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| Author: | Marc [ Mon Jul 06, 2009 2:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Making Friends with the AMOG |
I chose to Take a different stand than most of the AMOG techniques described out here. I chose to go the traditional way of not DLVing anyone, being polite and respectable to people and not being rude (MY parents would be soooo proud !!! haha..). This happened around 3 weeks back. This place is a high end bar where one could sit and talk without screeming on top of their voice like most clubs around. I see a 3 set and a few feet away a group of guys deciding to approach the set.(You can tell by the way the guys look at the girls). I jump right in and open the 3 set before the group of guys get there and then within minutes we are all sitting at a table talking and laughing. 15 mins later Amog from the group of guys enters the set, leans over the table and says something that i cant remember. I see that one of the girls in the 3 set instantly gives him IOIs. This guy is ignoring me and talking to the group. And he says AMOG: Why dont the 3 of you join us (ignoring me) Marc: Hi dude, kindly have a seat. You seem like a nice guy to speak with. (His attitude towards me changes a little when he sees that I'm not competing with him but shockingly complementing him). But he still tries AMOG: Your shirt looks soo gay, are you into guys. Girls, doesn't his shirt look gay Marc: Smiling....funny, your a funny guy. (In a low deep Alpha Male tone) Marc: So who are your friends, are you guys having a good time. AMOG: blah blah, yes Marc: Before you came in we were talking about how women are better liars than men because men get caught all the time, what do you think. AMOG: Blah Blah Marc: (turning to the girls, I start another thread and all the time after making them laugh I would ask him for his opinion or involve him in the conv.) I was controlling the frame, giving AMOG value and leading conv. all the time. One of the girls spoke about her trip to Egypt and the Pyramids. I had been there and we exchanged thoughts over places, another girl had been to australia and since I had been there too we spoke of specific restaurants there. I Then turned to the AMOG and Marc:Buddy, do you like travelling, have you been to any place outside of the US or even in the US AMOG: No not much, Marc: Ok, actually a lot of people get caught in their daily lives that they dont have time for much travelling I guess. (I tried to save his face, he knew it, the girls caught it and I was being polite) On another occassion, The girl who was first giving him IOIs said that she likes to play tennis. And I shared thoughts on grass courts v/s clay courts since I play tennis too. Marc to AMOG: So (name) what do you do outside of work. AMOG: Blah Blah. Marc: Thats nice I involved him in the group but he didnt add any value to the conv. and hence he was loosing frame control. Anyways, after 15 mins he left the table, excusing himself. I honestly did not want to DLV him and the only thing that I did was: Frame Control, Unreactive to his comments, Funny and making everyone laugh, Sharing passions and bringing out the best in those girls, getting to know the person behing those big breasts. The best part was the girl who was giving him IOIs earlier was the first one to call him wierd when he left the table. I personally liked the way that I handled the AMOG and thats actually the way I handle AMOGs by being non reactive yet talking to them. I mean AMOGs are not your enemies, they are just people who need to DLV others inorder to get the attention of the girl. But your witt, humor could blow them off the water and you dont even have to DLV anyone if thats not in your personality. |
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| Author: | VineLe [ Mon Jul 06, 2009 4:25 am ] |
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This is very impressive, very nice work. It speaks a lot to your character that you are able to handle yourself with this kind of maturity and grace. Did you find you had to have practiced this beforehand, or did it require constant thought and attention to detail, or did you find this came naturally? I wonder how fellow PUAs can train themselves to remain calm in pressure situations, and respond in such an alpha manner. Again, great job man. |
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| Author: | Marc [ Sat Jul 11, 2009 2:34 pm ] |
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Quote: This is very impressive, very nice work. It speaks a lot to your character that you are able to handle yourself with this kind of maturity and grace.
I grew up around a lot of Alpha males, gyus who were captain of industries, guys who would be in control and take charge. Until I discovered the PUA community I didnt know that those were alpha male traits. I lead a group of professionals myself at work.Did you find you had to have practiced this beforehand, or did it require constant thought and attention to detail, or did you find this came naturally? I wonder how fellow PUAs can train themselves to remain calm in pressure situations, and respond in such an alpha manner. Again, great job man. So, I guess its just being congruent with who you are. I dont need to use F-bombs or DLV anyone in a set to prove to the girls that I am a better man. In fact if you read my post I was trying to at one point help him save his face too. |
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| Author: | PUA_Ben_brown [ Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:46 am ] |
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wow !! Marc you handled yourself with soo much grace. Siince you did not DLV the AMOG, would you say that in itself was a DHV for you in the set. Weren't you afraid that the AMOG might steal your set? You let someone else come into your set, try to game your girls and you still were very calm. amazing !! I enjoyed reading your post. You have a very strong frame and matured approach. Congrats !! 
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