I'm new to PUA and decided this thursday that it's time to start practising some stuff! Me and a buddy (doesnt even know PUA exists, but im giving him some advices) decided to go out to our fav place.
So i'm walking down the street to my favourite bar, and its really crowded outside. Someone calls my name, its my friend who's sitting outside with a group of people (HB9 there that i know because she's my bassplayers GF). "Alright", I thought, "display of social status". I see some more people I know and have a small talk with them before I go inside.
Inside me and my buddy dance to some songs and because its Drum & Bass, and we're pretty good at dancing to that music, we get quite some eyecontact from the women on the dancefloor.
The HB9 I mentioned before comes in and starts dancing with us. I neg her (dunno what anymore, was too drunk at the end of the night) and she laughs. She starts making conversation and I put my hand on her lower back while talking to her. As I look over HB9's shoulder I see an HB8 that I've always had a little thing for (but never acted on it, i just saw her in clubs sometimes). I saw she was making eye contact and she had a smile on her face, but I refocussed on the HB9.
-Oh yeah good to mention: I made absolutely sure that she could not sense I was after her- After some talking and dancing I see my sister entering the club, with an HB7 on her side. My sister comes up to me and gives me a hug and I cheek kiss the HB7 while I tell my sister "Hey I thought I asked you to bring cute friends" The HB7 took the neg perfectly. While talking to them I notice the HB9 trying to get my attention but I ignore her a little. My sister and her HB7 decide to go to the next club and the HB7 was almost begging me to come with them, but I didnt want to as she wasnt my target so I pointed to my cheek and she kissed me on it as expected. I go back to my HB9's male-friend to talk while building up tension with the HB9. She's sending me IOI's non stop even though her BF and I are friends, which is pretty cool to me
I also give her a few more negs. Anyway they had to go early but the HB9 gave me her bracelet before they left and said that she'd come to get it back some time. So fast forward to the end of the night (just chilled with friends). Me and my buddy walk out of the club and The HB8 from way before walks past me and just eyefucks me for 6 seconds as she walks by. So I turn to my friend and say like "was that just me or?" and he confirmed it. We get our bikes and I decide to yell at them like "Hey where are you going". I know this isnt the best way but I had a few drinks by then and I just did whatever came to mind. The HB8 and her friend come back and stand close to me, smiling, giving me IOI's. I tell them "lets go somewhere to have an after party" The HB8 complies but says she's gotta get up early for work the next day so she wont make it a late-nighter. We go up to a bar but its closed, like the rest of the bars in town. Things kind of go downhill and I say "well why dont we just chill out at your place then?" to both girls, they say "yeah" and go back to pick up their bikes, we decide to wait at the end of the street, not wanting to follow them back and looking needy. But as the girls walk back other girls swarm them and start talking to them. I look one last time at the HB8 and she looks at me while talking to her friends from afar, and I decide to go home with my buddy. It took her too long and I didnt want to seem desperate waiting there untill she was finished talking , nor did i want to go back to get her.Ok so sorry for the wall of text
I hardly mention my friend because he was really shy and even though i told him some things and told him to watch me neg / push-pull he couldnt do anything, I introduced him to all the people I was talking to but he didnt seem that interested.Anyway, even though I didnt close anything that night, it gave me a shitload of confidence and more motivation to try it again next week. Also I think i might have warmed-up the HB8 for a next encounter, i'll neg her right away about her missing out on a great party the night before or whatever. The HB9 is my friends GF so i dont think ill do anything with her, unless they break up soon. Me and my buddy could tell she wanted me, bad.
Any advice? pointers? thanks in advance