge. Think about it, not many of us are natural leaders, most of us are used to be beta males or following decisions that others make for us. Ok, we are all rebels, telling others and ourselves that we go our own way. Yeah, thats true, in theory, we dont agree with others and we have strong opinions that are more well thought through than other people normally have. Thats what we think at least.
What we dont have is the initiative. All the rebelling presupposes that we have something to rebel against. We merely take whats already there and revolt against it. We just take an already existing action and change it to our liking. So even if we are disagreeing we are still bound by the choices others present us with.
The thing here is that a real alpha male makes decisions, he tells people what choices they have and does not care if they follow or not. He does not wait for the map before chosing his path. He just goes.
We need to stop overthinking everything. We plan too much. We are too logical. We do not need to fear the unknown, why would we fear it, we will be as powerful wherever we go. Ok, we get into new situations but we bring our own skills, we can deal with anything life can throw at us. A wrong decision or impulsive action might get us into trouble but when the shit hits the fan we will still be the ones standing.
Just dot hurt others, sarge my girls or accept candy from strangers...
Ezo