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| Author: | profilactic [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | first field report of my life: feedback wanted |
I got in the field . Opened like 5 sets or so. At least I made it beyond the opnener in most of them. But there was 2 specific things that left me puzzed. -I met a really nice foreign student, alone at the bar of the party. I ran the "breakup sms" opener, transitioned with "lenght of fingers". Then ran "eyebrows" routine (you have an expressive face), and like 2 or three more attarction routines until i reached the "hug test". I ran it, she gave me the first hug, a floppy one. I told her that she needed to do it better otherwise she would stay in the friends zone and she said she like that zone. But she invited me to met her friend and the such. We met them and then a cockblocker took her away. I continued my task of opening sets and I found the foreign student again. She offered me some beer and was actually very open to me, like some iois. I ran the "questions and false answers" routine and she failed it. The energy at that point got very low as some AMOGs arrived to the scene. I tried to recover it but it was impossible, so.I opted to leave and asked her if she was ok, she said Im going to bathroom, and left. I found her talking to some friends later, I approached but all I found was coldness. I blew my self out. Where did I fail? Should I have ran qualification when I found her again and she offered me that beer? The second issue is a formal one. I found my self running attraction routines to the whole set, or girls that weren't my objective. I ran attraction routines on the obstacles and didnt know how to do it to get her out of the way to speak alone with my objective. Feedback wanted Regards |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:19 am ] |
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Your not making any mistakes. If you ask 100 guys they will tell you 100 different answers. The important thing is to keep trying. It's great that you are asking for detailed advice and guidance, but remember YOU are a person. You don't need these lines and routins to get girls. You just need confidence and it comes from pratice. Your practice is going to set you free. You didn't do anything wrong. Keep trying. |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 10:47 am ] |
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Thats a quality question. You are really trying to break the code of the pick up for yourself. But as I can see from your style of writting you got some inner work to do. Im an inner guy, so I say that to everybody. What I think went down is, you approached a girl but you unconciously were needy and you wanted to get her to want you. Ask yourself.. are you trying to get the love and approaval from women. If yes, admit that in yourself, and than work on letting it go. When you do, and than go talk to girls, you will find that girls want to be arround you because youre a cool guy and girls dig cool guys. Probably the answer to everything is learn to become cool. O and as for the interaction above, you didnt create enough attraction with that girl. I dont think you communicated sexually. I remember when I use to do that. I would talk to girls, made them laugh, but things didnt seem to work. What I found out was, that I didnt had the sexual confidence in it, so the girls didnt feel attraction for me. And the way you develop sexual confidence is by knowing that you can blow a womans mind in bed. Find out how to do that, and youre "problems" will go away. |
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| Author: | speed-bird [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 7:47 pm ] |
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I agree with Magnum and Fantom. You're probably in the same head space as myself right now, subconsciously you see one girl and develop an immediate case of momentary one-itis. The thing to remember is that your 'objective girl' isn't the only girl in the place that you're interested in. The more sets you run, the less you care about each of them. From the number of sets you opened it sounds like you're on the right track. You probably need to just step back a little and look at the bigger picture from the point of view of 'working the room' as opposed to just focusing on the specific set you're in. By all means analyze the set and work on the details of your routines, but at the same time don't forget about the effect you're having on the rest of the room. The fact that you're in sets means that you're not a wall flower, and that adds value to you. HBs in other sets probably aren't aware that you're struggling with your set, for all they know you could be the life and soul of the party. |
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