I haven't been out too much during the summer so didn't know how this was going to go down. Too much drinking with friends and cabin trips with minimal amount of girls
But now I was visiting my wing in a town he spends his summer in, so we hit the club. We needed to get back into game.I approached the first girl I saw next to a bar and talked to her for a while but nothing special. She was also visiting. After getting drinks we went to the dance floor and after like 2 min of dancing I saw a blond girl with some tattoos on her back. I spin her around and put her “spin”-hand on my shoulder and start dancing with her. This girl was fun and also visiting from another city (a lot of visitors in this place I guess.) We made some crazy dance moves and spilled our drinks onto some older woman. She had to go to bathroom and I let her go, don’t want to follow her around and I might run into her again cause night is young. I continue dancing with my two friends. Other one sees a girl he knows from somewhere and I join them and I ask for a hug from the girl cause “It’s my birthday”. After we hug I admit it’s not my birthday but I like hugs. She tells me it’s actually her name day and we hug again. My friends thought I knew the girl but I was just in a good state so it looked like we were old friends. Girls leave and we dance some more, I try to avoid a pushy older women coming on to me and so on…
We get off the dance floor and I talk to Estonian girl, who my friend then starts to game. I join 2 “girls” who turn out to be over forty. Looked younger though, and I try to warm up the blond one but I’m apparently too young for them.. I find another woman older than me, she’s drinking wine and although the face shows her age a little bit, she still has a nice body. I make some jokes to her but then leave to another floor with my friends. My tactics on that moment forward was simple: If I met a girl outside of dance floor, I would flirt with her and then just drag her to dance floor. If she was already dancing I would just get myself right next to her and try to dance with her.
I spin couple of girls around and dominate the dance moves, then I sit down with them of a sofa somewhere. Unfortunately I was getting too drunk and probably lost some girls because I couldn’t read the situation so well anymore. Luckily I met the wine drinking older chick again and she’s impressed by my fancy dance moves. We sit down afterwards and chat. I kino her and probably kiss-closed too. It’s soon closing time so I suggest a friends place for after party where my friend would play piano for us cause he’s like a true musical genius. (I reality he can only play couple of simple songs for children) She invites me to her place though, which is even better, and so I go with her and we have sex.
My two wing-friends get girls too, the other one is with Estonian girl but he has no place to take her, and the other one ended up playing children songs with the piano for his girl.
Next night it’s the same place, despite of me protesting cause I’m only visiting and would have liked to see new places. On the line in I start talking to girls behind us and try on one of their headbands, nothing too special but trying to warm up. On a karaoke floor I see I pretty girl in a red dress that brings up her curves. She’s in a big mixed group. I’m sitting comfortably so I wave her to come over. She does and I tell her sit on my lap. She refuses, but I was prepared that she would so I just make room for her next to me. We talk for a while but my stories and jokes are not so smoking yet so she leaves. Next we go to the disco floor where next to a bar I talk to a girl who has a drink in both hands. I joke to her that she’s way too busy getting drunk fast. I taste her drinks and they taste very strong so I continue teasing her that she drinks like a sailor. She leaves with her friends though and I don’t follow cause I think it would be too needy after such a sort interaction. I see the red dressed girl again and drag her to dance floor right away. We dance close to each other. I look into her eyes and try to escalate to kissing but she refuses time after time, although I play it cool in between. Then I notice that she has upper braces so maybe that’s why. We chat by the bar for a while, but part ways. After this something happens to my state. I’m drinking less now than the previous night but as s side effect I’m feeling tired and I’m loosing momentum. My two friends don’t help either cause they are tired and leaving early. The other wing from previous night is doing well though, but so well that he has no time to help me get my mojo back. So I open girls but now I’m chasing state and openers are pretty joyless and tired and results are therefore bad also.
I have had this problem before. Second night doesn’t click the right way.. Even if I’ve been sober the previous night, I somehow can’t find my happy place on second night. Something to do with inner game control of course. All in all a nice comeback to night game.
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